Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but I went today. And I heard her and her friend saying she got a new job where her boyfriend works at. She was talking to her friend right by me so I can hear this.
She didn't talk to me at all at school. So I didn't bother talking to her and looking at her at all.
When I was about to leave she got out of class and I saw her and as soon as I saw her I look away fast. Then she called her friend to get out of class than I left.
What do you think that meant?^

2007-01-10 17:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-10 17:21:44 · 5 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

happiness is a feeling ? yes.
and you can or can't buy happyiness ?

2007-01-10 17:21:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive had oral sex with him and other things, but not sex. he says he is not easy and that he wants to wait it out. why? guys help me with this....we've gotten close but not really. he's only been with 2 girls

2007-01-10 17:20:31 · 18 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to choose wedding colors and i realy like sapphire blue, royal red, and white. I'm wondering if this is a bad idea or if it could turn into a neat theme. Please help

thanx in advince : )

2007-01-10 17:18:58 · 18 answers · asked by chaosnewgo 2 in Weddings

what sort of things do you like girls to say to you? (compliments specifically, etc.)

2007-01-10 17:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a beach wedding i want something white but comfertable and contemporary and about just below my knees. does anyone know of any websites i can look at to get some ideas?

2007-01-10 17:18:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been seeing this chick for a couple weeks, shes pretty cool, but still seems to have an attachment with her ex, that she "hates" I actually kinda dig her, but should I just ditch her with no contact for good. She keeps calling and texting at night. So my question is....Should I ditch her, or save her from some idiot who wouldnt know how to treat a chick if he tried????Cause I could!!!!!!!

2007-01-10 17:18:21 · 10 answers · asked by dwntwnbadboy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 17:16:37 · 6 answers · asked by WQ 1 in Weddings

Well here is the deal my husband is distant and moody. he works all day and into the night and gets home at 9 or 10. he walks through the door and immedatly starts yelling at me. What should i do?

2007-01-10 17:15:00 · 36 answers · asked by motherandwife3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like and beginning to love this guy and it is immensely hard for me to concentrate for exams and FINALS are coming up! I am planning to tell my feelings to him tomorrow at school, but from a girl's perspective should I tell him my feelings or wait for him to tell me......I think he likes me because he wait for me after some of my classes, and walk with each often, jokes around with me frequently. SO do you think he like me or am I imagining it? I can't stop thinking about him and my heart yearns for his presence everyday at school. Please someone be kind enough to help!--This is my first love, so I am afraid if I tell him he might reject me, but I don't know....Thanks

2007-01-10 17:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know when the right time is to tell a man you think your falling in love with him? How soon is too soon? I don't want to scare him off.

2007-01-10 17:13:33 · 13 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Singles & Dating

So I was checking out my new crush ther other day, and I think she's starting to think something's up. I noticed that she's been starring at more often now. What do u think this means?
I also heard her mention, that she likes big built guys, so i'm starting to doubt if she's even gay,

2007-01-10 17:13:01 · 2 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to adopt my stepdaughter. But court costs have already been high with the termination of parental rights of the birth father, and I need the stepparent petition for adoption in Washington state. I am hoping someone can point me in the right direction at little or no cost. Thank you!

2007-01-10 17:12:20 · 4 answers · asked by compguru81 1 in Family

2007-01-10 17:10:43 · 7 answers · asked by paul14692004 1 in Singles & Dating

Uh sorry, i know awkward, but I could potentially find myself in that situation, as a girl, what usually happens afterward, assuming no sex will happen...? is it just like "well OKAY that was excellent, wanna watch some tv?" kinda thing or more fondling/kissing/lying together & relaxing?

2007-01-10 17:09:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Father had a prevoius mariage before he maried my mom and had three kid. Two daughter who where named Corrine and Angilia. Angilia is the oldest and Corrine is the youngest. They have I brother named Brandon in the midle. I would like to find out who my half brother is. Can I track him down?

2007-01-10 17:09:47 · 5 answers · asked by andrea0428@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

2007-01-10 17:08:22 · 36 answers · asked by kashifunnisa k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've liked a guy at my school for about 2 or 3 years. From what we've learned from one another, he's liked me too. Last year we both knew we liked each other but neither of us said anything and things slowly fell apart. He began to ignore me, and i didnt know why so I gathered up the courage to ask him one day. His "answers'' only raised more questions and left me confused and hurt. But I continued to talk to him, afraid of losing him as a friend. I was constantly afraid that I would start to like him again, because I didnt want to experience that same hurt all over again. But that's what eventually happened, and he seemed to like me back. I never told him that I liked him, and I dont know if i should.. but he's so hard to read and I can't figure him out. One day he seems to treat me like he really likes me, and the next day he spends the entire day talking to other girls. What am I supposed to do? Should I tell him how i feel and take the risk or just move on?

2007-01-10 17:05:54 · 17 answers · asked by lemonade 1 in Singles & Dating

he is addicted to porn. he says he wants to stop looking at it, and i want to help, but whenever i think about him doing it, it hurts me so badly. i dont know how to help him or what to do... any suggestions... people with experience in this?? please help.

2007-01-10 17:05:45 · 24 answers · asked by caseyrae 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:05:15 · 27 answers · asked by fabulosity 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in the heat of things i was "razor-sharp" short temper and mean and insulted "him"
1.WHAT SHOULD I DO?-----fyi apologized already----would i be forgiven?
2. does he still love me or he hates my guts right now?
3. what are signs that can show me/ help me predict what he is thinking? (do not see him regularly before)
4. would he do something rash cuz of what i said?
FYI: relationship type ----long distance
*if possible plz state age and gender in response*
thx to all the ppl who ans this question : o)
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2007-01-10 17:04:21 · 2 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:03:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no evidence about her cheating on me but I can feel it. The reason I think she is, is because every time she goes out she never answers her phone and the only thing I can think is she has something to hide. What do you think? the funny thing is every time it happens she says shes sorry and wont do it again and she does. The thing is I just want to know the trouth because I am faithfull bucaus I dont beleve in cheating but the most important thing is iv been turning down some cool girls because "I have a girl friend" Ha Ha Ha! so what do you think?

2007-01-10 17:01:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If someone you were dating did one of the following:
-took a little pebble that they had found in your hair and saved it on their nightstand
-carried around a strand of your hair
-took a strand of your hair and told you they were going to use it for black magic to make you love them

These things all happened to me with different guys, who seemed pretty normal except for this one thing...what do you think? Are these guys freaks? Or does this happen with other people? And why the obsession with my hair? LOL

2007-01-10 17:00:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy early november and we were dating for 2 months. I loved the fact that he treated me like a queen never pressured me for sex. A week ago we actually were intimate and he hasn't called me since!! I KNOW I didn't do anything wrong... he told me he loved me n' everything!! Why did he do that if I played hard to get for 2 months!! I thought guys liked that and it actually made them respect a girl. I hate him! Why do guys do that?

2007-01-10 17:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by kj_agui 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this might sound a bit weired for me to ask but i really really need help..
i love this person sooo much,i cant imagine my life with this person but am not soo good at expressin my feelings,i want to say that i love u and i cant imagine my life without but in more romantic way
please advice me

2007-01-10 17:00:40 · 2 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Singles & Dating

Should I get to wear flippers when we go to the pool?

2007-01-10 17:00:25 · 9 answers · asked by BUM 2 in Marriage & Divorce