2007-01-10 17:08:22 · 36 answers · asked by kashifunnisa k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
there is no truth in your statement. there are couples who love each other even after 50 years of marriage life.and there are couples who have no good relationships though they have married only 1 month back. but to some extent, after giving birth to children, women tend to love her children and that does not mean that she ceased loving her husband.
2007-01-10 18:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very versatile term. Every relationship is sustained with love, even enimity( if you dont love to remail in a state of arogance with a person you cannot sustain the feelings) therefore love has to be there in everything.
As per your question there will always be love between a husbent and wife evenafter long years of marriage but it may take a different form.
If your question is intented twards sex then it may or may not stay that prominently or it may so happen that we as human beings may not get arroused much by the touch of the same person after a period of time but as we are very adaptable to any circumstances we will just have to try and see things in a differeny manner and if we can do that I am pretty sure we will even find sex after several years of marriage, but sex is only a small part of love love is like an universe where sex is jista small plannet
2007-01-11 22:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by siddhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love in your life did not go missing one fine morning after you woke up on the 7 th year did it? it was lost in the long term of 7 years. If love was there it stays only if you reinforce it. Not becuase it might be there just coz you are hus and wife. love is something that should grow strong in 7 years...not diminish. It diminished bcoz neither of you cared about showing it to each other. ppl often mistake love with lust. But that is a mistake dunb teenaged girls make not a husband and wife married for 7 years. Go for a councelling and find out whats creating the ever increasing gap between you two and destroy it...good luck with your life.
2007-01-10 17:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are talking about the 7 year itch? which means, the relationship begins to take on another phase from the honeymoon phase. It does not mean the love has died. Just means you and your spouse have become to be more comfortable with one another. Sometimes if one of you begins to be bored is usually because the other one has started to take the marriage for granted and has stopped doing the romantic things that used to keep the feeling between you alive. Marriage with alot of work from both parties can be a wonderful and life lasting experience. Bonding with your partner by being friends is one of the surest ways to ensure for a long lasting marriage.
2007-01-11 05:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be at any time. Love can end at any time. Love can end after 7 days of marriage. Love can continue after 70 years of marriage. Love is affection between 2 living persons.
2007-01-10 19:45:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to this girl for the last 10 years and I am still so much in love. Anyway, let me tell you the full story. I married as per my fantasy, that is a plump and somewhat fat girl, a love goddess, against the advise of my friends who felt that I should marry a model type, slim, long legged girl. I don't know but, even after 10 years, the moment I see my wife, I become hot. the whole night and also the part of the day I am at home I am touching, kissing, licking, biting my wife. She gives me all her bulk to enjoy but still I don't get enough. The more I enjoy her, the more thirsty I am for her. Though she is sleeping naked next to me, I still dream about her.
2007-01-10 17:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a "love marriage", your love might fade away in 3-7 years (50% chance). If you had a committed arr aged marriage, your love and marriage will last for ever, assuming that there are no other family problems
2007-01-14 02:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by drvenu88gopal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just celebrated our 7Th year of marriage and sometimes we are like two kids and other times its just a kiss and hug before bed. I think its up to the couple what happens and how you deal with it. I want it all the time but sometimes he isn't in the mood or our son needs my attention which puts dad off. I would work through it but understand and just wait for the moment to find its way around again..try doing things you haven't done in awhile like..both come home for lunch :) no kids around, Still spark there if you look for it..Good Luck
2007-01-10 17:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by enoughmichele04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are referring to “The seven year itch.” Well it is not true, what is true is, “Till death do us part.” This is my definition of the ‘Seven-year Itch’…
Marriage is a sacred relationship, which takes a lot of wear and tear.
Like all things that are supposed to last a lifetime needs sound care,
‘The Seven Year Itch’ is a self-styled marriage maintenance conception.
Every seven years, marriage is reviewed by honest self-retrospection,
The flaws of both should be discussed and scratched off congenially…
And the rejuvenated married couple should move ahead ever lovingly.
2007-01-10 20:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how serious you both are about having a lasting marriage.of course its not the same as in first years once kids arrive they will take over your time and energy. u should make it a point to have quality time with each other ,if that means leaving ur kids and going out for dinner the two of you.i like to spend every second with my husband.
2007-01-10 18:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋