do you think shes cheating?

Question

I have no evidence about her cheating on me but I can feel it. The reason I think she is, is because every time she goes out she never answers her phone and the only thing I can think is she has something to hide. What do you think? the funny thing is every time it happens she says shes sorry and wont do it again and she does. The thing is I just want to know the trouth because I am faithfull bucaus I dont beleve in cheating but the most important thing is iv been turning down some cool girls because "I have a girl friend" Ha Ha Ha! so what do you think?

Answer 1

If you THINK she's cheating, then she IS cheating. A relationship is forged by both people... it can't be one-sided. Time to move on.

Answer 2

Maybe yes or maybe no.But I'm a female and when I was in a relationship I would do the same thing. So it must be some else she is serious with cause she wants to show him the same respect. pay attention to how much she answer the phone around you for other people then ask her why you never answer the phone for me like that when i call. Cheating is obvious, so be detective and find out. Get you some friends and let them know you situation so when you break up you will not be alone. She wont.

Answer 3

i think that u need to have more substantial proof that someone is cheating then this to call it quits, maybe its u that wants out and go be with the "cool girls" and ur trying to find a reason.. so far all u've said is u dont trust her because shes not at your beck and call 24/7 guess what thats life and if u cant get over that then u dont need to be with anyone.. u cant control a person, u just have to have faith in the fact that they love you and wont cheat on you..if they want to cheat they will and u wont be able to stop it.. but if thats all u have to go on is cause she doesnt answer the phone, then thats not enough.. if shes at a club its hard to hear a phone over the music, alot of people dont want to carry anything on them other then cash and their license when they go into a club..or anywhere that they worry their purse may get lost or stolen.. or maybe she's so sick of having to check in with u every time she turns around that she just turns it off cause she wants some free time to herself with out be interegated.. i think the problem lies in ur own insecurity not that shes actually cheating..

Answer 4

I'm all for the gut, but the evidence you've presented isn't very convincing. She's cheating b/c she doesn't answer her cell phone? Maybe she needs some time away from you or feels stifled and is tired of you calling her every time she's away.

And yeah, maybe she's cheating, but maybe you are, too. Point is, until you have the discussion and find out the real problem, this is all pointless speculation.

Answer 5

All a bunch of conjecture...... if it were a court of law the case would be thrown out due to a severe lack of evidence ( as well as effort).

If you want to break up with her, do so........
If you want the relationship to continue, ask her if there's something or someone else in her life.

I guess I have two questions back at you though;
1- Why don't you go with her wherever she's going?
2- Why do you call her all the time when she's gone?

Sounds like you two aren't communicating, and it feels like you are a bit too 'needy' with the constant phone calls.

Answer 6

When you say that you have no evidence of her cheating where have you looked? Have you looked on her cell phone for unusual phone numbers or text messages?
Have you asked her family and friends?
Where does she say she is going when she goes out?
Have you followed her to see where she goes?
I know from past experience that mobile phones don't work in pubs, my dh used to go to the pub and turn his phone off so i knew that he was in the pub.
If there really is no evidence that she is not having an affair then maybe you need to get some help for your jealousy?

Answer 7

Hey bro, I had a similar experience with my ex as well. I was always catching her doing the exact thing. I never had proof while we were together and everytime i'd ask her about cheating she would say I'm being paranoid.

Well a month ago I found out that not only was the ***** cheating on me, but she was also robbing me blind with her crackhead lover. They got me for about $40 large and were taking out loans against me.

I'm sorry to be so blunt, but it is usually worse than you ever think.

My advise to is go **** another chick and get a copy of your last credit report!!!

GOOD LUCK!

ALWAYS GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING!!!

Answer 8

I think that there is definetly a possibility! She may if you have that feeling. Another thing is check her phone for any odd #'s. Or I knew my boyfriend was cheating when he would never bring his phone around me he would leave it in the car or take it everywhere he went or would turn off the ringer. Dont look past it dont freak out but definetly take it into consideration

Answer 9

the thing i found out about girls is: if they want to do something without your knowledge they can and will. I f you think that she is usually she might. the best advice i can give you is if the relationship is not serious enough on both parties that she cant respect you wishes then you might be better off with some one that will.

oh !!don't fall for that sex trick either cause if you got it like you say you do then that shouldn't be a problem.

Answer 10

I dont know about cheating! Actually kind of doubt it, when she's out with friends, having fun, dancing, and stuff, she aint going to pick up her phone no matter who you are, and ya know, there is a lot of time people just dont pick up their phones because they are pre occupied. So dont be insecure and take it as an insult, be thankful that she has a life, and dosent dwell/ask on you for evrything she does!!!!!!

Answer 11

There would be more evidence than her not answering her phone, because my phone is always on vibration so I miss a lot of my calls. I do call back when I have noticed that I missed the calls. Don't worry because it will come out sooner or later if she is messing around.