ive had oral sex with him and other things, but not sex. he says he is not easy and that he wants to wait it out. why? guys help me with this....we've gotten close but not really. he's only been with 2 girls
2007-01-10 17:20:31 · 18 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said he wants me to be his gf first. i'm not used to that. he takes me out and treats me real well but i never know what to give him in return since he doesnt let me please him?
2007-01-10 17:27:39 · update #1
Respect his dicision. You don't find a lot of guys like that, if it was another he sure would have done it. It makes you look easy. He doesn't want to because he probably wants to get to know you more. Wants to make sure you are the right girl before having sex. Ask him why he does not want to have sex.
2007-01-10 17:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men do actually think as women do and don't want to be promiscuous. For men that a sign of achievement to sleep with a lot of women but, when a woman does it she's a slut. Don't know why people still think that way but, they do. There are more things to a relationship besides sex if you want a real relationship. Respect that this man may want more from you than just your body. Could be he interested in making love to your mind and heart first. He may be a keeper because, you hardly find that in most men.
2007-01-10 17:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are too sensitive, you may said something during sex that offended him. Once in phone I asked a girl to explain how she likes that when we met I do the same, she said: " You want m***, I get offended and when we met, I told her that I was not ready....in general many girls not considering guys feeling
2007-01-10 18:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger guy and merely step out of it. If she's that unfastened along with her time, have confidence me...her husband is conscious. and you're no longer the 1st the two. You deserve a woman who can commit completely and thoroughly to you. the certainty that she's persevering with you does make her untrustworthy. Does make her a liar. Is that what you like? in spite of if she left him, is she what you like? A liar, a cheater, a manipulator? pass on. You owe her (somebody like that whose cheating on their companion) no clarification at fascinated in something you do, so go away.
2016-11-28 03:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy is the same believe it or not...maybe he just sees sex as a big step and isnt ready to go there, maybe he feels that sex complicates relationships....only way to find out for sure is ask HIM
2007-01-10 17:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the popular belief that evey guy is a horn dog, its not true. Some guys have moral religious beliefs that influence the way they carry out sexual relationships. Sex does not= love.
2007-01-10 17:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be having a moral battle. He may think he should wait until marriage. Ask him and listen and allow him feel comfortable enough for him to explain. If you guys can't talk about that yet, then sexual intimacy may be advancing too quickly anyways.
2007-01-10 17:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's more than likely gay. I know a few girls who have the same exact story. Look at the bright side - you'll have a new shopping buddy who you can talk to about the guys you date.
2007-01-10 17:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to get you pregnant
He is not ready for a serious relationship
He is having sex with someone else
He is gay
2007-01-10 17:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it cross your mind he might have AIDS or worse HIV POSITIVE something is wrong other then him not being ready.Maybe he has a girlfriend somewhere and as long as he doesn't put it in you he feels like he isn't cheating on her.You do no guys think that way don't you?
2007-01-10 17:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋