Move in with the girl i like before getting married just to get an idea of what it would be like......or does dat come after marriage and leave it as a surprise?
2007-01-10 17:32:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you get the opportunity to live together short term, thry it out and when you are ready to get married if it works out move out and into a new place andd really enjoy each other...be sure you are of legal age to shack up
2007-01-10 17:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by majickspocketpc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no lol its a very good idea to live with each other before you get married that way you really know the person. the person could seem nice and clean and then once living together be a grouchy slob that does nothing but watch tv and stuff candy papers in the couch. make sure you can actually live with the person before you get married and plan on spending the rest of your life together. besides a break up is a lot easier than a divorce.
2007-01-10 18:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The suprise is not worth it - you don't necessarily need to move in to test the waters - try spending a week together somewhere or a few days together just to see what the "living patterns" are like between each other...I don't think it takes too long to see whether you are going to be able to tolerate each other - sometimes every day things like how you sip your coffee can drive each other nuts to the point of disaster!!!
2007-01-10 17:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by mymrboris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told this in the 6th grade:
If you want to find out what kind of a person someone is (you know organized, ready willing and able, a complainer, high maintenance, a do nothing a lump on a log.) if they can carry their own weight you'll find out all this and more if you take them camping I mean roughing it too sleeping bag on the ground stuff here. Don't buy the ring if she's not worth her weight in the sand you are going to tell her to go pound after you find out she's a bum!
2007-01-10 18:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say if you really like (or love) her, move in with her but not just to see what it would be like, do it to see if you are compatible with each other. People can be together for years as a couple but once they move in together, they find out that they were better off with separate living arrangements. If you wait, it may be a surprise that you wish you did not have. But if you do move in with her, do it for love, not curiosity.
2007-01-10 17:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by shewolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question then you might want to chill a bit before considering marriage. Leaving it as a suprise could see you spending THOUSANDS on a divorce attorney, and making payments to her for years and years to come. Get to know her better, then make your decision.
2007-01-10 18:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Love her OR U just Like her...their is a BIG difference...if u just like her than stay where u r...if u love her than it means u already know enough about that person...if u still like to be sure than there is nothing wrong in moving in with her...infact its a great idea BUT decide it for urself if you just like her or if u really love her???
2007-01-10 17:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
marriage is for better or worse for the little things...learn to love them quirks or ignore them...do you imagine your own perfection? keep it a surprise. though, you know you could always get to know each other and ask if there's any weird habits you should know about. hehe good luck
2007-01-10 17:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is the fun, if u move in first, why not married first.... its gonna be full of surprises.
2007-01-10 17:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way move in before so you know you can live with each other instead of kill each other
2007-01-10 17:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by chaosnewgo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋