Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

Ok this is kind of long so read at your own risk. I am a married 25 with 2 children, 2 different mothers. I don’t really get along with my wife’s family besides maybe a handful of people. It all started when me and wife got into a fight and her parents took her side and told me to leave their daughter alone, I was like hello jerky's I am married to your daughter how can I leave her alone? Its really awkward because at certain events I don’t go with my wife and child to lets say their family BBQ because well I don’t get along with the other half that will be there. Now today I had a little argument with my wife bcuz she almost got into the accident for being on the phone and driving. So when we get home I am like what is wrong with you, she tells me Oh you yell at me and don’t know how to talk to me, no wonder my family thinks your a jerk. I was like...hmm could it be that my wife tells her every little fight we have and telling her family one side of the story? What should I do or say?

2007-01-06 14:22:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in June. I want my dad to match my tux. My fiance and I disagree if her dad should match with us. My point is that I want something special so my dad matches me and everyone knows he is my dad. She says its not polite if her dad doesn't match us. Anyone have any advice?

2007-01-06 14:22:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-06 14:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before i was married when i was ingaged i had the best time with my fiancay than after we got married he changed alot like i married som1 else.he doesnt talk to me he just ignores me and never took me out to a movie or dinner nothing like that.i just stay home and my mother-inlaw is soo mean and soo JEALOUS of me. she doesnt want me to feel like im married to her son.she screams at me.i get disrespected by my husbans mother and him.i try to tell my husnband how painful i feel about this marriage. i just clean the house like a made for the family of my husband & i just stay home.my brother tells me so many times to divorce that ************ before its too late to find another husband to have a great life with.but i love him too much even if he doesnt treat me as a wife.my mom keeps telling me to not be scared and stop being shy and talk to your husband stand up for yourself.but im just too shy and scared to tell my husband what should i do?
he has a cell phone store but doesnt buy me1

2007-01-06 14:21:38 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bestfriend is mad or upset with me becasue i wont go to the bars with her any more since ive started seeing my boyfriend ( been dating for 3 months now ) she said that i've changed and i dont wanna go do anything with her anymore . I still go an see her an hang out with her but every time i go to her house she wants to go to the bar. I have told her i cant that im seeing my bf and dont think he would like it to much. now she hardly speaks to me at all! i've talked to my bf about this but he hates her so he is no help.
does she have a reason to be so mad at me?

2007-01-06 14:19:56 · 23 answers · asked by " Dixieland Delight " 3 in Singles & Dating

- shes annoying
-i try to ignore her
- she deosnt leave me alone
- she wont accept the fact that ":i have a girlfriend!!" and... she wont elave me alone!! wat do i do?>?!

2007-01-06 14:19:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so I lost all my friends cause I lwanted this man and i thought he loved me!! help I need someone to talk to i am going crazy!!!
what do i do??

2007-01-06 14:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my boyfriend has been in over 45 home filmed gay porno movies. Is he gay?
+ i have like this rash all over my crotch.
its like red dots and there pussing.
what is going on?
we have 3 kids how could he do this.
should i pretend i dont know?

2007-01-06 14:18:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at the bar the other day with my mom and her fiance and a group guys had the waitress bring me a beer.... Is it normal for guys to buy guys a beer? seemed strange

2007-01-06 14:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thank you!

2007-01-06 14:17:17 · 4 answers · asked by .....Want_To_Feel_Wanted..... 1 in Singles & Dating

I always find myself dating shorter guys, not shorter then me just same height (im 5'4) or a little taller, at most 5'7. I dont know, I like being almost same height. Its not that tall men arnt sexy, I'm just almost always attracted to shorter men. Is it weird?

2007-01-06 14:17:02 · 26 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

She knows she behaves nasty and is always stirring things up for the worst, other people have said so also.She even listens in on other people's conversations and asks them to repeat what they have said to them as she couldn't hear it and then she undermines them with her own reply.I've a good mind to tell her what I think of her and be damned with the consequences - what goes around comes around!!

2007-01-06 14:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by vuvuzela 5 in Family

A GIRL THAT YOU CAN GET LOST IN HER EYE'S WHAT I WOULD LOVE TO DO TO YOU Body: WHAT I WOULD LOVE TO DO TO YOU YOU LAY ON A BEAD OF ROSE PEDDELS THAT ARE SOFT AND SILKY AND COLD TO THE SKIN THAT GIVES YOU GOOSE BUMBS IN A DIMM ROOM WITH CANDLES AND LEFT ALLONG THE LEFT WALL, THE SOFT TIPS OF MY FINGERS BRUSH ACROSS YOUR BODY LIKE A FAN BREEZE YOUR BODY SLOWLY START TO WARM UP AND EVERY INCH OF YOU YOUR BODY FEELS LIKE IT'S BEEN HAS BEEN TEMPTED BY THE TOUCH OF EACH FEATHER BRUSH YOU START TO GRAB THE SHEETS THE FEEL SOMETHING YOU NEVER FELT BEFORE LIKE YOU HAVE THE POWER LIFT OFF THE BED EVERY INCH OF YOUR BODY IS AT IT PEAK POINT WHERE EVEN A SOFT BLOW IN THAT RIGHT SPOT COULD SEND OFF ON YOUR WAY. I MAKE MY WAY UP WITH A SOFT BREATH ACROSS YOU LEGS AS I MOVE IN THE AND YOU FEEL THE VERY VERY TOP OF THE TIP OF MY SOFT MOIST BOTTOM LIP SLOWLY GOING DOWN LOOKING IN YOU EYES LIKE AN ANGEL SOFT AND SLOW IT GOES LIKE I'M REEADING YOU MIND RIGHT WHERE I SHOULD BE YOU START TO BREATH HARDER, THE SWEAT IS COOL ON THE BODY BUT YET YO ARE WARM I CAN START TO FEEL YOUR FINGER NAILS TOUCH THE BACK OF MY HAIR BUT YOU NOT ALLOWED TOO HMMM HMMM HMMM YOU SAY THEN A FLUSH OF WARMTH FLOWS THREW YOUR BODY AND A EMTION OF SOMTHING SO STRONG WAS SOMTHING YOU NEVER HAD FELT BEFORE NOW THINK ABOUT ME AND THE TIPS OF MY FINGERS HOW CLOSE THEY ARE YOU CAN ALMOST FEEL THEM BRUSHING YOUR BODY NOW.

2007-01-06 14:16:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is very attracted to any guy. And she is very easy. I am scared that she will get her self in trouble. if you know what i mean.. she is also a little mentally challenged. but, her parents don't help her at allll. any advice on how to talk to her?? I have tried but she just says ok and goes and teases another guy. I am scared...if there are any aadvice givers...and also it would help if you had been in her situtation..i just don't want her to get raped

2007-01-06 14:15:51 · 15 answers · asked by .....Want_To_Feel_Wanted..... 1 in Friends

Will respect and honor be enough?

2007-01-06 14:15:14 · 31 answers · asked by floridasian 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so here's the story. "billy" and i have been dating for several years now, almost four years. four years next week. we are very much in love. i think he might propose soon! =] i am twenty six, and so is "billy". everything's great, except for my family! i'm hawaiin, i was born there, and at seven, my family and i moved to the mainland. billy, is not hawaiin. my family very much wanted me to marry a hawaiin, they even had one picked out for me!!! well, needless to say, they weren't happy when they found out who i was dating. they harass him endlessly, they don't invite him to family occasions! now they're even shunning ME. i don't know what to do! i'm very close with my family, and i don't want to hurt them or dishonor our name. and yet- i love billy with all my heart and want to live out the rest of my life with him. i'm so confused and hurt. what should i do? i need help desperately!

-please help!!!

2007-01-06 14:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by hawaii_chick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have doubts about my boyfriend. i sometimes think he isn't happy wit me and he's intrested in this one girl and i fell like breaking up with him. theirs other times that i dont want to let go of him because im afraid to lose but then again since we dont see each other anymore i dont see why we should be together. Can u plz help me?

2007-01-06 14:14:31 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Angelita29♥ILY♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for the answers, but I have asked him to maintain a stable job f/the past 5yrs, He hasn't maintain a job for longer than 4mths a year in 5yrs. He moved me to a different state f/family so I have no close relatives to me. I moved f/NY to a cheaper State. Now I am here and he still can't support us. He still won't get and keep a job. I think its time to move on. How do I go about getting my own apt w/the kids and leaving him? Should I tell him? Should I fear an argument when I leave? Since he is unemployed I can't just move out w/o him knowing, How do I get myself and my kids away f/ this moocher? Do I stay in this state where I have no family but can make it alone? or do I move back by family and hope to find a good job to pay f/ an apt in NYor do I stay here fight, finish college and then move?

2007-01-06 14:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by Kadija T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like her alot
we r in this class together at school
we r both shy
mostly talk online
sometimes in school
but not very often

but i have been talking to her online for a long time now
and i really like her
and i think she might like me too
because sometimes she looks at me

so i want to get her number
but i am to shy to do it
but i dont exactly want to do it in public i wanna do it online

but idk what to say at all
and i dont want something cheesy like i lost my number can i have urs

2007-01-06 14:14:22 · 10 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on memorizing a bunch of them and using them all in one night while bar hopping in Chicago for the entertainment of myself and my friends. I hope I don't get slapped too much :)

2007-01-06 14:13:58 · 11 answers · asked by X 2 in Singles & Dating

cause i like going down on women, especially if they shave,. but what about women then? or is that just the porn?

2007-01-06 14:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did it in half, is that worth the hassle?

2007-01-06 14:13:18 · 3 answers · asked by Skeeter 5 in Family

okay, so the guy i like is really into hockey. i've called his house twice before, once leaving a message, and once, his sister answered saying he wasn't home. i was trying to ask about when his hockey games were. i want to invite him to a hockey game tomorrow with one of my friends, but i dunno if it would be awkward for me to call again. apparently his whole family knows i called before...what should i do? should i invite him tomorrow or just talk to him this week during school and ask him to go next weekend?
...i really want to go tomorrow...please help!!!
thanks!

2007-01-06 14:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Scene- A girl and a boy decided to copulate, In bed while the boy was kissing her cheek and neck, I saw the tears were coming fom the girl's eyes.

What exactly she was feeling?
Is that was the tears of hapiness or sadness?

2007-01-06 14:12:40 · 14 answers · asked by Prasun Saurav 3 in Weddings

My birthday is coming up soon. I want to have a slumber party with one or two people, but my mom wants me to invite people whom I don't want to invite. And I'm scared that if I tell my mom, she won't understand. What do I do?

2007-01-06 14:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by Jeannie 1 in Family

i think my girlfriends mom has problems wit me like being touchy with her daughter, cuz her moms friend saw my girlfriend and me like being all touchy if you kno what i mean, and her mom wasnt so happy when she heard that. Now my girlfriend cant do alot of stuff, including havin me over or comin to my house or doin anything mostly. How do i get her mom to like trust us or just me or how do i get her to like just not worry about it, well basicaly how do i get her to like me alot?

2007-01-06 14:12:25 · 5 answers · asked by lilblazex7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i still love him but hes to scared to talk to me.

2007-01-06 14:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by AbandonAngel89 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it after you break up with a girl and you see her with another guy a couple of days later, you want her back.

2007-01-06 14:12:05 · 16 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 14:11:45 · 12 answers · asked by sl2001 1 in Family

i have 5 very close friends that i have grown up with and would very much like them all too be my bridesmaids, has anyone had any similar experiences with too many people in the wedding, like with photo's is it too hard having soo many people?

2007-01-06 14:11:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings