Family & Relationships - 5 January 2007

Ok well he in lies the problem ive been sleeping with someone else boyfriend for over a year now. Im in love with him. Ive told him how i feel and he told me to wait that now is not the right time, but he wants to keep having sex. His my best friend and i cant live without him but is he using me?
What should i do from here? Should i try to cut him out of my life or what? Any help would be appreciated

2007-01-05 21:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by AliasPlease 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a student now.I want to make friends with people all over the world.Only stay in one place is boring.I want to meet more people.
my msn is bloodgonna@hotmail.com

2007-01-05 21:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by dearestluoxi 1 in Friends

a guy at school likes me and im pretty shure i like him should i make the first move or should i what for him??? Please help!

2007-01-05 21:08:15 · 15 answers · asked by kgfk2 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy and i are trying to make things work through long-distance relationship for more than a year. lately our fights are becoming frequent and he finally asked for space to think things over between us. im the type who cant sleep with a chip on my shoulder and its been 10days since i heard a word from him. should i give him more time and wait for his call or should i call him up and ask him where i stand?

2007-01-05 21:07:56 · 11 answers · asked by TOTALLY CONFUSED 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 21:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

to sum it up I have dated this girl for about a year and we eventually broke it off because i would get scared and push her away when she got too close (i had a problem with my last breakup with my ex-GF)

we still talk and we are really good friends

she tells me she loves me
i finally got over my relationship problem and i eventually told her i loved her

we are still good friends and we are in love with one another but she recently started to date someone else

she is afraid to be with me right now because she always invisioned me being the "one" for her and she is afraid that she will mess up before we get old haha( we are both in our early to mid 20's) but at the same time she wont leave the guy she is with because she doesnt want to hurt him either

i want to be with her now and i told her straight up
we can talk about anything but i need some ideas of wut to do

i love her with all my heart
and i know she still loves me

what should i do to get her back???

2007-01-05 21:04:08 · 6 answers · asked by PoT 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my first date hasn't happened but when it does i want 2 b prepared.

2007-01-05 21:01:29 · 17 answers · asked by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

and have thought about her every day for 5 years, when will this pain stop?

2007-01-05 21:01:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The same guy cheated on her 5 times. He slept with women, had other girlfriends. And she doesn't believe anything i say, and i'm her bf supposidly. She still wants to stay with him. Can anybody help me by lettin her know he's no good.

2007-01-05 21:01:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 21:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happens a lot. Just about every girl I've dated, especially the ones I feel sour about, eventually returns and tells me how musch she missed me. But my rule is never date someone you dated before, it didn't work out once so why try it again.

2007-01-05 21:00:11 · 8 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

My butt is very white. When my boyfriend saw it, he screamed and ran out the door. I got a new boyfriend, and when HE saw my buttox, he pinched himself to see if he was dreaming! And he also broke up with me! What should I do?

I'm 15 years old.

2007-01-05 20:57:46 · 12 answers · asked by Hola2theWorld 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-05 20:57:01 · 7 answers · asked by no-namer 2 in Singles & Dating

topic that can we discuss generally. how to react when they start a topic

2007-01-05 20:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by yukta 1 in Singles & Dating

So tonight I lost it.
Here's what happened:
I spend alot of time at his house. He falls asleep earlier than me often, and to pass the time I go online and check emails, participate in a couple message boards, go on yahoo answers, etc.
Well you know how when you are going back and forth from one site to another, instead of typing the web address each time, you can hit that little down arrow and see what websited were visited recently and just click on them to go back. Ok, well I often see that he has visited porn sites. I always try to shake it off, telling myself "a guy is a guy and its none of my business anyways". Tonight I went online after he fell asleep again and saw that the last thing he visited was ANOTHER porn site. I snapped. I woke him up and told him to take me home. He kept asking why and finally I told him. He said he loves me but it helps him get to sleep, ...I left the car in a huff. I love him, should I wait for him to call me or am I in the wrong??

2007-01-05 20:52:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Does anyone find it weird or strange that I can let someone know how I feel about them through music better than I can through words or even writing? I find it really hard to put my emotions and thoughts in words, but I can find a song that describes exactly how I feel.

2007-01-05 20:51:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this girl at school, we've never spoke, her friends are kinda my friends, she never tried to talk to me, doesnt try to make eye contact, no body language, im pretty sure she knows i exist, if i ask her out, what % do u think she'll say YES!?

2007-01-05 20:50:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds selfish and awkward, but sometimes i feel frustrated and angry that i wish i am the only child in the family.

1) When my younger brother and sister were born, i couldn't continue having piano lessons anymore because of financial difficulties.
2) I have to give up many of my precious time doing my own things to look after those 2 young devils.
3) I have to share a bedroom with my younger sister and that means i have no privacy anymore.
4) Last year, both of my younger siblings tried to pick the lock of my cabinet in which i kept my money.
5) If anything happens or go wrong, my parents would target me and confront me first. (As if EVERYTHING is my fault)

In the end, i cannot advance in my favourite hobby which is playing piano up to Level 8, have no privacy and can't concentrate in what i wanted to do. All these make me upset and angry that i really wish i am the only child. Anyone feel the same???

2007-01-05 20:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Family

I have no problem getting laid, but I have a problem making them comfortable and keeping them around. Do most fellows have this problem. I'm 26, single, professional and party a little.

2007-01-05 20:47:38 · 18 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey Pittsburgh -
My fiance's family just moved back to Pittsburgh after many years away and they love it! However, they don't know much about the city anymore. We live in Japan but will be in Pittsburgh this summer to get married. We want a small simple wedding where we can have a small reception immediately afterwards. Our total party will be around 15 -20 people. Outside would be great - or someplace we could be outside and go inside if it rains... Any ideas! Thanks All!!!

(By the way - we are vegetarian liberal hippy-types - in case that info. helps inspire you! Peace!)

2007-01-05 20:46:12 · 4 answers · asked by aleighsensei 2 in Weddings

So tonight I lost it.
Here's what happened:
I spend alot of time at his house. He falls asleep earlier than me often, and to pass the time I go online and check emails, participate in a couple message boards, go on yahoo answers, etc.
Well you know how when you are going back and forth from one site to another, instead of typing the web address each time, you can hit that little down arrow and see what websited were visited recently and just click on them to go back. Ok, well I often see that he has visited porn sites. I always try to shake it off, telling myself "a guy is a guy and its none of my business anyways". Tonight I went online after he fell asleep again and saw that the last thing he visited was ANOTHER porn site. I snapped. I woke him up and told him to take me home. He kept asking why and finally I told him. He said he loves me but it helps him get to sleep, ...I left the car in a huff. I love him, should I wait for him to call me or am I in the wrong??

2007-01-05 20:46:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me about your experience.

2007-01-05 20:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i just started dating about amonth ago and his sister just found out well she is threatening me that if i ever hurt him shell kick my *** and **** and she would do it too well he told me not to worry about but im afraid that ill do something stupid not knowing it will hurt himand she will kill me also she said that he is a total sex freak but i dont see it is he hiding it so i dont leave him or what?

2007-01-05 20:45:20 · 3 answers · asked by love_lost 2 in Singles & Dating

I basically get completely rejected every single time, and it's really putting a toll on me, I've actually gotten lovesick to the point I'll get physically sick. :] I know I'm 13, but hey.

I think I'm completely ugly and fat, and I suppose the boys think that too.
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How can I approach a guy? Or get guys to like me or something?

Thanks,

-Haley

2007-01-05 20:44:19 · 5 answers · asked by Haley 3 in Singles & Dating

She was nice sometimes,but i don't have no many of those memories,only the rude and cheap nature.It's really hard to look back,she acted like she's miss universe with me but iv'e been told she actually doesn't have anything to show off.All i want is to make her feel guilty for all the things she put me through,said she liked me,then said no(repeatedly),blamed me for anything that went wrong,never made time for us,especially when her friends were around,turned me down whenever i did and blamed me for us not spending time.That hurt so much in the beginning but not so much in the end.All I want to do is to make her regret what she did.Iv'e been asked out by others unlike her but turned them down for her and also been told I'm in a league much higher than her by some of my female friends but it would be too cheap to say that to her.I really need this problem sorted out.Thanks.

2007-01-05 20:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by hALo269 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So tonight I lost it.
Here's what happened:
I spend alot of time at his house. He falls asleep earlier than me often, and to pass the time I go online and check emails, participate in a couple message boards, go on yahoo answers, etc.
Well you know how when you are going back and forth from one site to another, instead of typing the web address each time, you can hit that little down arrow and see what websited were visited recently and just click on them to go back. Ok, well I often see that he has visited porn sites. I always try to shake it off, telling myself "a guy is a guy and its none of my business anyways". Tonight I went online after he fell asleep again and saw that the last thing he visited was ANOTHER porn site. I snapped. I woke him up and told him to take me home. He kept asking why and finally I told him. He said he loves me but it helps him get to sleep, ...anyways I left out of the car in a huff..It just hurts my feelings alot...advice??????

2007-01-05 20:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

With the oppsite sex?

2007-01-05 20:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

64 poistions in kamasutras

2007-01-05 20:42:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together we have been together for a year and a half we are saving money to get out life together going. everything seems like we are getting things going in the right direction. Only problem is, sometimes he is too emotional and it really gets to me. We talk about it over and over and it just seems like it always gets into an arguement. He is dependant on me as far as a car and rides to work. when I'm at work he just stays at home.. he doesn't seem to have any personal outlets other than the internet when I'm not home. Sometimes I feel absolutely smothered. When I'm tired and don't want sex he gets hurt and thinks we have serious issues in the relationship. Basically when he's miserable (which is alot) I'm miserable. He doesn't like going out with friends after midnight and checks up on my activity online and doesn't like me going to the store or for a drive by myself. I feel like I need a break, but if I say that he gets hurt and round 2 starts all over again.

2007-01-05 20:39:51 · 13 answers · asked by KAJ81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey guys help me on this. I like a guy i m tolly crazy 4 him. we r seeing each othre from past 11 year's when he come to humiliate me 4 my dance or looks. after that we never talked. after that incident i changed by looks alot or i hav been learned dance. One day i notice that he is looking me. his friend passing sum comment on me he stop his frined to do not giv any comment to me. i don't know his feelings change 4 me or still same. I feeling attraction 4 him but is he also feeling the sme way 4 me or not.offffffffff what to do if i will proposed him 4 friendship or he again humiliate me ? I m a very simpale but selfestimted person. this time he du the same i will not be quiet ! ohhhhhhhh help me

2007-01-05 20:37:35 · 7 answers · asked by shuchita t 2 in Singles & Dating