How can I get a guy to like me?

Question

I basically get completely rejected every single time, and it's really putting a toll on me, I've actually gotten lovesick to the point I'll get physically sick. :] I know I'm 13, but hey.

I think I'm completely ugly and fat, and I suppose the boys think that too.
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How can I approach a guy? Or get guys to like me or something?

Thanks,

-Haley

Answer 1

Haley, I want you to read this very closely, okay? ... YOU ARE HOT !!!! You are cute as a button. Don't worry about what guys think now, there could be a ton of reason why they back down. maybe you are too smart for them or something. maybe you're a nice girl and all they want is someone they can just have sex with. Trust me, you are anything but ugly girl. You will find someone .... just don't come off so desperate. maybe that's why too. A lot of guys like a confident girl. Try acting like you have no care in the world and just try and be people's friends. But I will say this again, you are beautiful. Lovely smile. Good luck and please, stop making yourself sick, Love will come in due time. You're a hottie.

Answer 2

guys like girls not for what they look like basically but who they are deep inside. so first of all you must love yourself and that includes taking good care of yourself, hygiene, eating healthily and exercising regularly to get in shape. having done all that the feel-good is likely to show on the outside and this is attractive to guys. you must not dress sloppily cos first impressions also do the trick. if you are thirteen and fat then you need to slim down cos then you improve your chances as well.secondly you are still young and must not worry yourself. you dont need to go through o many guys. you jusat need that one guy who will like you and likely marry you at around 20 to 24 and you are a long way from that and still have a lot of puppy fat to shed so concentrate oin improving yourself physically, spiritually, emotionall, mentally and hygeinincally and see the magic happen in a couple of years.trust me i have been there.

Answer 3

Low self-esteem is something that is very hard to deal with. The best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. You have to be genuine in order for them to fall in love with you. You're very young, too. I know people are dating younger and younger but you have plenty of time. Take it slow and relax. It'll happen when the time is right. Trust me.

Answer 4

you know what you just have to be yourself i know its hard but i had the same problem just talk to the guys that you already know and ask one of them out once people see you with another boy they will see you in a different light plus guys likes girls who aren't always by themselves and lonely guys like to see girls laugh and if you think that your fat and ugly guys will too it is all how you believe in yourself

Answer 5

To have a male fall hard for you it's an absolute must to show off your beauty. Males love a lady that is attractive and also confident. Also, be laid back and avoid being uptight, disliking everything, or acting like a brat. If you are seeking to create the foundation for a serious relationship, become interested in his likes and hobbies. Be flirty with him, give him genuine compliments, and do something fun together.