Ok well he in lies the problem ive been sleeping with someone else boyfriend for over a year now. Im in love with him. Ive told him how i feel and he told me to wait that now is not the right time, but he wants to keep having sex. His my best friend and i cant live without him but is he using me?
What should i do from here? Should i try to cut him out of my life or what? Any help would be appreciated
2007-01-05 21:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by AliasPlease 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As his best friend, you shouldn't let him continuously use you. He apparently has a problem with his relationship, or he's probably a player
2007-01-05 21:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by thesting156 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are at the end of your rope and you don`t know how much you can take. Communicate. You may be able to resolve this problem. You don`t know untill you try. Or you can do what most single people do. Turn and go the other way.
2007-01-06 05:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, you need to cut your loses and dont wait around for this guy to leave his current girlfriend.
The problem is, if he left his girlfriend for you, would you honestly ever be able to trust him? If he's done it to his current girlfriend, he'll do it to you, without a doubt. Men like this are users and are pigs.
So do yourself a favour and cut him off. Dont speak to him, dont see him. It will hurt for a while, but the pain will stop and you'll find someone who is single and deserves your time and love.
And please, learn from this experience.
Good Luck
2007-01-06 05:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's using you and if he told you to "wait" and "nows not the right time" then chances are he's not going to leave her. My best advice is drop him like a sack of russetts and find a guy that respects you.
2007-01-06 05:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well duh, of course he is using you!
I'm just curious how you can be in love with him? You two obviously can't be seen together socially, or go to his house, or do anything regular couples do.
You're seeing only half of what this guy is all about.....his secret half. And besides which, even if he did dump his GF for you...what makes you think he won't do the exact thing to you later on?
Girls with low self esteem make it TOO for guys sometimes.
2007-01-06 05:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to break it off if he has a girlfriend and wont break up with her but wants to have sex that most likley means he is a lying cheating horny peice of **** and if he wants sex do it with his girlfriend and if his girlfriend wont do it and he is really that desperate break up with her unless he loves her then he shouldnt be cheating on her in the first place
2007-01-06 05:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by love_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is crazy. Try to get councilling and ask a counsilor what to do. Think of how angry and hurt his girlfriend will be when she finds out- how could you do this to the both of them and how could he do this to you and his gf?
2007-01-06 05:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking him to choose and he doesn't want to choose. So he's using you. Leave him and move on to a more sincere relationship.
2007-01-06 05:21:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! he's using you... Stop it, find your own bf you deserve better.. Please, love yourself don't let him do that to you... Take care..
2007-01-06 05:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋