depends on her character.
2007-01-05 20:56:32
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answered by smallorganic 2
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You have a lot to learn about women. Here are some clues: never spoken, same friend even, no eye contact, or body language (the most important language in the whole wide world).
Does this mean she's not interested? Hardly. I'm guessing at the age you're both at that she's just not where you're at.
Does this mean you should avoid asking her out? Maybe. Here's a big clue: (but before I spell it out for you remember how old you both are) women decide!
Let's say a couple is househunting for their home together. Who do you think decides which house they will buy? She does. Guys are just interested in a decent structure for the most part.
The same is true in relationships. Women have a biological clock tick-tick-ticking away. Time is of the essence. You're in the first quarter of the football game. So relax and have fun while you're in the game.
Consider copying this a printing it out to keep around for years to come. I wish someone had said this stuff to me years ago.
Women decide who's going to be the one they go out with. They also decide who's going to be the man they get serious with. They also decide who's going to be the one they settle down with and which man is going to be the father of their babies. So let them decide.
Sounds simple right? Couple of different angles here. One, you can sit back and let women approach you. Better have some reading material and plenty to keep you busy in the meantime. Or two, you can approach women. This can be done in a variety of ways and most of them are pretty stupid...just like most guys.
I'd give you my tips but then I'd be giving away my trade secrets which I'm not about to do. But back to your question. Just approach her. Be calm and breath deep. Be yourself always and always avoid trying to be someone else or what you think she wants you to be.
If she likes you great. If not hopefully you've learned something from the experience.
2007-01-06 05:04:22
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answered by Anonymous
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well you need to look at the situation from her side, maybe she hasnt tried to make eye contact with you because shes shy, i've known many hot girls that are still single because they are shy or dont have enough confidence to show intrest in a guy because they're scarred out looking dumb or getting hurt but if you really want to ask her out they be very sweet and kind in the way you do it? unless your a real feral she wont be able to resist a sweet charm, no girl can ;o)
2007-01-06 04:55:37
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answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2
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Dear Friend;
I'll give you an advice from my experience ,
don't go and start talking to her , you have to find a way to make her look for you ,and need badly to talk to you , collect some information about her and about what she likes and dislike , then surprise her with something in her mail , or her birthday, or any occasion , if you come straight , 80% you will lose her.
collect information from any way you can , from her friend also possible ,
2007-01-06 04:57:58
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answered by ahmed s 1
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I think maybe 50/50, but what do you have to loose? If you never ask you would never have the chance to know and if she says no don't worry there are more females in this world to go out with.
2007-01-06 04:55:58
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answered by Ginny 2
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Start by talking to her. Ask your mutual friends for some conversation starters, find out her likes and hobbies and bring them up in conversation. Once you've formed a comfortable relationship with her, you can invite her to a movie or something. You can even try a group setting to make it more comfortable.
2007-01-06 04:54:28
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answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3
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Greet and meet her. Get to know her first of all before you ask her out. Talk to her after class is out or whenever you can around school. Even lunch hour if your in high school. Than get her number. And than maybe start hanging out with her off school grounds. Do stuff. And than if you feel a vibe. Ask her out!
2007-01-06 04:55:46
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answered by Shorty 1
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i say yes 20%. only because you havn't spoken to her. you probably need eye contact and body language as well. so maybe she would just say something on the lines of lets get to know eachother a little more, not quite a yes.
2007-01-06 04:53:16
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answered by loverly 2
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man why sweat it ask her friend to get you the scope.girls tell there friend everything they probley know the answer just ask...
that way you wont get shop down in front of people..
but if your not worried or affected people who gossip just ask her its just a yes or no thing if no then say thats kool i thought i just try since i find you very likeable and think wed make a kool couple..or wanted to get to know you better...
good luck not like youll need it
2007-01-06 04:56:23
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answered by michelle e 2
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u got only 30% chance,u can be increased by 10% if u talk to her,one more 10% if she responses u well,another 10% more if u can have a tea with her in a cafe,a last 10% more if she accepts ur invitation to see ur parents n attend ur party.so now u got 70% so far,the balance 30% depends on ur efforts n luck to tie the knot with her.
best wishes n happy new year.
2007-01-06 05:03:54
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answered by robert KS LEE. 6
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well dependson the kind of girl she is if she ignores people she likes out of fear that they dont like her then it could be really good
if she is just ignoring you because she really has no interest then chances could be bad
but if she i ignoring you because she isnt sure what she feels and she knows you like her and she doesnt want to make you upset because she isnt positive of her own feelins then it could be 50 50 chance
2007-01-06 05:00:42
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answered by love_lost 2
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