yesterday was 5 years my mom has been dead, I want to talk to her so bad, I miss her:?

Question

and have thought about her every day for 5 years, when will this pain stop?

Answer 1

You just have to find a way to shift your focus from her death,my grandmother died 4 years too and i miss her a lot but i know she cannot come back so i had to let go a little and move on.The pain will stop but you have to take the first step and move on.

Answer 2

I'm so sorry to hear that you mum passed away. The pain never ends, it just becomes dull. Your mother hasn't left you, she is still with you and every time you remember her you keep her alive.

A person can pass away, but as long as they are loved they live on.

Ask yourself this question. Would your Mum want you too feel this way? To be upset and missing her? i think you would find if you asked her she would want you to be happy.

Try this. Lie down on your bed and close your eyes and in-vision your mum's face. Once you have her face in focus, start talking to her. Tell her all your worries and happiness and anything you may want to tell her, even tell her that you miss her.

If you find it hard to visualize her then get a photo and place it on your heart/chest.

Your mother is with you always, Mother's never go away.

I hope this helps, this technique has gotten me through 20 years of missing someone I love very much.

Answer 3

So talk to her. You can do this anywhere. Death is painful and talking "to her" will do you some good. Just beware of anyone that says that you will actually be able to communicate with her.

This is what I do, and it works for me. Run a hot shower, put your head under the stream, close your eyes, and just let it come out. Whether you cry, talk or both, this will make you feel better. It won't take the pain away completely, but you need to get it out.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Answer 4

Sorry dude... I know what you're saying, I think about my favorite aunt and my grandma, they both died in 2004, to this day I cannot believe I won't see either one again. I dream about them a lot, too; that's the only way I get to "talk" to them. You just have to move on; find new friends and companions; we lose people we love, it's a fact of life. Search for something that can be meaningful to you, find ways to help other people; often, doing something that is rewarding helps in managing the pain.

Answer 5

Hi Ruler, My sincerest condolences for the loss of your mother.I feel for you. I lost my dad over 10 years ago and the pain of his loss is with me constantly. I honestly believe you don't get over these things..... and its okay not to. But you can lose sight of life by letting it take full control. At night before I go to bed I talk to my dad and in the mornings too. I just say a few words. Your mom is looking over you and always will until you meet again. I'm sure your memories also are happy ones too. Over the years, my tears are fewer and my thoughts are of my dad at night and in the morning. There's no time limit on easing ones pain. It's up to you to handle this yourself. God Bless you for your sensitive heart. I hope everything works out for you. Best of Luck.

Answer 6

It's very natural that you miss your mom but you shouldn't let it to affect your life too much. Your mom surely doesn't want to see you to go thru so much pain, so put yourself together and think positively. You know you'll always love your mom and she's with you all the time blessing you. If you really feel like to talk to her, go to her grave and tell her the things you want to say to her. God bless!!

Answer 7

I know exactly what you're going throw cuz I lost my mom eight years ago. It still hurts, missing her, her touch, her kisses and hugs, her gentle loving arms that were there around you whenever you needed her.

The truth is that you will always miss her no matter what. But take my advise, and try to remember always your best times together, cuz that would put a smile to your face which she always loved to see, even after she's gone.

Answer 8

The pain will stop when when you think well of her during happier times and set aside the negative episodes. She would want you to be happy so get on with your life. your mother will always be with you where ever you go.

Answer 9

Oh, I know how you feel, and I'm so sad you lost your mom. Mine died 10 years ago, and I still have trouble with it. It does ease with time, but it also depends upon your age and circumstances. Of course, you should have her in your mind and heart, but also remember that she raised you to be a wonderful child, and would want you to go on with your life.

Answer 10

Hey dont beat yourself up over it grief is natural!! pray talk to her she is always with you and she loves you very much!! write all your feelings and great memories of her down. holding them in and pretending to be strong wont help you have to go through real pain before you can heal