Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

My wife and I have been married for 14 years. We very seldom fight or argue, but I feel emotionally dead inside. I mean she can be in the same room, touch my hand or want to sit next to me, and I feel nothing. I can see an attractive woman out somewhere and well you know what I mean. I have never cheated on her. Is there some way to get that feeling back or is it too late.

2007-01-01 07:16:18 · 21 answers · asked by Mike S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 07:16:06 · 12 answers · asked by Michaelangleo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you react if a guy you liked kept asking you to hang out at his house at night instead of out of a normal date ?

We used to know each other briefly years ago. He looked me up online recently.

I politely refused his requests to just drop by his house at night.

He told me repeatedly how much he liked me but now that I let him know that he is welcome to ask me out on a proper date he has disappeared.

I told him that I won't compromise my dating principles by dropping by his house at night.
I said he should understands since his personal ad says how he wants an 'emotionally available" relationship too.

So now after I explained my position he is ignoring me or signs off if I IM him. Im so embarassed and glum.

I guess Im annoyed because this guy knows Im going thru the most stressful time in my whole life (new move, new job, mother and grandmother both recently critically ill/injured)

And it hurts to add that this guy who is looking for the woman of his dreams just wanted me as a booty call.

I suppose I should be happy I didnt fall for his gamesplaying.

How big a jerk is he ? Should I pretend he was figment of my imagination ? I wish I could wipe him out of my memory like Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind !

2007-01-01 07:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I lost count sometime last year...

2007-01-01 07:15:32 · 17 answers · asked by quornsam 2 in Singles & Dating

Are these sites; such as "e-harmony.com, reputable? Is there any other site you would recommend? Can you feel safe?

2007-01-01 07:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by slippery slope 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend stay together, we are going to possibly start dating other people. We are deeply in love we just want to see if we can establish a connection with other people anywhere close to the same level as what we have. There is nothing sexual going on, I just want to know if we are crazy for doing it?

2007-01-01 07:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by Angel H 2 in Singles & Dating

please????????

2007-01-01 07:14:18 · 10 answers · asked by Lori 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a housewife and I am married to a boring, chauvenistic man who thinks it's ok for him to have an affair. He's actually reasoned with me that it is only fair that he be allowed to have extra marital affairs. Anyways, I am a very attractive 24-yr-old and i could get almost any guy i want.....and i might meet the guy i'm really supposed to be with. I only married my husband 2 1/2 years ago because we got pregnant.

2007-01-01 07:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by Kalinka 3 in Marriage & Divorce

even though its a long distance relationship and his mom only don't like me cuz am dominican and he's purtorican which i still don't get cuz both speak the same language but i do love him should i stay with him till we finally get reunited which ain't to far probly 8 more months i been with out him for a year now we had lots of srguement and stuff but we always get it back together but i know he loves me by the way we talk on the phone could it be tru

2007-01-01 07:13:53 · 8 answers · asked by bellaca mala 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:13:16 · 34 answers · asked by 14b32bbdog 2 in Weddings

school in ny are opening tomorrow. i am in hs and soooo dont want to go back but i have regents thois month and need the reiew.why did it not snow yet at all. someone should something to keep them close all month or week closed. please

2007-01-01 07:13:12 · 6 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom was supposed to be working the night shift and my dad was in london on buisness. I had my b/f over and we were watching tv and just hanging out.(nothing past 2nd base) We fell asleep on my bed with me in his arms. My mom came home, but didn't yell or anything. Now she won't talk to me and doesn't believe me that nothing happened. Why doesn't she trust me??

2007-01-01 07:11:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting married. I live in bluffton SC. This is my second wedding (his first) and we are paying for it ourselves anyone know how to have the tradiotional wedding and reception for very little money???

2007-01-01 07:11:19 · 3 answers · asked by Kimmie b 2 in Weddings

do you think it is ok for a girl in her twenties to be a virgin or celibate?

2007-01-01 07:11:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i will do anything for you

2007-01-01 07:10:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lori 2 in Singles & Dating

Doesn't care what you do=minds her own business
jealous=constantly asking questions about whereabouts

2007-01-01 07:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy for 16 years. This woman he cheated on me with twice will not stop calling,emailing, and send ims to me. I know she is just doing it to get on my nerves but I cant stand it anymore. I have told her to leave us alone and even go to h*** but she still doesnt get it. Help.

2007-01-01 07:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by teresa_lynn_36 1 in Singles & Dating

so they are staying w/ my parents. My husband and I have been married less than a year, he's 27 and I'm 35, my son is 16 and my daughter is 11. I'm just wondering if this is how love is sometimes?

2007-01-01 07:06:38 · 30 answers · asked by 8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-01 07:05:39 · 14 answers · asked by to the moon 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need a ride.. I'll return with a favor.... anything

2007-01-01 07:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by Lori 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:05:12 · 19 answers · asked by SMALL COAL 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:03:57 · 38 answers · asked by star3dhamdi 1 in Weddings

I have been seeing this girl for a month on and off. At first we kind of hooked up and I thought that was the end of it. But now I'm starting to feel more for her and I think about her constantly.

I asked her if she was interested in me to which she replied yes. However, I've been having a hard time reading her. She never calls me unless I ask her to. When I call her, she never answers but calls me back later on.

Yesterday we saw each other along with a group of people. I wanted to talk to her about us but it was difficult being that there was so many people around us. At the end of the night she said she had to leave and I became anxious so I bugged her to come back to my place to talk. However, she was with her brother at the time. I was quite aggressive and today, being sober I regret it.

So I am now thinking to call her but knowing her, she might not pick up. If she doesn't I'm not sure how to appoligize for yesterday over voicemail. Need Female advice tnx

2007-01-01 07:03:30 · 6 answers · asked by tarzan428 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:03:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating a guy for a year. We are on the same cellular phone plan. A couple of months ago we had a high phone bill so I looked at all the usage. 1 number in particular was called/text by him all hours of the day (including when he was at work). I questioned him and he said it was a guy friend of his sister and they were just catching up. A couple days ago, he left his E-mail up and I looked through it. I know that was wrong and normally not something I would do. However, there were emails back and forth from that girl (yeah, the friend's sister) asking about taking showers together, spending time together, etc. He denies everything of course and just puts the blame back on me for snooping. Any suggestions?

2007-01-01 07:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by aka_little_bit_21 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:02:28 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by Happy07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 07:01:30 · 36 answers · asked by Barbi_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee and i want to have a winter wedding it'll be in texas and in 2008 but the thing is i was thinking about a tradition wat are some good traditions for a winter wedding in texas i dont really know of any wedding traditions if you could help that would be great?

2007-01-01 07:01:14 · 3 answers · asked by Haylee J 1 in Weddings

2007-01-01 07:00:38 · 32 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating