I have been with the same guy for 16 years. This woman he cheated on me with twice will not stop calling,emailing, and send ims to me. I know she is just doing it to get on my nerves but I cant stand it anymore. I have told her to leave us alone and even go to h*** but she still doesnt get it. Help.
2007-01-01 07:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by teresa_lynn_36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKAY HE NEEDS TO STAND UP TO HER NOT YOU THAT WAY SHE KNOWS HE HAS SAID IT....... IT IS NOT YOUR PLACE TO GET THIS UNDER CONTROL BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THE ONE WHO BROUGHT IT ABOUT HE IS SO HE SHOULD BE THE ONE TO FIX THE PROBLEM.......
IF THAT DOESN'T WORK HAVE HER NUMBER BLOCKED AND BLOCK HER USER NAME THAT WAY SHE CAN NOT IM YOU OR E-MAIL YOU..... BUT EVEN BLOCKING HER NUMBER SHE CAN STILL CALL YOU SO WHEN SHE DOES HAVE HER ARRESTED FOR HARRASMENT AND THAT WILL GET THE POINT ACROSS.. YOU HAVE BEEN AS NICE AS YOU CAN TO TELL HER TO STOP AND SHE HASN'T SO NOW TAKE IT THE TOUGH WAY AND THAT WILL STOP HER!
GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE ALL WORKS OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
2007-01-01 07:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I guess you don't have his phone number? I would write again and say something like. I think we had a really good time last time we met and I would like to meet again. If I don't hear from you I will assume that you are not interested. Even if you don't respond, enjoy life and everything it has to offer. It was a pleasure to get to know you. With an email like that, no response means he is not interested.
2016-03-29 03:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it's not your place to get her to stop. He's the one that cheated he's the one that has to bring it to a halt. Why hasn't he changed the phone number, email address etc. These changes may cause an inconvenience however he should be willing to deal with some inconvenience considering the drama he's allowed to creep in once he started creeping.
2007-01-01 07:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something that he is suppose to handle. If he's not getting rid of her then reevaluate the situation. He already cheated twice what's to stop him a third time if she's always around.
2007-01-01 07:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Angel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your man to make her stop. If he refuses to tell her then he still got something going on. If he does and she won't stop, call the police.
2007-01-01 07:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does this to get a reaction out of you and your guy. If you ignore her and give her no satisfaction in what she is doing she will stop.
2007-01-01 07:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a harrassment restraining order on her.
2007-01-01 07:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves getting under your skin..block her from emails and im's. Change your phone number and hope that works_
2007-01-01 07:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to tell him to deal with it. It is his fault that she is part of your lives, he need sto deal with the problem
2007-01-01 07:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Doz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her thanks letter and tell her that the only thing you still marry this guy although he has HIV is your sympathy with him.But thank you.
2007-01-01 08:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nader M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋