I have been seeing this girl for a month on and off. At first we kind of hooked up and I thought that was the end of it. But now I'm starting to feel more for her and I think about her constantly.
I asked her if she was interested in me to which she replied yes. However, I've been having a hard time reading her. She never calls me unless I ask her to. When I call her, she never answers but calls me back later on.
Yesterday we saw each other along with a group of people. I wanted to talk to her about us but it was difficult being that there was so many people around us. At the end of the night she said she had to leave and I became anxious so I bugged her to come back to my place to talk. However, she was with her brother at the time. I was quite aggressive and today, being sober I regret it.
So I am now thinking to call her but knowing her, she might not pick up. If she doesn't I'm not sure how to appoligize for yesterday over voicemail. Need Female advice tnx
2007-01-01 07:03:30 · 6 answers · asked by tarzan428 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, just be straight up about it just let her know that you think that you came off way too strong. It was because you were buzzed or whatever but that's still not an excuse and you wanted to know if that changed the way she felt about you and then if you want that's when you can slip in that you want to talk to her about you two. That's only if you feel that the flow of the conversation will let you go there. If not just set up a little date and talk to her about it face to face. Whatever works for you that way.
2007-01-01 07:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Angel H 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
you know something about this just sounds like your wasting your time as far as seriousness goes, all in all wether she knows yet or not that she likes you in the meantime she is being rather rude and using twords you she only calls when she wants, talks when she wants, and whatever happened that your apologizing for dont because she took you up on it and surly knows of your feelings that fact that you would even consider apologizing puts you above most so I think you have room to demand respect as does everyone really anyways i'd say dont call for awhile I mean I'm not sure if thats right considering last night or whenever it was maybe clear that air but besides that leave the ball in her court she needs time to realize what she misses or needs anyways its not occuring to her and may never obviously there has been plenty of room and time to be alittle more responsive on her end I mean you've basically got nothing at this point, I dont want to totally dull the situation in your head I mean it is possible that you could end up only after speaking your mind if it really is pouring out of you having something really great out of this but its just that now at this point sounds as if she isnt into it on any level not even friends which is essential, come on girls no matter how old act like teenagers and race to pick up the phone when a possible beau calls, so you know, good luck KIm
2007-01-01 15:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she is intrested believe me she wouldn't dis you at all, even if her brother was around, it sound like she might kinda like you, you probably don't quit meet her standards
2007-01-01 15:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call.
2007-01-01 15:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, buddy, but when you got "quite aggressive" you blew it. It doesn't matter that you now regret it and you're sorry. Harsh words, once out of your mouth, can't be retracted.
I'm not saying that she hates you or anything like that. It's just that she's seen this side of you that probably scared her and she's made a choice not to have further contact with you. Take it like a man. So you made a mistake, OK, now there's consequences.
Abusers blame their victims and make up excuses for themselves. "Oh, she's being a b*tch, I didn't mean it, I was drunk at the time" but the truth is that you overstepped the boundaries of decent behavior and, unless she's one of those pathetic victims that puts up with inappropriate behavior, she's not going to forget the fact you have anger management problems.
If you MUST have another go at it, call and say you're sorry. Keep it short, keep it sweet. Odds are, she won't pick up. If she doesn't respond then don't blame her. You're the one that over- reacted. Drunk or sober, you pushed too hard and now you're paying the price. If she doesn't return your call, forget it. Maybe in time you can be friends but, obviously, your behavior is a major impediment to any kind of relationship at this time.
2007-01-03 22:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 10⤋
Sorry, but she is not interested. She should have the decency to tell you, herself.
2007-01-01 15:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋