2007-01-01 07:03:57 · 38 answers · asked by star3dhamdi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I say HELL NO!!!
2007-01-01 07:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that question depends. Here are the questions you need to ask yourself:
- Are you ready to become the father of 9 children?
- Will there be other complications in this marriage such as the father (or fathers) of these children.
- Will the father(s) of the children provide for their children?
- Do you want your own children, and how does your girlfriend feel about having a 10th or 11th child, assuming that she biologically can?
- Is the age difference a factor for you?
- How will you provide for 9 children? And a wife?
Sleep on the last question. If you are the "average" 26 y/o making the average salary, you will probably be forcing yourself into a lifetime of debt.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 07:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by fairtradeguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very young to take on the responsibility of raising 9 children.The difference in your ages isn't that big a deal because I went with a guy who was younger than me. If he had 9 children then I would no way want to be married. Are you wanting to have children of your own? Maybe she doesn't want to have any more.
You can get married and then you could be sorry later but that is your decision to make.Good Luck. I hope that you make the right decision and are happy.
2007-01-01 07:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u care for a babies or a lovely wife, if u want just the babies go and doubt, if u want a wife go and find women like your age not more than u 9 years, are u crazy or what... do u want to raise the kids not from u and u just spend all your money on her... if she have 9 kids how come get divorce... don't chose from your mercy to her chose in your mind not your heart OK...
in other way it's so sad to see women have 9 kids no man with her, but i am sure God will help her.. not someone just 26 years old want to help her don't put your mercy in your choice OK.
2007-01-04 20:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one word to say to you......RUN, run as fast as you can. You have to ask yourself how she was in the situation of having 9 kids in the first place, kids are very expensive and a lot of responsibility. Even Angelina Jolie hasn't adopted 9 African babies, so something is terribly wrong with that situation. To even be in love with someone with that much drama should also make you want to look inward. You can't be that desirable if the only woman that is attracted to you almost has enough kids to form a soccer team. May God have mercy on your soul.
2007-01-01 12:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. she comes with a bundle and it has only been 7 years since you were a teenager yourself.she is probabaly looking for finacial as well as emotional support.Could you support the brood? 10 years is a lot of difference if age right now. I'd think really hard about a relationship.If she had just 3 kids that might be different.
2007-01-01 07:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mathmatically speaking, her oldest probably isn't much younger than you....it would be tough to be a 26 year old step dad to a 16 or 17 year old.
Unless she is independantly wealthy or something, why would you want to put yourself in a position to be bogged down with that kind of financial and emotional comitmment.
I am also guessing that they are not all from the same father, so let me ask you this...do you want to be with someone who hands out the love that freely?
Are any of those kids yours?
2007-01-01 08:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by superchrisw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's between you and your girlfriend.
1) Are you ready to be a father to 9 kids?
2) Are you ready to marry a woman who is 11 years your senior?
3) Are you ready to make an emotional and financial commitment to this woman?
No one here can tell you this--only you and your girlfriend can.
2007-01-01 07:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because of the fact you are asking this question indicates you are not ready to be a stepfather of 9. Abort Mission! There shouldn't be even the slightest hesitation when up against such an important decision: 11 people's daily lives are directly impacted by your decision...
2007-01-01 07:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do yo love this woman? do you love her kids as if they are your own? do you have a decent relationship with the father(s) of her kids since they will be a part of your life till the kids are 18? does the age difference bother you? is she a good person to you and loves you?
just some questions to think about. marriage is a big deal, especially taking on a whole new family.
2007-01-02 07:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe the question. because if its true u havent known her long enuff to want to marry. the first 6 months is the honeymoon stage. from there u start picking through the irritants. wither u havent been ther elong enuff to experience the next stage of this relationship or U NEED TO BUY A TV
2007-01-04 14:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by ray g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋