Family & Relationships - 24 December 2006

I have been seeing this guy for 4 months now we are always talking ,emailing ,texing eachother .he told me he loved me then some thing changed him he told me he just could not comit right now .I broke up with him but we still see eacher alot.
I told him i love him but he cant say it to me .I told him i dont want to lose him and told me he knows .I want to know if a guy just wants to be friends with sex would he spend so much time holding a woman or doing things with her .We dont always have sex eather .He told me he cares alot about me but he is worred about geting to close to me because he dose not know if he can love again .He has been divorced for 6 years now .I dont know what to do .I am always thinking about him and i miss him when i dont see him!

2006-12-24 09:46:26 · 5 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I were first loves and even tho we broke up all of these yrs. later his mother and i stayed friends, even tho she hasn't seen me in 4 years, but we always remained cool. anyways, we reunited and hung out and her son and i got close again too. she invited me to spend Christmas eve with them even tho the mother of his son would be there too, and he wanted me to come too, well that's what I thought when I tried to call him and her. they didn't answer or call me back, why would they invite me if they didn't plan 4 me to come over? they were the ones who wanted me to come, not me. I was going to chill wit my bf and my family. what does this mean? I really didn't want to go anyway b/c I would be out of place anyway. that's not my family anymore, but it seemed like they wanted me to be there. should I still remain friends with his mother and him or not?

2006-12-24 09:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by Honey83 5 in Friends

2006-12-24 09:45:24 · 24 answers · asked by lil morgs 1 in Singles & Dating

Am I wrong for being hurt because he doesn't want to come to my family's for Christmas? This is our fourth Christmas together and he has gone twice before. We are getting married in the spring. His kids are not coming over until later Christmas afternoon and I want to go to my brothers for Christmas morning. I would really appreciate him going with me but I don't want to have to beg him or MAKE him go. If he wants to be a part of my life, shouldn't he be willing to do things like this with me? I rarely ask him for anything like this, but I kinda expect it at Christmas.

Am I wrong?

2006-12-24 09:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by tryingmybest79 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

and still have a happy holiday?
(I hope it is for you).
I wish you love and happiness!

2006-12-24 09:44:38 · 10 answers · asked by have a nice day 2 in Friends

2006-12-24 09:42:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where did this come from? i want my testes emptied by tonight someone help me lol

2006-12-24 09:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by bad b 2 in Singles & Dating

We were pen pals in the sixties and have lost touch with one another. Her brother's name is Lesley/Leslie Mumford. Their address was 4 Warwich AVe. Woods Estate Wednesbury S. Staffs England. I really want to find her - please help me. The first set of answers - couldn't get anywhere with them. Please help me find her.

2006-12-24 09:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by becca52_19 1 in Friends

As you all have prolly read from my old question I was dumped on
Friday and have had a hard time dealing with the loss. It's even harder because the individual works at the same job but not in the same department. My boss's husband is his best friend and I can't deal with this. I also deal with depression and have contemplated suicide a few times. To really put a thorn in things I'll be along for xmas tomorrow and through new years. I don't know what to do at this point. I'm not looking for sympathy but I am very scared because of my depression and the need to commit suicide grows stronger and more appetizing every second. I wish this never would have happened. I blame myself everyday even though I was not unfaithful or cruel to my partner. I appreciate all of the kind things everyone wrote on my previous question concerning this breakup. What do I do now? How do I cope? I've only been here a year(tx) from the west coast and it's too much to deal with. What should I do?

2006-12-24 09:39:47 · 22 answers · asked by Katintransit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf said he loves me and wants me to have sex with him but i saw him kissing my bff when i asked both of them they said they were just talking so close
i think i made a mistake should i have sex with him or break up with him?????????????????????????????

2006-12-24 09:39:40 · 16 answers · asked by erikaolsen12 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to wear a tight pair of parachute pants to my dads wedding. Is this ok for weddings, and stuff?

2006-12-24 09:39:27 · 13 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 09:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by jamesineedhelp 1 in Singles & Dating

i just moved here from florda and i have no friends yeah from florda no friends ugh well i was wondering if you can be my friend and give out each other e-mails mine is socute1angel@yahoo.com no spaces now all i need is yours and then we can e-mail each other.

2006-12-24 09:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by socute1angel@yahoo.com 1 in Friends

just forget it. I hate this. been fun though. just don't know if I should talk to my friend or if I should forget it. she has been decieving me all along and I hate her but, I know about the baby thing duh. so help me out there people

2006-12-24 09:37:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend makes no effoert with me! He never calls, texts, or chats to me online. When i try and talk to him he makes a excuse to leave! I really like him but i dont think he loves me what do i do?

2006-12-24 09:37:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 09:36:58 · 19 answers · asked by jbbsbrock 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yer so iv been livign with gf for 6 years we have a wonderfull 4 year old gal and its xmas eve my Ex gf kicks me out.
thank god i talk her round to let me stay till boxing day coz id die if i dident get to see my lil girl open her prezents.
(we actuly split up about 3-4 weeks ago but we spoke and said ill move out in new year as it was close to xmas.
i dont know why my ex has got so stress and want me out now but it happend.
and im on here wondering what i can do i do not wish to stay and fight my ground as im emotionaly draind and think it be best to just walk away and not let my lil girl see me shout on the door step.
i will be keeping in contac with my lil girl no matter what but i dont no how to find a place to live i mean is there help out there where do i stand im so confused.
i really hope others are having a good xmas

2006-12-24 09:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Just Talk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Because he locks me out when he does it, I get mad! We only have sex like once a month! This is a live person he watches and pays for this subscription! Would this be considered cheating? He is not aware that I know this, I haven't told him that I found out and I have kept this in for a year. I feel like it is cheating! I want this to work out. We used to watch porn together but not live feed. It makes me depressed and I feel so forgotten! Please advise! Thanks

2006-12-24 09:35:57 · 22 answers · asked by laurameetsworld 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it's disrespectful wearing white on your wedding day when you're not even a virgin...

Yeah, so 99% of people have premarital sex.

But white represents PURITY... and those nonvirgins who wear white on their wedding day are pretty much bashing the real PURE women. I don't think they should have the privilege to wear white. It's like the symbol is not even important anymore.

What happened to society? And things like promoting protection (that's not even 100%) instead of abstinence (which IS 100%)?

Anyone else agree with me?

2006-12-24 09:35:31 · 20 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Weddings

Like for me.. When I'm in a room of these colours, I feel that:

Red makes me have certain desires ;)

Pink makes me feel like a Barbie (eww).

Green is mysterious, yet happy.

White makes me feel clean and pure.

Navy/dark blue makes me feel calm.

Yellow cheerful.

Black I'm in power. High self esteem maybe?

I don't know... these are just my feelings.

What are yours? I'm curious.

2006-12-24 09:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i see this girl in school and she is always nice

2006-12-24 09:35:05 · 13 answers · asked by ray d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and this has to be the worst xmas of my life. I did a test a few hours ago and it was positive, ive missed 2 periods too so i know i am.

I told my boyfriend tonight and he went loopy, said i had done it deliberately and that he is not gonna be there for me and the baby. He's 24, with a good job (a policeman)

I wouldnt consider abortion but im so confused. I was on the pill so I dunno how it happened. I know its not 100% accurate but still.

Guys, how would you feel if you were in my boyf's shoes?

2006-12-24 09:34:52 · 16 answers · asked by The Claw is my master 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's one person in my family that takes the merry out of Christmas. Any of you in this same situation?

2006-12-24 09:32:29 · 20 answers · asked by Patience 6 in Family

Okay.Me and my best friend are now trying the dating scene.Cause we both figured that we have the same feelings for one another.Well last night he called like usual(calls once in the morning and after he gets off work), we got talking and he wanted to know why I'm so closed off why I act like a total bit*h sometimes.And get mad over stupid stuff.Well I said that I'm scared.I think that I don't need any help from anybody or a support system other than my family.He said "Well if you don't trust me then this isn't gonna work".I told him I did I'm just scared that I'm gonna hurt him so my first instict is to push anyone that wants to help me or be my support system away.Especially guys.Well he said that he wants to try and work things out that he has been open but he needs the same from me.So he called this morning and asked if I had made up my mind.I said ya that I wanted to try and work things out too! I have figured something out though.The only way I won't push him away is to tell....

2006-12-24 09:31:46 · 5 answers · asked by Gretchen 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-24 09:30:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-24 09:30:37 · 25 answers · asked by Danielle T 1 in Singles & Dating

Personally, I have more respect for a man who is brave enough to cry instead of worrying that somebody's going to call him a wimp. Hypermacho is a big turnoff. I'm interested in seeing the POV of both men and women.

2006-12-24 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by cruztacean1964 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-24 09:28:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-24 09:27:50 · 11 answers · asked by bhupinder thukral 1 in Friends

i decided to have sex for the first time last week and for the secon yesterday ive never even let a guy touch me in those places befor out of shyness but me and my boyfriend have been together for 18months and he has respected that about me. i expected it to be passionate and soooo pleasurable why was it not like that for me but for him he was enjoying it so much will it always feel that way. please help with advice

2006-12-24 09:25:06 · 29 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating