yer so iv been livign with gf for 6 years we have a wonderfull 4 year old gal and its xmas eve my Ex gf kicks me out.
thank god i talk her round to let me stay till boxing day coz id die if i dident get to see my lil girl open her prezents.
(we actuly split up about 3-4 weeks ago but we spoke and said ill move out in new year as it was close to xmas.
i dont know why my ex has got so stress and want me out now but it happend.
and im on here wondering what i can do i do not wish to stay and fight my ground as im emotionaly draind and think it be best to just walk away and not let my lil girl see me shout on the door step.
i will be keeping in contac with my lil girl no matter what but i dont no how to find a place to live i mean is there help out there where do i stand im so confused.
i really hope others are having a good xmas
2006-12-24 09:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Just Talk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I really admire your courage and your stance towards your daughters happiness. If you live in the UK ,there are plenty of charities that are open during the busy xmas period and maybe phone the samaritians. I really hope you can sort this out mate. Have a great xmas for your and your childs sake
2006-12-24 09:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kid-Dynamite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry to hear that so far xmas hasnt been treating u well . You can go to youre local coucil ,explain youre situation and in the immediate aftemath they will probably put you in a ymca or hostel or even a hotel till youre circumstances can be assesed . I hope that you can resolve youre issues thou and try and have a nice and peaceful xmas Good Luck
2006-12-24 09:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your trouble friend. I would suggest fighting, but if you are drained I understand why you won't.
Maybe you can move in with your parents or sleep on a friends couch. If neither of those are an option, maybe a hotel room or a cheap room that are advertised in papers.
May I also suggest, don't give up on your partner. Maybe a little space would help you guys sort your problems out.
Anyway, those are my suggestions. Good Luck.
2006-12-24 11:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the girlfriend to get stuffed. You don't throw people out of their homes at christmas. Surely she can wait until you find somewhere. It is your home too. I bet you have been buying things like food, rent etc. Shame on the woman. Approach local councils and housing associations for accommodation, but be warned it can take weeks to years to get affordable housing.
2006-12-24 14:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by charterman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww!! Bless you!! Maybe you have relatives who can help you out until you find your feet!! This must be a really hard time for you, but leaving is for the best!! Good luck!!
2006-12-24 09:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, get a J O B and move out!!! shell respect you a lot more if your not leacvhing off her and her folks
2006-12-24 09:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God! And I thought my life was horrible...well it is. But you, my friend, are really smelling hell! I hope all goes well...
2006-12-24 10:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she ask you to go
2006-12-24 10:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋