my bf said he loves me and wants me to have sex with him but i saw him kissing my bff when i asked both of them they said they were just talking so close
i think i made a mistake should i have sex with him or break up with him?????????????????????????????
2006-12-24 09:39:40 · 16 answers · asked by erikaolsen12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleeping with him would make you regret it down the road. The fact you have to ask this question on yahoo answers says that deep inside you really don't trust what he is saying and you have doubts. Anytime you have doubts that's your intuition saying "Don't do it, bad idea". So, listen to that little gut feeling you have about this whole kissing situation and be independent and smart enough to walk away and say "I'm not going to sleep with you, HOW DARE YOU question my love for you and then kiss my best friend!" Stand up for yourself, RESPECT yourself. The fact you saw them tells me you're not blind, they just can't admit they both decieved you. Your not a doormat, there are other fish in the sea.
2006-12-24 10:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. I am so sorry he hurt you. Don't let love confuse you with sex. Most guys will say that to get sex, unfortunately. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything you are not ready for. You saw him kissing, not talking "close". Dump him. and do not answer the phone if he calls you. You deserve much much better. Hugs to you.
2006-12-24 09:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was you, I'd get rid of the friend and the boyfriend. Both of them making out behind your back, uh uh. Do not have sex with him because he is obvisiously only saying that ot have sex with you but he doesnt love you if he is kissing some other girl.
2006-12-24 09:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by First L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh mother~!!no dump his *** if they can find such a lame excuse that sortta got you believin already then u shouldn't ever trust them. i mean like it shows he has no repect for you, and i don't kno if u didn't realise but that is a straight up lie and even if they were talking close- how unintensional can it be for u to talk "too" close to a guys lips and not withdraw and how did and what were thay doing talking so close? he doesn't deserve you and u surely don't deserve his expert unfaithfulness so early in life nuh- unh!!!!!!
2006-12-24 10:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by REALITY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it is your first time nnnnnnnoooooooooo its not a good idea. but otherwise i think men are all sly and if your bff likes him and wants him she probably did kiss him and its just an excuse friends can be backstabbing to dont open up so far to a guy that you cant completely trust
2006-12-24 09:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was playing you. Now that you said you wouldn't have sex, he's moving on to the next girl. I'm glad you didn't have sex. Save yourself for somebody who's worth it. This so-called boyfriend sounds like he only told you he loved you to get down your pants. Be careful with losers like that.
2006-12-24 09:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my goodness, he's obviously unfaithful, and a complete dick, please the best choice you can make is to dump him right away.
Tell him exactly how you feel.
Even if he contuinues to beg you, or come crawling back, stand strong and just say no,
Don't waste your time on such an ungrateful fool.
Someone better will come around.
You deserve better m'dear.
2006-12-24 09:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd figure after that the whole sex question would be out the window. Be wary of him and don't sleep with him, it will only make things worse.
2006-12-24 10:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop Him He's Being Unfaithful To u
2006-12-24 09:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a cheater dump his butt like yesterdays news. but, havin sex with him after u saw that, ud just b askin 4 trouble.
2006-12-24 09:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by thatsspoiledangel2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋