My boyfriend makes no effoert with me! He never calls, texts, or chats to me online. When i try and talk to him he makes a excuse to leave! I really like him but i dont think he loves me what do i do?
2006-12-24 09:37:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. He really doesn't sound worthy of you, I think you know it and you just needed us to tell you that...
2006-12-24 12:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nini 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously isnt into you, as you would have expected, i mean if you are going out with someone, surely they wouldnt behave in such a manner, its not on, and you deserve better, he could be emotionally immature, lack of communication skills,something you are taught at a very young, how old is he anyway?
If you are feeling this way, dont waste your time on him,there are so many guys out there, who would embrace talking, texting and chatting online with you, with open arms, if he is making his excuses to leave, surely thats a warning bell?
He thinks its okay for him to treat you in this manner, because you are allowing him to, and if he loved you, he wouldnt be acting childishly, kick his *** to the kerb love, then we will see how quick he is to acknowledge you again!!
You can do better....get rid of...sharpish!!!
2006-12-24 17:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be too Blunt Honey but Take A Hint !. He seems to have moved on and cant tell you incase youre a bunny boiler ,. Out in this world there are so many people that to spend time dribbling and drooling after a man that clearly isnt interested is a waste . Move on love : Its a new year throw out the old in with the NEW
2006-12-24 17:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There must be a reason for him to be treating you like that. It is hard to predict what the problem can be with you two. It is best to talk to him about your observations about his lack of interest in you. Base on the out come you will were to go from there
2006-12-24 17:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something disturbs him which make him not to pay much attention to you. it's clear you are not his no1 but have you asked him .As your boyfriend I think you have .If you still dying about him ask him why .Tell him how much it hurts you what he does .Then try to tell his closest friend who can also try to mediate .But if you are fed up just tell him that you give him last chance .if he doesn't respond positively leave him alone he doesn't want to be with you any more i know how it frustrate to hear somebody nagging ,wanting you to pay attention on her whereas you have new intention s about life .At the end of the day it's your life .take decision that you won't regret in future.
2006-12-24 18:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Golden days before they end, whisper secrets to the wind... "
maybe you didn't catch the signs babe. If he isn't responding it's more than likely there is no chemistry. Dont let it knock you back. Just don't wear your heart on your sleeve too readily. You deserve better, but don't go looking for someone to fill the gap...wait a while.
I wish you well. x
2006-12-24 17:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by ~☆ Petit ♥ Chou ☆~ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? I mean you just said it he doesn't call you, text, chat on line, it sounds to me like you don't need some prat like that who doesn't know how to treat a lady! What does it matter how he feels when you deserve to be treated so much better?
2006-12-24 17:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suggest you talk to him about how you feel. it could be that he doesn't feel the same as you do or that he does but is incapable of connecting to someone on an emotional level. some people are like that. if it is you just have to accept that that is how he is. either way you have to find out. good luck
2006-12-24 17:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah move on,you shouldn't put up with being treat like that anyway,it cant be much of a relationship,its all one sided.good luck
2006-12-24 17:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 can play that game baby.he aint gvn u love,so he dont deserve yours sweetheart.he aint a man so go out there and get yoself one sista
2006-12-24 17:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by mazirudo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋