Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

say if you caught your b/f g/f staring at opposite gender.

2006-12-23 15:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by tennisgurl 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i met this guy through a friend, the first night he totally hit on me and got my number. since then everything was pretty good, we talked on the phone and went out to the movies.. the whole time at the movies he was all like, "we have to hang out more!!", etc, and we kissed on the date, and we had another night. anyways the whole week after the date he didnt call even though he wanted to go out. Then I called him a week later about this party to see if he was going and he said he was. he never called again the whole nite, i didnt call him either, and he sent me this msg today ::
" From: Mike
Date: Dec 23 2006
Subject: No Subject
Body: Hey sry I missed Amanda's thing last nite....hope you guys had fun. I tried to go but things just didnt work out i guess. I'll talk to you later. "

what does this mean??? why would he send this?? its totally unpersonal and doesnt even encourage me to respond.. what is he thinking?

2006-12-23 15:16:14 · 24 answers · asked by electriccshocks 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 15:15:01 · 11 answers · asked by DconS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am living with my ex bf, b/c I cant afford to move out until February and I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He told me the other day he is almost in love with me..?

2006-12-23 15:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by katyk08 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry people, I am just feeling very devilish right now..............Muahahhahaha..........
if I scare anyone I am soooo sorrry..............I just have these weird spaz attacks ...........
heheheehehe hahahahahaah muahahahahha hehehehheehhe ahahahahahahahah

How can I calm down???!!!

2006-12-23 15:13:05 · 11 answers · asked by GROOVY LILY 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 15:12:20 · 16 answers · asked by j m 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands daughter turned 18 last July. She is slightly mentally ill, but she graduated from high school, and was even in band. The divorce papers state that my husband has to pay until the court decides to stop child support. I just wonder if anyone has any idea if maybe the court might stop child support when she is 21, or maybe sooner? Thank You for any help anyone can give us.

2006-12-23 15:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by killara00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this person and really want to tell him but I keep hesitating and cannot get the courage to tell him but I really don't want to lose my friend either...I seem to be stuck between the proverbial rock and a hard place... Any advice?

2006-12-23 15:10:16 · 20 answers · asked by Tink 2 in Friends

just wanted to ask some of the ladies on here an honest question. When I was in high school me and a friend named Amy fell in love after being good friends for several years. We dated for about a year. It was a wonderful romance; however she broke up with me after I left for college due to our imaturity and miscommunication. Yet I refused to be a jerk to her and was as nice as I could be. It drove her nuts. It was very painful for both of us, made worse when my dad died while we were both at his bedside. After that she vanished and I did not see her or her from her again for 3 years. Before that I said I would wait for her and learn italian since she wanted me to talk to her in it. I kept my promise and after 3 years she came back. We ended up fixing things, but unfortanitly because of college she had to leave town. We ended up breaking up again due to the distance and stress of college but on good terms. She also wanted space which i gave her. Do I still have a chance with her.

2006-12-23 15:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do u still think that if you hadn't done this or if you'd done that, you would still be married?

2006-12-23 15:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to ask a boy to dance at the next school dance but i dont know if i should ask him or he should ask me first. im in 6th grade.

2006-12-23 15:08:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl i really like told me to send her a email over the holidays.
I know she likes me. What should i talk about?

2006-12-23 15:07:11 · 17 answers · asked by martin3 1 in Singles & Dating

What should a couple do on their 10th wedding anniversary (other than go out to eat and have sex!).

Keep in mind, we have 2 small children and a limited budget (meaning we can't go take a cruise or spend $1,000 in one night). Any ideas (especially in the Dayton Ohio area)?

2006-12-23 15:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by charyl92678 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 9 yr. old. daughter & dont get me wrong- she is a beautiful & smart girl who I adore & dote on, but, I also find her at this point to be totally annoying (which I do not reveal to her). I know this sounds absurd & I'm sure that I'll get some hate responses, but, honestly; who wouldn't get annoyed after the same person has been following them around & talking non-stop for almost 10 yrs?

2006-12-23 15:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm tyring to get back someone i love with all my heart.

2006-12-23 15:06:07 · 8 answers · asked by koolguy402003 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I was told by my hair stylist that one of her friends who is Black and Christian was dating a Pakistani guy and they were in love to where he asked her to marry him. She said when his family found out, he was asked to go to Pakistan. There, he was beatin and forced to marry on of his cousins if he didn't denouce this black woman he was in love with. He wouldn't so they took his visa so that he couldn't come back to America. I was shocked about that. Also, I've heard about a few times that Pakistani people aren't ok to be with a black woman or black man. Which confused me, because My friend Usman is Pakistani, and my boyfriend is Indian, they both are muslim. Is it more of a religion thing, or race thing or both? Before I met my Indian boyfriend, my friend Usman and I were kinda dating, and he said his family didn't care who he dated, I met his mother, she was fine with me being black. My boyfriend said his parents are fine with me too. He's in Pakistan right now for work.

2006-12-23 15:06:03 · 2 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 15:05:32 · 11 answers · asked by katyk08 2 in Singles & Dating

she touches my hand alot

2006-12-23 15:05:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bff is a very sarcastic person. and she emailed me somthing that said i was dumb and a reatard is she joking or serious?

2006-12-23 15:05:10 · 8 answers · asked by happy-soccer-feet! 2 in Friends

like zales or something? I dunno.

2006-12-23 15:05:06 · 18 answers · asked by woah 2 in Weddings

why do i have a problem being naked, I feel so scared and ashamed. help

2006-12-23 15:04:28 · 14 answers · asked by dontbeme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an 13 year old child, who does not think my 10 dollar per month allowance meets her needs. Should I raise this cash gift?

2006-12-23 15:03:38 · 26 answers · asked by k@Ti3 1 in Family

I made a mess with this guy and sent him mixed signals now i am getting mixed signals from him i am not sure if he cares as a frien or more..what should I do I think I do like him alot because he is a nice guy but I do love another guy ..I am confused...

2006-12-23 15:03:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my gf needs professional help. She's got SOMETHING unresolved in her past. I know, don't we all. But this is big (don't know what b/c she freezes when we start to talk about it), it's not her fault (from what little I CAN gather), but it's ruining our relationship. We start to get close, she pushes me away, and the closer we seem to get, the harder she tries to push. There are tons of supporting facts. She tells me her life is a disaster. I ask her why she thinks that and I swear she has no answer. She tells me I am too good for her or I am amazing. I ask her if she thinks I would date someone who wasn't amazing too and she is speechless, a deafening silence. So, how do I propose the idea of therapy to her? I am seriously willing to go, too, by myself or with her if, for no other reason, to show her I mean it and that I don't think it means a person is weak (I think she is terrified that I think that already or will).

2006-12-23 15:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 15:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i am now thinking after 6 months, i might have a friends with benefits on my hands. i dont mind the physical stuff, and we both tell each other that we do love one another, but it seems that i do 10x the amount of work with the little things, gifts, going out of my way to see her etc. now i know she has a busy schedule, but she has had b/f's in the past to where she had to pay for everything, and take their crap. now i come along, she doesnt pay a dime for anything, always get treated like she is standing on a stage with a big spotlight shining bright just on her, and gets anything in general including that one on one attention we all want. so that's fine, but now after half a year, why am i doing everything, and not getting that special one on one with her. like she said that she was tired and didnt want to hang out. that's cool, turns around, and leaves to hang out with friends until 4am. should i admit all i am to her is a **** buddy with no strings??

2006-12-23 15:01:57 · 5 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

I have High end autism and my hands are weak am i cut out to join the military (maybe the air force)

2006-12-23 15:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by James C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well me and my boyfriend have be seeing each other for awhile .more then 6 months I can count the number of times with been out on one hand .He lives 8 minutes away from where I live all he wants to do is have sex.I've told him about this so many time that I want to go out somewhere besides the movies so we planned to go out last night this was like a christamas outing for a walk on the beach we planned to go at 7.30 he said for to meet him at the train station so I did 30 minutes went past no call it was then 5 min past 8 so I called and was like whats happening Im at the staion he was like yeah I was going to call you then Im like its late cus Im at the train station by myself and Im like Im going home he like you do what you have to do then I hung up he didn't call me till and hour later I didn't answer his calls.This was exposed to be something special I looked forward to I cancelled my own plans with my friend to be with him.Know he just called me acting like nothing happened

2006-12-23 15:01:33 · 8 answers · asked by Ashanti 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a good man, but he rates a 0 when it comes to romance and showing affection. He also is very selfish when It comes to sex. As a provider and father and friend he's great.
But as a woman I get nothing from him. Help I've told him, but he doesn't get it. He only touchs me when he wants sex. He does'nt understand that a woman needs a kiss, or a hug outside the bedroom. We've been married 22 years and he just thinks I should know how he feels about me. I do know he loves me, but sometimes I would like a little proof.

2006-12-23 15:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by Vikki M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 14:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by PrettyEyesInTexas 1 in Marriage & Divorce