I am living with my ex bf, b/c I cant afford to move out until February and I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He told me the other day he is almost in love with me..?
2006-12-23 15:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by katyk08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's a new one. Lol. I think that he's trying to say that he really has strong feelings for you but he can't bring himself to commit to the L-word yet.
2006-12-23 15:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, given that love is a feeling that you get even without knowing the person completely, you can never tell if it is true love that is going to last. So only time will tell. You can fall in love with someone at sight, but that doesn't mean that it is going to work. So almost in love , means for some people, they want to get the ducks in the row, before they can completely commit to love. Love alone doesn't make your relationship last.
But if he says, he almost loves you, he should be upto going out with you and want to know more about you and spend more time with you. If he doesn't , he's just playin'.
2006-12-23 23:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by thewiseone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? How in the world does one almost love someone? I don't get it. I though either they do or they don't. They can like some as a friend or in a platonic way. If someone told you that they almost love you, my guess is that they don't know what they want or they don't have the balls to go all in on the love department.
2006-12-23 23:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does living with ur ex have 2 do with it?
Well, that was rude!! Almost?? I "almost" love you?? "youre not good enough to live up 2 my standards, but *almost*...."
he might as well say nothing!!
2006-12-23 23:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost?!!! What the heck is that? He likes you a whole lot. Does he have a time limit before he can feel that he loves you? I would say he means that he likes you alot but isn't in love with you at this point.
2006-12-23 23:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there can be a "I almost love you" feeling. It's either I love you or I don't. I think he is just biding time, he may be trying to sort his feelings out still, you have only been dating for 2 months.
2006-12-23 23:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by medicswife23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO. You f*cking believe that a**wipe? Girl, you gotta have more self-esteem than that. Almost is not good enough. On the other hand, you may be dealing with someone really immature, because only someone with no maturity will say something stupid like that.
Tiny_Tim's response is priceless.
2006-12-23 23:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what "almost in love" means. I always thought of love as something you do or don't have for someone, no in between.
2006-12-23 23:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard that one before, I heard I am falling in love with you. What is almost mean. You need to ask him that question.
2006-12-23 23:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess there is A time when you are falling in love, I have never heard it put like that before...Most people say I am falling in love with you first, then I am in love with you...
2006-12-23 23:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you can be almost in love. I think you can be falling in love. Almost in love just sounds mean.
2006-12-23 23:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by Amous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋