just wanted to ask some of the ladies on here an honest question. When I was in high school me and a friend named Amy fell in love after being good friends for several years. We dated for about a year. It was a wonderful romance; however she broke up with me after I left for college due to our imaturity and miscommunication. Yet I refused to be a jerk to her and was as nice as I could be. It drove her nuts. It was very painful for both of us, made worse when my dad died while we were both at his bedside. After that she vanished and I did not see her or her from her again for 3 years. Before that I said I would wait for her and learn italian since she wanted me to talk to her in it. I kept my promise and after 3 years she came back. We ended up fixing things, but unfortanitly because of college she had to leave town. We ended up breaking up again due to the distance and stress of college but on good terms. She also wanted space which i gave her. Do I still have a chance with her.
2006-12-23 15:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it, if you truly love her, give her one last chance, she may return her love still.
2006-12-23 15:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
After all u guys went through I think u do have a chance and now u r older and maturer u can figure out a way 2 be 2gether and do what u have 2 in your careers because what u guys have is real. I think u r meant 2 be 2gether and both of u know it but u r afraid of breaking up again so get back 2gether and make it work dis time. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-12-23 15:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do have a chance. However, you do have to let things go on there own. A lot can happen and change a person over time so don't keep your hopes up. Don't be too pushy, but do let her know you are there. Also, don't isolate yourself from possible relationships. See what else there is in the world.
2006-12-23 15:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think so. I was in a loving relationship with a guy in college. We even talked marriage. But we broke up due to immaturity. If he came back and asked me out, I would date him again.
2006-12-23 16:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is an issue you should probably talk directly to her about. I'd say you most likely have a good chance with her, BUT...given the situation, and the fact that i cant predict what someone i dont know would do, my prediction may be entirely wrong. I would still go for it though, b/c what if you dont and she loves you? that would suck
2006-12-23 15:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by ~JusLivinLife~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 15:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you still have a chance with her....i think that maybe this time if you all get together you all should just stay together and try to work things out if you all really love each other. Love is love no matter the situation you are in...don't think?
2006-12-23 15:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by confused_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have a chance but you have to let her make that decision. Just be there for her as a friend, but don't push things because if she wants space then the worst thing you can do is rush her. If you're meant to be together then she'll come around. In the meantime, don't forget her but don't put all your time and energy into her either, because it'll just hurt more if it doesn't work out and even if it does, it'll be exhausting while you have to wait.
2006-12-23 15:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by centralwimusic 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sure u have...if she still loves u the same..u need to get in touch with her again...u should hv never lost touch with her in the first place....u hv created a lot of communication gap for years now and 3 years is a long time to change a person's life....u hv a chance with her only if she has not yet fallen in love again
2006-12-23 15:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by suni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your SOUL MATE - do everything that you can to get her back! Make everything else in your life suffer - forget about getting an education or a good job or having friends or any other purpose in life other than capturing her forever! Because without her, without this perfect SOUL MATE, you are nothing!
2006-12-23 15:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got yourself in a position thats tight. Tell her that you miss her and that you can wait untill she's outa school. Tell her that she means the whole world to you and that you'll dod anything for her. If you really like her than you would buy some roses, chocolate and a necklace. If you really show your love, you might still have a chance.
2006-12-23 15:13:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋