okay i met this guy through a friend, the first night he totally hit on me and got my number. since then everything was pretty good, we talked on the phone and went out to the movies.. the whole time at the movies he was all like, "we have to hang out more!!", etc, and we kissed on the date, and we had another night. anyways the whole week after the date he didnt call even though he wanted to go out. Then I called him a week later about this party to see if he was going and he said he was. he never called again the whole nite, i didnt call him either, and he sent me this msg today ::
" From: Mike
Date: Dec 23 2006
Subject: No Subject
Body: Hey sry I missed Amanda's thing last nite....hope you guys had fun. I tried to go but things just didnt work out i guess. I'll talk to you later. "
what does this mean??? why would he send this?? its totally unpersonal and doesnt even encourage me to respond.. what is he thinking?
2006-12-23 15:16:14 · 24 answers · asked by electriccshocks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that he couldn't make it...
He wrote it to you so you don't think that he blew you off...
He was probably on another date with someone, better go after him before you lose him to some other chick.
2006-12-23 15:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you expect him to call you everyday, you guys just went on a date, you are not a couple. It is the holiday season and he may have a family and a life to contend with. if you just have to have a great deal of attention from a man then you probably need to move on and find someone willing to call you and check in and take you out everyday. he is the only guy in the world. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-23 23:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not interrested in u as a gf. Maybe he just wants u as a friend. Thats what it sounds like. Guys dont say they are interrested or not, they usually just avoid and hope u get the point.
Hes probably just looking for a lay.
Get the point...
2006-12-23 23:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by magnet4trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was just a guy that was totally not genuine, because some of us can be real assholes. perhaps he just wanted to get some from the first girl he could and it wasnt you, im sorry that you are hurt, but best thing to do is forget about him hes not irreplaceable.
2006-12-23 23:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by andronio n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what does that sound like to you? If he really wanted to get together with you, he would have done it sooner. Texting can be so impersonal. It seems like u're his back up plan when he has nothing going on .
2006-12-23 23:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetasssugah06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i"m sorry but thats usuely sign that he dont realy cares about you, it might not be truth, maybe he just had a tough week or so, but before you go ahead i would say try finding it out, because if he dont really love you it might not work out even if you feel you like him, so good luck & should god be with you
2006-12-23 23:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by M.J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if somethings wrong and if he says "no" than ask him on dates more. Ask him if hen still loves you and if he say "alot of things have been going on lately" ask him what. Alot of time, sadly, these happenings are normally led to a breakup, don't let that happen!
goodluck
2006-12-23 23:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you as a friend and wants to keep u on the side just in case he wants to date u later down the road. not being mean, just honest
2006-12-23 23:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by atomicshockwave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he's got something else going on right now but is keeping you on the back burner in case things don't work out. I would move on.
2006-12-23 23:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by medicswife23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means he does not know how to communicate to you that he's not interested. Just let that go and move on to something better. Good luck sweetie.
2006-12-23 23:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋