Do u still think that if you hadn't done this or if you'd done that, you would still be married?
2006-12-23 15:08:21 · 6 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think about my past marriage and wonder what things would have been like if i'd done things differently. However, I also compare my new marriage to the only and have realized i'm much better off and happier than i could ever have been with my ex.
If i hadn't been so against my ex's drinking problem, and stayed with her and accepted she was a hopeless alcoholic, we'd still be married to this day.
2006-12-23 19:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I'd been stronger to stand up to him.
He had a supervised visit with the baby yesterday, the 1st time he'd seen her in 10 months.
He couldn't even get her an Xmas present.
But since I left him cos he was violent and mentally abusive, I have made so many changes.
I got counselling
I was rehoused in the most perfect house-Which is the first place I have been able to stay in since I was 12.
I declared bankruptcy, as I had my debts cos of him.
I saved up and went on holiday with my children.
I booked driving lessons- as he repeatidly told me I was useless and that I could only drive an automatic car- I passed my test last week on the 1st attempt with only 5 minors [faults] with manual gears.
And my divorce comes through this week.
My daughters have started Karate classes
And next year I will be studying with the Open University
Meanwhile I take great comfort in knowing that he will be sat in his room at his mums house, with her nagging him-He'll have a spliff in one hand [he has canabis psycosis] and a can of Stella in the other.
I'd shake his hand if I saw him again.cos I'm now so tough and I believe in myself so much now.
I couldn't even go to my kids school when I was with him cos I was so downtrodden and tired.
2006-12-24 04:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, for you can only be you, if you acted with love and honesty then it was not meant to be
2006-12-24 06:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by veinallinius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not. some marriages are just not meant to be.
2006-12-24 04:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by rappa29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short n Sweet "NO"
2006-12-24 07:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.but only when i see the ex
2006-12-24 03:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋