I made a mess with this guy and sent him mixed signals now i am getting mixed signals from him i am not sure if he cares as a frien or more..what should I do I think I do like him alot because he is a nice guy but I do love another guy ..I am confused...
2006-12-23 15:03:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
details would be nice, look deep inside yourself though, see if its even worth your energy to think about him, if you are in love with someone else
2006-12-23 15:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love with another guy , and you still like this guy alot but are not in love with him you need to talk with him, and let him know your feelings before you really hurt him, you are playing with a human being here another persons heart put yourself in his shoes how would you feel always think of the other person and what you would feel like if you were in their shoes ,, what goes around comes around....if you are the one that sent the mixed signals first why cant you understand maybe he is playing your game?
2006-12-23 23:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by luckychi_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well y are u worried about it if u actually love another guy. So either try 2 work with dat or tell the other guy how u feel and get a for sure sign he likes u.
2006-12-23 23:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games. If you really understand what loving someone is then you will work on that relationship. You may be attracted to that gu and may be flirting with each other but leave it at that. He probably knows you have someone else and doesn't want to push up on you. Take one man at a time.
2006-12-23 23:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him face to face.
Tell him the truth.
Does he love you?
Do you deserve him?
Does he think he deserves you?
He is nice, Why don't you like nice?
Why did you give him mixed signals?
Would he give his life for you?
The one you think you love, would he give his life for you, or is he someone who treated you like crap, and you always thought you could change him.
Do you have children?
Go with the one who loves you with all his heart.
2006-12-23 23:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jungleroy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first.. you have to decide... if you "love" one guy but are sending the other guy mixed signals.. you cant make up your mind. and you need to be able to make up your mind so you can decide whom you really want to send signals to
2006-12-23 23:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by fhockeeshortee28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list about all the good and bad things about both and pick the better deal and which one you love MORE
2006-12-23 23:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and let him know before it goes any further that you are in love with another man and that you like him as a friend.be honest so he doesnt get hurt over this.
2006-12-23 23:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, let's all say this together: "No man wants to just be friends. We only can think of having sex with you, first." If friendship happens, well, that's just a bonus, it wasn't intentional.
2006-12-23 23:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by mjatthebeeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to relax and think about who you really love, once you have decided that, sit down with him and talk about this. You need to straighten it out before one of you gets hurt.
2006-12-23 23:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by ~JusLivinLife~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋