Family & Relationships - 15 December 2006

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is and no1 wud support me so wut do i do i don't wanna live under sum1's control 4ever i don't ever wanna see him again either he's treated me lyk**** my hole life i wanna b free of him 1 day but then again HE SCARES THE **** OUT OF ME plz help! i'm tra

2006-12-15 14:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

ok, so i was just walking home from school and my bf and me were just talking about everything and anything. we ended up arguing bc i wouldnt make out with him and he said " well, your best friend *Marissa* would." I realized that *Marissa* was busy the same nights as my bf and i put 2 and 2 together to find out that he was cheating on me!! the only problem is that she didnt know who i was dating bc she'd think it was a lie bc hes like so hot and sweet and nice and funny and genuine and all that sh*t so i never told her his name help me!!



note: *marissa* is not real name

2006-12-15 14:32:53 · 4 answers · asked by babiibrownie818 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl I like We are both sophmores and have known each other for months and we both know we like eachother. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug. I giver her a hug once in a long while anyway but that is it. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs.so wht do you think I should do ? and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saveing that for marraige.

2006-12-15 14:32:50 · 2 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for three years. All of our friends know each other. Well my best friend is dating a friend(Aric) of my b/f. I am always hanging out with Aric and we are very close friends. My friend is jealous of how close we are and is trying to get my b/f where he is jealous too. Does she have a reason?? Should I not be friends with the guy b/c she's dating him??

When I was hurt and d.q. during my gymnastics meet(which neither my bff or b/f could attend b/c of something else with school), Aric came up to me in the hall where me and my friend were crying and held me in his arms and said everything will be ok.

Is this too close for friends to be??
I think his friend(aric) is cute but I love my b/f. Aric is the same way. Should I stop being his friend b/c of my other friend??

2006-12-15 14:32:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what she reply " ask him to be friend first cause like disconnect so much, restart from friend, then i also can understand him better..
He wont feel insecure that way.. And my commitment also will go naturally..
but, the thing is, he thought its like the end...
I explained to him, but he dont listen..
But lately, he seemed better, though we dont really talk.."
Will she came back for me?

2006-12-15 14:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Confused123 1 in Singles & Dating

i am really stomped on this, girls, talk to me, do u find it nice for ur guy 2 do call u just 2 hear u speak??

2006-12-15 14:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by herimos 4 in Singles & Dating

i am ringing my partner tonight as I still want to work things out between us nad I know she does too or at least she did last night but I couldnt call by her dealine this morning cause i still didnt have money on my phone but i will as I am ringing her tonight and do you all think she wil understand that the reason I couldnt call until tonight is that I had no credit, I hope she does...

what do you all think
Mitch

2006-12-15 14:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

People get pretty hung up about their wedding cake (among other wedding concerns). Superficial icing aside, is there a genuine tradition or is it part of the confectionary conspiracy? What, if any meaning is there?

2006-12-15 14:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by themarxx 2 in Weddings

OK, I have to move because Florida is way too conservative regarding interracial dating, specifically black/African-American women and white/Caucasian men, so I want to know from people "in the know" (other black/African-American women and white/Caucasian men) what are the best cities for interracial dating? What I mean by that is where can you walk down the street holding hands and not have people shout nasty remarks, where people are more open minded and where love is just that....love. Or...feel free to tell me what I am dreaming because that place does not exist in the United States!!!

I know NYC is on the top of most people's lists, but I am interested in hearing about other cities.

Thanks in advance and happy loving!!!

2006-12-15 14:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by BritLdy 5 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with someone almost 10 years and I'm still in love with him even though we're both remarried and haven't had any conmunication since July. I tried everything but this deep longing is still there. HELP!!!

2006-12-15 14:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by lovelost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tooooooo much crap going on for a band i don't kno how 2 quit with out makein em all mad??!

2006-12-15 14:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i do

2006-12-15 14:29:05 · 16 answers · asked by Joshua B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

especially when they wont tell you who the like in return???

2006-12-15 14:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

today my crush super cute dream boy made out with me like crazy i still dont know if he likes me, anways we were frenching and everything and i knew he was a pervert but then i thought he was just saying it, he was so nasty tried to touch me all over and stuff. then my whole impression of him changed. his spit was also really nasty, it wasnt pleasant. So what now i like him or i dont? how do i know?

2006-12-15 14:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i argue about her not calling me when she not doing nothing, i argue about her going out and having fun when im here doing nothing, the biggest one is that when she gets irratated she kinda takes it out on me and that really pisses me off. sorry makes me really mad please i need help badly. i really love her but its hard for me to overlook these things.

2006-12-15 14:27:41 · 16 answers · asked by javierburgos20036 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok I broke up with my old girlfriend in November and then yesterday my best friend asked her out and she said "yes." Now he is sleeping over and is talking to her on the phone, I cant stand it!!!! He's totally showing off by chasing me around the house, when my family is trying to sleep. What should I do?????

2006-12-15 14:26:44 · 34 answers · asked by zktnl27 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, just the other day my girlfriend told me that she "wanted a break". It really kind of like came to me by surprise, but she told me that she was thinking about it for a week. She says she still loves me and that she wants to get back together and that she only wants to "be a teenager". (I'm 17 and she's 16 right now and we have been together for a while now).
I don't really understand what she means though, because she still wants me to call her and still basically wants us to talk and act all good. But I can't handle that, for the past couple of days I've been so depressed I don't want to get out of bed, I don't want to eat, I'm miserable. I want her to be happy, and I love her so much, but I really don't know what to do. I don't think I can handle going every day like this, someone please help me. Someone mature, and that is not an *******. I would like to hear what the girls have to say mostly. Thanks a lot for the help.

2006-12-15 14:26:05 · 19 answers · asked by Esteban F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If somebody treats you badly during your relationship with them, would you assume that they will continue such behavior with their future partners? I just learned a man I was involved with in the past has hooked up with a new girlfriend. He treated me pretty badly, and I dumped him. But sometimes I can't shake the feeling that he's changed and is now Mr. Perfect, or Mr. Closer-to-Perfect, and for some reason it bothers me. I wouldn't take him back, he had a lot of problems, but I'm wondering how common this feeling is. Aren't our behaviors pretty hard to change unless we really focus in on them and make an effort to be aware of them?

2006-12-15 14:25:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, bear with me ... there are two sections to this issue:

1. Recently, a friend suddenly stop communicating with his friends (including me) and now he only talks to his family members. The same family members have been saying that his personality has been really bitter as of late and that he never seems happy ... they don't know what to do about it.

2. This same friend also has a secret that he only told one of his best guy friends. Now that he's being anti-social, he's friend tells me the secret. The secret is that he really cares about me and doesn't know how to express it. He has wanted to ask me out for a while now but was too scared :( :( :( :(

He was only scared to ask me because he feels that I'm the one he wants to marry some day! At first, I didn't believe it but the brother of this friend kinda confirmed everything but I had to promise never to mension this to him.

How do I help him if he's acting anti-social? Will he ever admit his feelings to me?

2006-12-15 14:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm ready....now what do I get?

2006-12-15 14:24:49 · 3 answers · asked by Trini V 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-15 14:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by Bobo 1 in Singles & Dating

for a guy?

2006-12-15 14:23:47 · 8 answers · asked by Poseidon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy and i became friends because he asked my friend to homecoming and she said no so i started talking to him and then i started liking him we went to a dance and danced all night and he liked me back and told my friends he was going to ask me out however my friends bugged him and then he said he didn't like me anymore because i talked to him to much i only talked to him in the morings and sometimes at lunch is still like him and want to see if we can still go out and ask out myself since he hasn't i wanted to go out to lunch on a minimum day and talk to him then ask him out but idk if he still likes me should i ?

2006-12-15 14:23:37 · 1 answers · asked by lyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

Can emotions be trusted when you are deciding whether or not to be with someone...or should you rely on your rationality? What if a person is rationally right for you but you don't have any feelings for him? What about the women who say they love a man when he beats her...is that trusting your emotions? Do you believe in the saying "trust you heart"? The heart is the main source of emotions...but is it misleading at times?

2006-12-15 14:22:34 · 6 answers · asked by Yul'ka 3 in Singles & Dating

I deleted all my ex's pictures from my computer to make my husband happier that i did it, but i was on his laptop last nite and i saw all of his ex's that got me pissed off about it and not get any sleep over it,I asked him tonite does he have any of his ex's on his computer he told me no, when i saw them myself last nite about 12am what should i do about this,we have been married for 6months. Should i delete them myself? The reason why i left my ex's on there so i can just be friends when they com online. theres nothing wrong about that is there?

2006-12-15 14:22:08 · 13 answers · asked by Loveforsaken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this boy and he is super sweet and i love havein him around but..he is a skater nad im a cheerleader ya we get along and all but idk.Well anyways.I really do like him and i cant stop thinkin about him only to more problems...HE iS MY BFF BRO AND 2 YEARS OLDER......:<
i want him so bad an dshe nos i like him alot and that i want him bad.Well tuesday she called me at 10:00 to tell me her bro said that he is thinkin about askin me out:> i was so happy well now i thiink i because to flirty and around to much that he dont like me now he wont act the same and he isnt actin shy he is actin mean yet nice id...
me bein 13 and him bein 15 and all isnt my BIGGEST prob it just i want him so bad so...should i tell him when i stay all next wekk with his sis at there house.
cause i am ganna b spendin most my time over there and i need help on how to tell him and if i should so plz help me plzzzzz:>:>

2006-12-15 14:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will it be called cheating if you have an ex husband that comes for the holidays to spend some time with his son (whom is in your care), and the three of you go out together?

2006-12-15 14:20:47 · 18 answers · asked by Zenithia Victora 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mt boyfriend is 30 yrs old and I am 23. We have been living together for just 6 months.He just told me that he wants to adopt one of his nephews who is 13 yrs old, his mother died about 5 yrs ago, and I guess the people who he is living with are not treating him well. Should I just say ok lets adopt him or umm is it a big deal, something that we really need to talk and think about... I um sort of scared. My first reaction is that maybe I am not ready to take care of a teenager. But my boyfriend said that we were both adults and it should not be hard.

2006-12-15 14:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by Domingo 2 in Family

Alright, here we go. I was dating this guy from the Navy, and he's supposed to come home in March. Well, we decided to take a break and everything, just for us to both decide if we think being in a military relationship will work for us since he is stationed in Japan. Last night at around 5:00am someone knocked at my door so I went to see who it was, and it was him!!! Standing at my doorstep, in his uniform with a huge bouquet of roses!!!! I gave him a huge hug because I hadn't seen him in over 5 months since he had gone out of the states. so we sat there in my house and we talked for a while. He told me to close my eyes and he asked me if I could picture us being together forever and growing old together. I told him I could and I asked him why and I opened my eyes and he was on the floor on one knee and had a ring in his hand! I panicked!! I told him I had to think about it....I love him alot but I'm scared that we wont work out because of all of the traveling. PLEASE give advice!!

2006-12-15 14:18:54 · 16 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1 in Singles & Dating

yea just asking

2006-12-15 14:18:16 · 13 answers · asked by tomboy123 2 in Singles & Dating