Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because my sister told him I was cheating on him. She only told him that b-cuz she didn't like him. He text me on my phone and said ''its over''. Itried 2 explain to him but he wouldn't listen. He knows I would never cheat on him. Why didn;t he let me explain?

2006-12-14 12:32:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been trying to find a girlfriend for a while. All the women I find that have any sort of class or that I otherwise am interested in all have boyfriends or husbands.

I don't mind them having a boyfriend or husband, but the boyfriend or husband usually minds me trying to flirt with the woman.

Where can I find a nice woman who doesn't have a boyfriend/husband? Or, alternatively, where can I find a woman who's boyfriend/husband doesn't mind? (And I don't mean 'Doesn't mind because he doesn't know.)

2006-12-14 12:31:51 · 3 answers · asked by Jack Schitt 3 in Singles & Dating

im sick of these little stans/stalkers/stalkettes trolling around giving cryptic messages on peoples answers...including mine...whats the point??? i dont think most people know what you're on about anyways most of the time...is it just a pointless vent for yourself...or are they really trying to say something they are unable to for whatever reason...???

why arent they more direct and honest ???

2006-12-14 12:31:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend, but I he's a alcoholic and i need some advice on what to do next I love him but I don't want to spend the rest of my life smelling alcohol.

2006-12-14 12:31:00 · 2 answers · asked by Genisis 1 in Singles & Dating

we argue and he wont admit he's wrong sometimes

2006-12-14 12:30:33 · 7 answers · asked by babi_cici85 1 in Friends

how do i overcome shyness? i am really shy, and thats y i dont have many friends. its not like any1 hates me i just dont hang out with them outside of skool, because i am shy. so how do i stop being shy??
please dont say " thats ur problem not mine" or " idk deal with it urself

2006-12-14 12:30:18 · 24 answers · asked by name. 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 65 I look good for my age. people say I look younger thain I am. I feel good and is in good health.

2006-12-14 12:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by alice63 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 and married to the man of my dreams. We have been waiting to have children (finances, fun, etc...) I am having a crisis because I want so badly to have children and I have just been recommended for the job of my dreams. If I take it, I will have to make a two year commitment (it includes working on my Master's Degree--and I have to be employed for the program).

My goal has always been to be home with my children until they are school age. I missed my mom growing up, and I intend to give up everything necessary in order to be home with them.

What would you do in my situation...put a hold on the job (and possibly miss the opportunity) or put off having children to accomplish this task??

Anybody make a similar decision and have regrets??

2006-12-14 12:29:15 · 29 answers · asked by tellme 4 in Family

My friend is 6 months pregnant.Shes getting stretch marks and is worried what her boyfriend is going to think after shes had there baby?I told her that i dont think hes going to care because he loves her and after all she had his baby!!She wanted me to ask if any of u guys seriously would let something like that get in the way of a relationship?Plz truthful answers..thankx

2006-12-14 12:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by aliyah 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 and married to the man of my dreams. We have been waiting to have children (finances, fun, etc...) I am having a crisis because I want so badly to have children and I have just been recommended for the job of my dreams. If I take it, I will have to make a two year commitment (it includes working on my Master's Degree--and I have to be employed for the program).

My goal has always been to be home with my children until they are school age. I missed my mom growing up, and I intend to give up everything necessary in order to be home with them.

What would you do in my situation...put a hold on the job (and possibly miss the opportunity) or put off having children to accomplish this task??

Anybody make a similar decision and have regrets??

2006-12-14 12:28:30 · 1 answers · asked by tellme 4 in Family

ok so thers this girl i used to be friends with. but i kinda told her i didnt want to be her friend anymore (she got mad at me for being friends with someone else besides her). anyways, she went out with this guy for like,2 days and he figured out he didnt really like her and his friends didnt like her AT ALL because she would act all bragg-ish and she would cling to him, so he dumped her (and then she started screaming bloody murder at him and tried to slap him). so now im dating him and we really like eachother, but now shes trying to get all my friends to hate me (which isint working) and shes come up to me and said "oh hes going to dump you because his friends are all going to hate you and youre not as pretty as i am" (he doesnt think that its true). But its compleately not true, because im good friends with all of his friends and they all like me.... and she keeps calling him a looser and stuff on the bus and it makes me REALLY mad... how do i get her to stop

2006-12-14 12:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Singles & Dating

he says it was in self defense but i dont know if i beleive him.any advice would help me. it is just a shock . and i dont know how i should handle it.

2006-12-14 12:26:40 · 33 answers · asked by baddestbitch 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 12:26:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If i cheat on my bf, how can i keep him from finding out? he always has to know where i am going and with who, what should i do so that i can get away with it?

2006-12-14 12:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by bettywhite9999 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy last winter, but we didn't last very long. We had been best friends first, and it made things weird between us. He liked me for a long time afterward, but wasn't into him. Now, almost a year later, I like him soooo much. He's got a girlfriend that he told a mutual he wouldn't break up with for me. He flirts with me a lot, and, last night, he hugged me godbye. That's nothing new,but he held me. You the difference between just hugging someone and holding them. He had his arms wrapped around my lower waist, and wouldn't let go. He even rescheduled a party he's had planned for weeks just so I could come. He keeps telling that friend that it's not gonna happen, but he acts like he still wants me. Do I go for it, or just hang back?

2006-12-14 12:24:10 · 4 answers · asked by eLiZaBeTh 1 in Singles & Dating

I made this post yesterday :There is a guy who works at this place that I frequent and I like him. He is the owners nephew and the owner and employees always harass us about going out with each other since they see that we're "perfect" for each other. I really like him and would love to go out with him sometime but he's shy and would never ask me even if he did like me. Should I ask him?


I'm going to do it but now I'm not sure how to go about it. What should I say and what should we do? What do I do if I go into the store and hes not there? The workers would ask me what I wanted. eek! I'm stressing out. Thanks for all the help.

2006-12-14 12:23:27 · 7 answers · asked by Utterly Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy that i like at school and i think he likes me well he always looks at me and smiles but today he didnt at all why he has done this before to. why does he do this

2006-12-14 12:22:16 · 25 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 12:22:12 · 19 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Weddings

If a guy likes you and you kinda like him but he's a little unattractive. As long he has confidence and treats you right is all that matters, right?

2006-12-14 12:22:02 · 12 answers · asked by caressa m 2 in Singles & Dating

I was married to my ex for 15 yrs.and finally had the courage to divorce him. I stayed in this marriage this long because of the traditional upbringing I had, among many other things. During that marriage with him, I encountered physical and mental abuse from him. He was very controlling. I was always on my best around him, and at times did not know anymore what and how to do to please him. I am now very happy with my new husband who now loves and respects me. What bothers me though is that I recently found out that my ex has started joining a pen-pal magazine and is seriously involved with a nice innocent girl overseas who will be coming to the States very soon. Is it still my place to warn the new girl? I have good friends that are still in contact with my ex in a business manner and that is how I find out about things. I just feel sorry for a young girl's life being messed up.

2006-12-14 12:22:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OKay! There's this guy that goes to my school that I've never spoken to. He constantly watches and even stares at me when I'm around. From what I know he's a nice guy. And I kinda like him but don't know if I should go up to him and say, "Do you know me?" or "Why do you keep staring at me?" What should I do?"

2006-12-14 12:21:53 · 1 answers · asked by Jenny 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister and I are very close to my aunt. She is my dad's sister. But, we have also known my uncle since we were little. They have been married for ten years with 3 kids. He recently cheated on her. We all found out that he has been with this other woman for over a year. It was devastating to our whole family. These kinds of things don't really happen in my family. They're trying to work it out and we're going to see them for the annual Christmas at my grandma's house. How do I act around my uncle? I am SOOOO angry with him, but I don't know how to hide it. What do I do?

2006-12-14 12:21:46 · 7 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6 in Family

Please, we don't like SKIN & BONES. No girls under 100lbs is attractive. If this doesn't apply to you, High 5! :)

Men like meat! We want something to grab! Waist, Butt, and thunderous thighs! Not a toothpick. Thanks :)

2006-12-14 12:21:42 · 8 answers · asked by Bobby_Bomberman 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me!!!!!!!!
ok so............i broke up w/ this one guy who i like ALOT cus the girl who liked him said he wanted me to. so i did. & now theyre going out and i still like him. what should i do?

2006-12-14 12:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by cocopuffs 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together a year and he says he doesn't use the word Love because every time he has in the past, he's been burned. We are both 40-ish.

2006-12-14 12:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by schweetums 5 in Singles & Dating

At A club or party,what is the best thing to do to get a girls attention?Should I ask her to dance or should I just go up to her and talk to her and then see if she would like to dance or just talk period?If she doesnt want to dance does that mean that shes not interested and give up or could it be she really dont want to dance at that moment? Is offering a drink a good thing or a bad thing?Opinions.

2006-12-14 12:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people say I ask for too much when it comes too guys. Some say that it is a good thing that I have high standards, because I won't just settle for anything! And no im not very young i am in college. I like guys who are intelligent, has common sense, can dress, possibly a job(a llegal one), some kind of transportation, a sense of humor, RESPECTFUL, MATURE, has to have some goals in life!! Guys always brag about how they are such a man but they act little boys when they get in a relationship.

2006-12-14 12:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Singles & Dating

shes gonna be 20 soon.
she loves to read.
shes really smart.

2006-12-14 12:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance and were supposed to get married last sunday...the day of the wedding he does not show up, never heard from him again. (and yes he is alive) why did this happen to me? why would allow all the preparation and money be spent if he felt that way

2006-12-14 12:19:08 · 20 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 12:19:02 · 7 answers · asked by pnkmonkey_14 1 in Other - Family & Relationships