Why do I always find women with boyfriends/husbands?

Question

I've been trying to find a girlfriend for a while. All the women I find that have any sort of class or that I otherwise am interested in all have boyfriends or husbands.

I don't mind them having a boyfriend or husband, but the boyfriend or husband usually minds me trying to flirt with the woman.

Where can I find a nice woman who doesn't have a boyfriend/husband? Or, alternatively, where can I find a woman who's boyfriend/husband doesn't mind? (And I don't mean 'Doesn't mind because he doesn't know.)

I'd like to add that I'm generally polyamorous. This means I honestly don't care if she has a boyfriend, husband, girlfriend etc.

I'm anti-jealous.

Answer 1

the good ones get taken more and kept more often

if he likes her , he would tend to mind

also, he WILL find out, if he cares "that might be all for you"
an old song

Answer 2

It's you buddy... you are attracted to women with someone already because most women with men already have a different way of carrying themselves and handling situations. The reason they are this way is because the guy took the time out (with the girl being willing) to work with her difficult ways and kinda "mellow" her out some.

I hope I'm making myself clear when I say this, you should try dealing with women who have no one, completely pass up the women who have men, and try "molding" a single girl into the girl you could be interested in. Take it from a girl we can all be molded if you are sweet to us, we'll do or change into anything you want but you have to be willing to take time and be understanding about the fact that we are human and will make mistakes.

Answer 3

how about you try looking for women on sites,and make sure yo state-NO BOYFRIEND/HUSBANDS-