Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

on the internet because i wasn't playing practical jokes or turning the telly over all the time .

How long have you lasted online??

2006-12-10 06:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do u like it when girls hug you?

2006-12-10 06:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Elle :) 3 in Singles & Dating

They don't care the other son or daughter.They care only about the son or daughter who is doing good in life(wealth) and studies? Am i right?

2006-12-10 06:51:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Family

if u do then y would u

2006-12-10 06:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Shortly after I decided against having an abortion my boyfriend left me. He said that he still loved me but didn't want to be a father. A few months later we started seeing each other again and things seemed to be getting better. He said that he still had feelings for me but that he didnt love me anymore, which is hard to believe judging by the way he is around me. He even told a friend of ours that he still loved me and then when i asked him he denied it. I can't help but wonder if he's trying to fool himself, if he maybe thinks that making me believe he doesnt love me will make it easier for him to leave. Despite the fact he said he didn't love me anymore he always seemed to want to be close to me and missed me while i was on holiday. He even kept a conversation going about baby names, but then he left again. Saying he didnt want me or the baby. He's leaving to join the marines in January will the tie away make him realise what he's going to lose?

2006-12-10 06:50:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tells me all the time that he loves me more than everything and wants to be with me forever! Should that make me feel weird? Or is it normal? I don't really know any other guys who tell there high school sweet hearts that!

2006-12-10 06:50:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you prefer a girl draw more attention to her eyes or to her lips?
Also, what's more attractive: nice eyelashes or full lips?

2006-12-10 06:49:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that i think it may be lust

2006-12-10 06:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys say i love you for fun?

my guy friend said that to me
& i dont know whether to believe or not.

its like his game is more impt den me.
his phone calls are also more impt
[ though he always apologises after that.]

i`m confused!
*argh*

2006-12-10 06:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by lilbr0wnsuga 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked my bf what he wanted for Xmas, and he told me a hug or something cheaper, and then I told him that I know he wants something and just to tell me what it was...and he said that he already got what he wanted for Xmas, which is me! and what more could he ask for!......and now Im debating on whether or not to get him something! He's 16 and im 14 and I have no idea what to get him! should I just not get him nething?! or what?! Any ideas on gifts and stuff?!

2006-12-10 06:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my cat and lover shadow wants me to buy him a surprise from the Ann Summers shop, i think he wants to spice up our sex life!
Mother, brother and Llama told me you can buy cat sex toys im not sure if i should believe them so im going to go and ask the shop assistant when I get in there. Has anyone else bought any sex toys for their cat from Ann Summers? sent

2006-12-10 06:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime we get into a fight i am the one who is "wrong" and he always tells me a just have stupid feelings and am to emotional about everything. But i cant help the way i feel. he says i attack him when i have a problem with him. and i dont know how to present somthing without making him feel that way. and im also really tried of him never trying to see from my viewpoint and admitting he is wrong, i have no problem saying sorry when i am wrong. what is his deal? and what do i do?

2006-12-10 06:47:51 · 8 answers · asked by pretty_little_disaster 1 in Singles & Dating

can a relationship work if you and your partner don't see each other,just talk onthe phone and see each other on the weekends.

2006-12-10 06:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by joe 1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 06:47:16 · 16 answers · asked by heleanthusovulia 2 in Singles & Dating

both of you are friends and the girl in question has many offers of a relationship, yet she keeps turning them down. and you ask her and she tells you it is becos she is not yet ready for a relationship until a certain period of her life. would you still therefore ask her out despite this knowledge of her?

2006-12-10 06:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by wittybaby 2 in Singles & Dating

in his own house! I should have apologized then but didn't. Things are back to the way they were...we're friends and all. But I feel so bad. Should I bring it up or let it go?

2006-12-10 06:44:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have recently caught my boyfriend in a lie about him wanting to stay home and not hangout with me cuz he was tired then he ended up going out with his friends to a bar and drinking any ignoring all my concerned phone calls. we were in the middle of talking and he just basically hungup on me (pretended he had no service) and finally called me at 6 am i told him hes a liar he lied about wanting to not go out he lied about not being able to call me . he has done funny business before my trust for him has decreased so much in the past 6 months. ive even asked him if he has ever cheated on me before because of rumors and he denys it and says if u cant trust me then we cant be together cuz ur always going to think im cheating. but he gives me reason to think he is i think i should just end it. i cant put up with liars i know no one is perfect but why lie about it? and why isnt he kissing my *** 3 days later? he has been cheated on before and said its horrible why would he do it to me

2006-12-10 06:43:21 · 23 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy on and off for the past year. but every time we date we break up because one of us "cheated" on the other. mostly he broke up with me because i "cheated" on him but it never happened. well when i met him he had dated like every girl in town plus more. and he was dating this girl while he was tryin to get with me. and i always heard that he cheats on every girl he gets with. well now im with him again and hehas changed alot. but i still have this thought in the back of my head that says he is going to cheat on me... and it doesnt help when i bring my friends to his house n he pays more attention to them... but when we are alone its all about me he even asked me to marry him but he has told me stories about him gtting engaged before and let me tell you ... he has been engaged way more than five times. and i love him sooooo much i wanna say yes but i still have that bad feelin that what has happend in the past will happen again. whats gonna happen next?

2006-12-10 06:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by Jettelyn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 06:42:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a crush on a 14 year old guy. I don't know him real well, but he used to say hi to me and stuff before he found out my age. Now, he basically ignores me. Is he intimidated by my age? I've caught him looking at me a couple of times recently, and once when we were smiling, we made eye contact. I'm very shy, so I'm too afraid to ask him, but do you think he's got a crush on me?

2006-12-10 06:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend asked me to marry him and I said yes but he still hasn't given me a ring ( it's been over 2 years ) . Does it matter that he hasn't given me a ring? Should it matter ? Help Me please.

2006-12-10 06:40:46 · 20 answers · asked by angelique1279 1 in Weddings

and self-absorbed?

2006-12-10 06:40:28 · 19 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, ive asked this question to other people and I just wanted to see what you thought about it. Ok as a 13-year old popularity is kinda a big issue. I am in the top 10 or so like 7 but this girl who is like 2 hates me. She says im a "browner" and now shes making other people hate me. Lately shes given me the nickname "Boy Toy". I hate it! She says its becasue I like to flirt with the guys becasue for some odd reason if you talk to a guy for more than 15 minutes straight in our school its considered flirting. Now I have many guy friends and I talk to guys non-stop. I trust them more and I always ask for their advice. Im always with a guy and now people are calling me Boy Toy all the time. One time she got everyone to ifnore me for one whole day. It was torture! What should I do? I dont like to fight back (like verbally) so I kinda just take it all. Should I or what really should I do?

2006-12-10 06:40:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 16 and im often left alone at my home to watch my 7 year old brother. He doesnt do anything i say he dumped a can of cream soda on the floor and he wouldnt clean it up when i told him to he said for me to do it i told him to and he picked up a broom and was going to hit me with it he does this a lot even with my parents he says hes going to brake everything and just yells and goes out of control sometimes what can i do to get him to listen to me?

2006-12-10 06:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by help please 2 in Family

Before i had ever been in love, i was able to get down with anyone who was willing, I fell in love, and now even though the ex and i are done with our relationship and im totally over her, i feel the need to get to know a girl who's willing from the get go. Im dating two girls right now, and even though thier attrative, and we go out and make out and stuff, i don't feel anything and therefore am not getting aroused. I really sucks cause the ex still comes around to f__K and i have no problem, but half the time i say no because i broke up with her for saying "id rather have a guy who will buy me stuff then a guy im sexually attracted to (and she said it 3 times in two years!) and she demanded that i let her live in my house for free, which i refused cause even her parents charge her rent. Look, i dont love my ex anymore because she's a self centered *****, but my new prospects (we're not officail) aren't doin it for me when 2 yrs ago i would have no problem, performance anxiety?

2006-12-10 06:39:12 · 4 answers · asked by DRNOPE 2 in Singles & Dating

i am hurt....... :(

2006-12-10 06:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you found your true love,Are you sure that its him.
Does he enjoy all the little things,Or is his love down within.
does he tell you he loves you,I mean right from his heart.
Or does his words come out smeeling like farts.
Are you sure that you found,His love always shows.
Deep within his eyes,they light up and glow.
I hope that you met him forever and true.
For the sake of your feelings,Does he really love you.

Can you answers yes to all of these questions ladies

2006-12-10 06:38:19 · 12 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

I read somewere that almost all AIDS infected Americans contracted the virus from sharing needles (using drugs) and not from sex. Is this true????

2006-12-10 06:35:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like any couple, but nothing major until this year whenI made the huge mistake of breaking up with him in may. At the time I was worried that he was begining to go off me and I was so scared of getting hurt that I broke up with him (stupid I know, but thats female logic for you). Shortly afterwards I received an email from himhis email made me rethink things and soon after I began seeing him again just as a friend-not wishing to rush things and ruin them again. Everything seemed to be going well and it was obvious that he still wanted to be with me so about early July we got back together. For a time we were very happy apart from the fact that pre arranged events meant that we couldnt spend as much time together as we had wanted. Then while I was away for a week I found out that I was pregnant- this came as a big shock as when we went to the doctors they informed me that i was 3 months pregnant. Up until then my periods hadnt stopped and I hadnt had any other symptoms which is why I hadnt even suspected it. At first I considered an abortion as it was what my boyfriend wanted, but I couldnt go through with it. A week or so after I'd decided this he broke up with me. He was crying and telling me he loved me so much but he wasnt ready to be a father- mainly because he feels that he is too young (20) and just wanted me not the baby as well. He kept begging me to have an abortion and telling me that we could start over and that he'd be there for me, do anything to keep me.

We didnt see each other for about a month after this, but when we did see each other he told me that he didnt love me anymore. I know you may think I'm foolig myself here but I know it wasn't true as he'd told a friend of his the nigth before that he still loved me ut didnt want the baby adn his friend told me this as he felt I deserved to know the truth. I'm not sure if he thought that saying it would make it easier for him to leave if I believed that he didn't love me. After this we began seeing each other regularly again and soon ended up as a couple, but it wasn't official. I was at his every weekend ad we started sleeping together again. He still maintained that he didnt love me anymore, but just by the way he was with me it felt like he was fooling himself- maybe because hes scared of commitment? I wondered if it was just about sex for him but soon realised that it wasnt: he was always hugging me and pulling me close to him-even in public and even rubbed moisturiser into the bump( which was quite big by then) without being asked. Then I went to spain with my family for a week, when I got back I was addmitted to hospital as i was bleeding and they were worried that there could be a problem- luckily there wasn't and I was released the next day. I then phoned him to arrange our plans for the weekend and he told me that he didnt realise i was already out of the hospital and that he'd been planning to come to see me that afternoon( my mother had only phoned him that morning to let him know).

When I arrived at his house the next day we sat down to watch a film andwhen I went to sit down he pulled me close to him and told me repeatedly how much he'd missed me while he was away. Although he said he still wasnt happy about the baby he was lovely to me and genuinly seemed to love me as much as ever. Later that weekend he even iniciated a conversation about baby names with no encouragement. Unfortunately he had a few big arguments with his mother ( who hes always had a rocky relationship with) which upset him a lot and added even more stress to the situation. I was due to go home that night for a meal with friends and on the way back he asked me if it was ok to pick me up afterwards and for me to stay with him for another day, which I agreed to. i cant help but think if he didnt still love me and genuinly wanted nothing to do with me he wouldnt still want me around like this. The weekend after that while I was at his house he seemed to want to be with m,e more than ever: when i went to go to do something else he'd beg me to stay and spend time with him; and while i was checking my email on mymyspace account he pinted out that my profile said i was single in a light way but seemed quite hurt by this. When he took me home a few days later after yet another fight with his mum, he told me that he still didnt want to be with me and the baby, that he wishes i'd just had the abortion. I know how scared he is about being a father, could this fear possibly be blocking his true feelings? he seems so scared. He even admitted to his mum that when he first found out about the baby (before the fear and panic set in) he felt happy and excited. His parents only married because he was on the way and they eneded up having a very nasty divorce. I think he worrries that the same thing would happen to us if we stayed together but as I tried to explain to him, we're different people and ar not going to rush into anything. He's only ever seen the negative outcomes surrounding teenage/early twenties parents and cant seem to get past this fear.

He effectively finished hings with me before going to do his marines tests ( he has been planning to join then all year and the initial plan was for him to get posted to arbroath so we could still be together and eventually move in together). whn he returned from the tests he took me to a hospital appointment with me, but became angry afterwards because they did a scan and he said that he didnt want to see that. Is this because deep down he knows he doesnt want to lose me and the baby? surely if he just didnt want either of us, if he didnt care the scan wouldnt bother him either way.
I know we're supposed to be together, it may seem silly, but ive known it since I first met him. We'd always talked about our future together, but i think because its happened out of the order we wished for this has frightened him and made him think it cant work. I know in my heart he still loves me, i'm very careful not to get hurt and I wouldnt put myself through this if i wasn't sure he still loved me. His mother and friends believes he does, but is tryng to use it as an escape- a reason why he should leave.The baby is due in february. Do you think theres still hope for us? Will he come round when the babys born and he realises what he's missing? Ive decide to give him some space and just not contact him to let him sort himself out, do you think thsi is a good idea?

2006-12-10 06:35:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am curious and wandering... I am a 17 years old male junior in high school. The girls I have dated this year are all 14 or 15 y/o freshman Don't ask why because I don't even know the answer to that. Anyways the last 4 girls I have dated I have broken up with one of them and then 3 of them have broken up with me. They all said the same thing or similar things, "I am NOT ready for commitment" OR "I am not ready for a relationship."

Now I know. Some of them just use these lines as excuses because they just lost feelings for me. Fine, but the ones that are actually telling the truth are serious. They just aren't ready for commitment OR a relationship.

This brings me to my point. What age OR grade do you think a girl has to be in to be ready for a real relationship? I believe they have to be in 11th or 12th grade. What do you think?

2006-12-10 06:34:31 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Untouchable 2 in Singles & Dating