Ok, ive asked this question to other people and I just wanted to see what you thought about it. Ok as a 13-year old popularity is kinda a big issue. I am in the top 10 or so like 7 but this girl who is like 2 hates me. She says im a "browner" and now shes making other people hate me. Lately shes given me the nickname "Boy Toy". I hate it! She says its becasue I like to flirt with the guys becasue for some odd reason if you talk to a guy for more than 15 minutes straight in our school its considered flirting. Now I have many guy friends and I talk to guys non-stop. I trust them more and I always ask for their advice. Im always with a guy and now people are calling me Boy Toy all the time. One time she got everyone to ifnore me for one whole day. It was torture! What should I do? I dont like to fight back (like verbally) so I kinda just take it all. Should I or what really should I do?
2006-12-10 06:40:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Normally I hate the whole "name calling" crap but with some people a simlpe and effective way of dealing with them IS to respond in form.
Call her "Fridge" - as she is presumably frigid about being around boys. It is as stupid as your nickname - but will quite probably give the other girls someone else to "call" instead of you.
"Hi Fridge" has quite a ring to it.
2006-12-10 06:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well their is this boy in my school and his name is Alex. I talk to him on the phone all the time. So when I go to school this girl named Anissa said that I flirt to much and I'm a slut just because I like to hang out with boys better than girls. The girl who told you that you are a boy toy is just jealous because you get more attention from the boys and she is jealous of you too. If you think about she is probly only teasing you because you let her. You need to step to her and let her know that you are not going to take anymore stuff off of her.
2006-12-10 14:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by prettiestthingonearthdonthateme4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the ignorance. You shouldnt let anyone bother you especially some jealous stuck up snobby girl. Go about your buisness,,get good grades and dont worry about her or other people who are just JEALOUS of you. You are in school to learn,,,its not a popularity contest. You are bigger than them if you just ignore them type of people.
2006-12-10 14:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Laugh in her face. "Boy toy" is a term for a MALE who is the sexual play toy of a woman. A female can NOT be a boy toy! She is showing just how ignorant she is when she calls you one.
2006-12-10 14:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to them that it hurts your feeling and if they dont' stop then just forget em, get some new friends, you don't need friends that ignore you for no reason or call you something stupid.
2006-12-10 14:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't pay attention to her and all the people who talk.They are just jealous, continue hanging with guys.I know that sometimes they can be better friends then girls, at least they don't fight with each other for their girlfriends like girls do for their boyfriends!
2006-12-10 15:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sound jealous dont respond and play her game youre too smart always say good thing about her and you friend will see though her good luck
2006-12-10 14:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she laughs laugh along w. her its easy DONT U DARE CRY GURRL
2006-12-11 20:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by thatCHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your guy friends to defend you.
2006-12-10 14:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by chris s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋