do guys say i love you for fun?
my guy friend said that to me
& i dont know whether to believe or not.
its like his game is more impt den me.
his phone calls are also more impt
[ though he always apologises after that.]
i`m confused!
*argh*
2006-12-10 06:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by lilbr0wnsuga 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually,he was my ex too.
but i dumped him for another guy.
omg. =.=''
but i like him again & realise
no one else can give me the
fluttery feeling that he does.
so i really HOPE to believe he
meant it. ];
2006-12-10 07:00:42 · update #1
You are lucky he is even looking at you again--I personally think that he is actually wondering the same question --You violated a huge trust issue and its gonna take time--I think you feel the way you do is because you DID leave him for another and you are afraid he just might do the same--Its gonna take trusting you that you wont again find someone else--you are the one that is really going to have to work hard at this to make it work--
God Bless you this is not an easy walk
2006-12-10 07:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that guys somtimes say they love you for fun do they can get more out of you! But if there like waiting a sec. befor they speak and then let out the real "i love you" then I think its pretty true! I ve had at least 5guys say they loved me in the past 2 years and thats a lot and I think only one of them really ment it1 but u just have to strangle the feelings out of somone ( but not to much) so that they tell you the truh!
2006-12-10 06:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we say it for fun. We also say it to get laid. Works like a CHARM! Of course, I know you think I am being a sarcastic jerk, but this is the honest truth.
Sometimes we do say it and mean it. But I know lots of guys who say it for fun or out of foolishness.
If he's taking other calls, and playing video games then he isn't in love with you. Otherwise he'd be with you and not focusing on other things.
2006-12-10 06:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Brother Crash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys say that for a lot of reasons.... to keep the peace..... to get sex.... etc.
I wouldn't believe it if his actions don't line up with it. The only guys who mean it are the ones who have been in a long-term relationship and they show by their actions that they really love you. Love takes time to grow. If they say it too fast, it's not real.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-10 06:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah some guys do say it just for fun...But I think if you are going to say those three words you need to mean it before they come out your mouth..Missy
2006-12-10 06:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋