Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

2006-12-09 14:41:51 · 11 answers · asked by ellie m 1 in Singles & Dating

i'v been with this guy for 3yrs and he has cheated on me about 4x on top of that he lived with one of then for a mth. i took him back after he told me all this stupied stuff about how he know he is wrong and he know he stupied and i'm a good women he want to be with me. ect. (crying and stuff). now we are back together but now i dont even care if he cheats on me or not because im so used to him letting me down. at the same time he is trying toprove to me that he wants to make it work. i just need to know how to kick him to the curb and find a new man. ANY SINGLE MEN!!!!!. just playing but it would be nice to have a man to love me for me and not just because i have my own ****. i do everything on my own and he feel because we together i should share everything with him. SOMEONE PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW TO GET RID OF HIM FOR GOOD. he has no family down here.if i put him out he will be in a shelter.

2006-12-09 14:41:08 · 3 answers · asked by shon 1 in Singles & Dating

My mum only thinks of her favourite son but she doesn’t think for me. Dad wanted to buy me a car and she immediately stopped him and convinced him to buy something for my brother. My mum always discourages me to buy things which I like. Not long ago, I have to use most of my savings to pay her and my brother's debts. She now wanted me to pay some of my brother's monthly expenses. Is this fair? What should I do?

2006-12-09 14:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't get it. I'm 17, tall, good-looking, and a nice guy. Why have I never had a girlfriend? Is this bizzare?

Ladies, would you ever date a nice sweet guy, or do you prepfere hard @$$3s? Can you cheer me up?

2006-12-09 14:40:15 · 7 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

What kind of things did you experience after getting divorced? I am ok with the divorce. I got some tattoos just wondering what other people did to start their single life again.

2006-12-09 14:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by gracie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 mos. We are in are late 30's. We wanted to get married, but I have some issues with him that I don't know if I can get over. Since, we have been together he has stolen from me. He bought me a engagement ring and stole it out of my room and sold it because he needed money. I found out from a mutual friend he did it. He has cheated on me 3 times. I split up with him and he tried to hurt himself. I am so confused on what to do? He only cheats on me when he is drinking. But, he is an alcoholic and drinks quite offen. He keeps telling me he is stopping, but he goes behind my back and drinks anyway/

2006-12-09 14:39:32 · 18 answers · asked by confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together now for a month. I really like him and he likes me. Lately, all my friends have been telling me that he talks to some girl named Kristen everyday in band. I know they were friends so I thought it was no big deal. The thing is Kristen is always around him. Whenever I go up to him at his locker she's there. It's really annoying me and making me feel a little jealous. Before me and my boyfriend started going together, Kristen was almost never around him. Now that we're together, she's always around!! My best friend said that someone told her that if my boyfriend could pick between me and Kristen, he would pick Kristen. She also said that Kristen has a lot of feeling for my boyfriend. Her feeling maybe just a friendship thing but still I don't like it all the time. Should I break up with him. I've been through so many heartbreaks this year that I can't handle another one :(

2006-12-09 14:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by shante14mimi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 14:39:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 14:39:04 · 10 answers · asked by kiana a 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the point? Does it mean they like them, or is it just fun? I don't get it!

2006-12-09 14:38:48 · 21 answers · asked by sklinckyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 14:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by kiana a 1 in Singles & Dating

need to know two weeks and counting

2006-12-09 14:37:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I moved to NC from Kansas due to work, my husband stayed in Kansas until he could find a job here, but its been three months and he is still there, just wandering if it will work out.

2006-12-09 14:36:18 · 41 answers · asked by R c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I broke up when I started a new school. Shortly afterward, I met someone and got into a relationship. I was hesitant because there could never be a future with them. I like them though and we've been together a few months now. Recently, I've begun to notice a lot of things about them that get on my nerves. I thought about break-up, but my bf always talks me out of it.

Recently, my ex has started talking to me again about perhaps getting back together (they don't know I'm dating someone.) The reason me and my ex broke up was because of some rough situations we were both going through and we just couldn't handle the relationship at that time. That was the final straw to make me break up with my bf. He was completely devastated and threatened to drop out of school and maybe even hurt himself physically.

However, I was talked out of it again. I don't know what to do, but I know my bf has to go. I hate to break his heart...but I just don't know what to do. Any advice would help

2006-12-09 14:36:08 · 1 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and he is realllly great. i never would have thought he would have cheated on me. last night i was at a party and i walked in on him and my friend in a room making out. my good friend didnt really seem like she would ever do this to me but she is another story. anyways my boyfriend called me today and was apologizing...i want to take him back cause i dont think he would do this again but i dont know. what should i do?

2006-12-09 14:35:48 · 17 answers · asked by kaimoe h 2 in Singles & Dating

she calls me at work and hangs up writes him love letters now today its a x-mas card saying if this is your first x-mas togther **** like that what do i do?help

2006-12-09 14:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like to go streaking at night because i can be naked in public ans i wont get caught. what should i do. and where

2006-12-09 14:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by dwight p 1 in Singles & Dating

I know, stupid question right???? I have noticed over the past 8 years, my self-esteem and the will to look good has gone right down the tubes. I met my husband 8 years ago and I refused for him to even see me without make-up on. Nowadays, my hair goes into a pony tail, I put slippers on and go take care of our 2 year old son (daughter on the way any day now). I understand that over time you feel "comfortable", but that is not it, I miss being the hottie I used to be for my husband. My husband never says a word and still pinches my butt every chance he gets, but I need an ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT. Ladies, please give me a good attitude boost to get me back in the spirit of being a hot mama for my husband. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

2006-12-09 14:35:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I liked this boy for a really long time but at the time I was really unconfident and would never talked to him. Before high school started I kinda blossomed and now I'm mad pretty and gained mad confidence. Now I talk to him all the time and he always messes with me like this one time..: I sit behind him in science and he kept putting his hand on my desk and I would push (yes i actually touched him! woot!) it off, he did it alot and alittle bit the next day. Than when I would see him in the hall way he would bump into me and be like 'excuseee me'.
So I decided to try my luck and when I was leaving school and I saw him the the hallway I hugged (OMG!) him goodbye, and again the next day. Than on IM in his profile he had this love poem and I (jokingly) asked him if he was talking about me, than i said jk.....
but he was like 'naw thats not about u'
and than i said ik stupid
and he said it was from a song

does he like me?! am i stupid for trying?! what do i do now?! i need advice!!

2006-12-09 14:34:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do. Do you?

2006-12-09 14:34:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-09 14:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 14:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by jeremy h 2 in Singles & Dating

please.. i need advice my sister was somking in the bath room and she is only 14 what do i do....the house smells like smoke..how do i tell my parents?..please answer my question!

2006-12-09 14:32:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I accidently wrote an email to my boyfriend about my best friend and how she was driving me insane i then sent it to him and her HElp me Yikes!!!

2006-12-09 14:32:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this person I have a huge crush on. I'm afraid that he's going to reject me if I tell him that I like him. Whta should I do? I can be very sensitive sometimes.

2006-12-09 14:32:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing someone who, as a self-admitted commitment-phobe, has finally agreed to enter into a monogamous, committed relationship with me (after a 2.5 year on-and-off again "relationship"). I am very happy with this as I really like him a lot and have been hoping for his commitment for a long time. However, he has a "really good female friend" whom he says he still likes to cuddle with. They have been good friends for the last 5 years, and I don;t know all the details of their history. He told me about it straight up, saying, "I have a really good female friend that I still cuddle with. But don't worry, it's purely platonic. We're just friends."

But I am worried. I'm jealous even. I want to trust him, but I don't think it is possible for a man to cuddle with another woman without it meaning anything. Can men be monogamous and love a woman while cuddling another "good female friend?" Do I have a right to be concerned?

PS This girl is moving away to a different state in Feb.

2006-12-09 14:32:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner, among other issues does not share my love of sex. I am healthy, pretty, and a monogomus nympho. I love to experiment, have fun and get some action at least once a day. I would accept 5 times a week with good grace.
But my partner of 6 years does not like sex. He is fine with sex once a month, or even less. He is unimaginative in bed. Regardless of my many attempts to turn him on and please him. All he ever wants is oral and me on top.
He is mean when I talk to him about it. He calls me names, and gets angry. Its gotten to the point where I almost for the first time in my life almost had an affair. EEK!
He even gets pissy if I masterbate. Every once in a while it will turn him on, but mostly he gets annoyed and makes rude comments if he catches me.
So, should I take a lover to make up for the lack of sex?
Should I leave over the lack of sex?
How on earth would I explain to my daughter, "Honey daddy and mommy cant be together anymore cause daddys a prude

2006-12-09 14:32:17 · 13 answers · asked by absintheveil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've become very insecure lately. I hate second guessing everything I say/do.

2006-12-09 14:31:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAAAAAAAT SHOULD I DO ??????????????I AM TRYING TO TLK TO MY FRIEND BUT THEY KEEP SPACIN OUT

2006-12-09 14:31:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 14:30:49 · 19 answers · asked by Sha81 1 in Marriage & Divorce