what to do if you go so long with a man treating you bad you dont even care if he cheats on you anymore?

Question

i'v been with this guy for 3yrs and he has cheated on me about 4x on top of that he lived with one of then for a mth. i took him back after he told me all this stupied stuff about how he know he is wrong and he know he stupied and i'm a good women he want to be with me. ect. (crying and stuff). now we are back together but now i dont even care if he cheats on me or not because im so used to him letting me down. at the same time he is trying toprove to me that he wants to make it work. i just need to know how to kick him to the curb and find a new man. ANY SINGLE MEN!!!!!. just playing but it would be nice to have a man to love me for me and not just because i have my own ****. i do everything on my own and he feel because we together i should share everything with him. SOMEONE PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW TO GET RID OF HIM FOR GOOD. he has no family down here.if i put him out he will be in a shelter.

Answer 1

Uh Uh. No, no.
My dear, I do not like telling people what to do with their relationships, but this is a particular case.
Do NOT let this man disrespect you and take you for granted.
I know you know that if his words held value, that he wouldn't talk about it, he would be about it.

Put

Him

Out.

Then he will learn. It will also be too late. If you feel bad about him being 'homeless', then give him 2 weeks notice come Monday morning, like they do in the professional world. This is business sweetie, it's time for you to see your value. There are good men out there -yes, they are few and far between - but they are out there, regardless. Utilize your single time to take care of your Mind, Body and Soul...live in the luxury and freedom of being a strong independant woman... and repair that mentality you've got that you could POSSIBLY.....EVER..... 'settle' with a man cheating on you.


Put him out.
I'm sure you're cute, and us cute girls ain't got time for this kinda mess.

Answer 2

If he's in a shelter, it's his fault. He's blowing his money and relying on you. You know he's using you. He probably came back after the other woman figured out he was using her and kicked him to the curb. He'll find somone else to use or he'll learn how to pull his own weight. Don't worry about him, look after yourself.

Answer 3

It's like smoking - sometimes going cold turkey is the only way that works.

Ask yourself: ' Why do I allow myself to be treated badly?

If you are open and honest to yourself - you will get an answer.