Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

likes me. i mean. like like likes. and she's only 9. and she's my friends little sister. and i mean. she cries and has a tantrum everytime she sees me with my gf, and stuff. and im 17...and so yeah. i try to be nice and sorts, and try to tell her not to like me, and she should like some boy her age. and she insist on liking me..and its starting to creep me out. like BIG.hell she even tried to kiss me once. she jumps on me and hugs me every chance she has. so wat should i do about this?

2006-12-09 15:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Don't you chicks just love it!

2006-12-09 15:21:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy who always give me a hug when i see him.he going to be at this party i am going to.at this party theres going to be dancing and a few games of truth or dare.what should i do?

2006-12-09 15:21:34 · 12 answers · asked by ~*~Sweets~*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend has blown me off for like three weekends in a row and hes lied about what he's doing. Once he said his parents were making him go to a dinner but I later found out from his friends that he was throwing a party. Also, I called him one day and he started yelling at me because he was at his play rehearsal. How can I get revenge on him without physically harming him? I really need help so all answers would be appreciated!!

2006-12-09 15:21:30 · 20 answers · asked by sarsar1239 2 in Friends

ok i have done something with this guy i like alot i mean it's not that bad what i am scared of what my friends well think of me if they know that i gave my crush a bj....and we made out i have told them that i have made out with the guy what i want to tell them that i gave a bj to him idk what to do how to tell your friends that

2006-12-09 15:21:10 · 1 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Friends

A good decision on their part? They brought me into this world. They raised me. Shouldn't they love me no matter what?

2006-12-09 15:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by fresh2 4 in Family

Is it normal for a girl to have feelings and desires for something that doesn't exist (i.e. no love interest at the moment) ? My hormones are in a whirl-wind right now and I don't have a guy to express myself with ... it sucks :(

I feel like giving so much of myself at the moment .... I'm 21 years old, is this normal ... ????

Why do I feel this way ? Why am I so darn emotional all of a sudden? What do I do to stop these feelings ??? They're driving me crazy!

2006-12-09 15:21:00 · 1 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i know if she likes me???HELP!!!!

2006-12-09 15:20:29 · 24 answers · asked by jon_lettuce_2005 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I googled in the title and found that it promises a lot of very good advice and I'm wondering if anyone here would recommend it.

2006-12-09 15:19:54 · 6 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 15:19:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl, we're both really goo friends, and I just figured out she likes me. She asked who I liked, and I told her. She really upset now that I told her I like someone else. What's a good way to comfort her?

2006-12-09 15:19:35 · 16 answers · asked by crimson_dragon9 2 in Friends

2006-12-09 15:19:30 · 26 answers · asked by Teenie 7 in Marriage & Divorce

im talking about when everyting was closed on sundays and holidays. families were together at the dinner table.

2006-12-09 15:18:32 · 7 answers · asked by zsaffireblue2003 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause it relly pis ses me off

2006-12-09 15:18:28 · 18 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Friends

all these fake a.ss poser gangsters keep picking fights with me....i'm sorta intimadated afterward, but when it's happening i fight back. my mom says i should just be a sissy and tell on them, since schools have a 0 tolerence for bullying since columbine. one highschool girl on my bus said she'd kill me for a small joke i made about how a guy looked in her glasses ( i said he looked like harry pot head) what should i do? i hate my school, yet love it all at the same time.......*sigh*

~shaken

2006-12-09 15:18:19 · 5 answers · asked by santaz_lil_slacker 2 in Friends

My friend likes three guys. She cannot decide which one to tell who she likes before Christmas break. One is so rude, the other one is too short, and the other one is maybe the perfect one but he has had a girlfriend before. He really didn't like her. He just wanted the attention from the class, but he can sometimes be very sweet. She is afraid he might do the same to her. She is not sure if she should tell them or not. She is also not sure which guy to tell. She just wants to have a boyfriend but she is afraid that he won't like her back. I know these are too many questions, but what should I tell her?

2006-12-09 15:17:37 · 3 answers · asked by Drama Queen 3 in Friends

I really like this guy and he likes me back but he's really really shy. We see each other once a week (he lives an hour away) but we talk everyday. But i don't know if he considers me his "girlfriend" or not, because he hasnt asked me out since we both have strict parents, but his friends refer to me as his "girlfriend".
I want to kiss him, but I'm really shy, and I don't know if he wants to kiss me or not since he's so shy too. Should I? and if i should, how do i I do it subtly so he doesnt get weirded out?

2006-12-09 15:17:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 1/2 years...but the only thing is...no ones really known about it because in our church your not supposed to date, our just supposed to get married through faith, and also you have to be a member(baptised) in order for the church to fully allow it. Well ya...neither of us are baptised and my mom recently found out about us from snooping in my cell phone. And know shes saying that I have to tell my dad, and my dad is going to say "since your together you have to get married right away" but neither of us are done with school and we were going to atleast wait till then to tell our parents but now were kind of stuck, and getting married isnt such the big issue, because we would have had to tell our parents at some point...the biggest issue is, will we even be able to pay our bills? together we have an income of $3000, our expenses would be $400 car payments each, house, groceries, insurance, health coverage etc.---is it possible to do?

2006-12-09 15:17:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 15:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by kuzz 1 in Singles & Dating

So here's a story, and you just let me know what you think. A little while back I went to get my wisdom teeth taken out. I got there, and the dude is like, "well this is still a surgery, so you need to change into this gown." I figure, ok sure that sounds about right, I don't want him spilling blood on my fine threads. So I change, and than when he's putting the IV in me to drug me, he feels my arm for a vein and goes "wow, you have strong arms...do you work out?" I eye him suspisciously, and say, "...yeah sorta I guess." He's all, "yeah I can really tell, such tone, so strong." So then I'm out like a light, and when I wake up, POOF, I'm wearing my clothes again. Is this normal? Do they change you or whatever? And no, I didn't change when I was woozy because I remember when I first woke up they told me to chill for 10 min because I had just woke up, and they didn't want me to hurt myself, which I remember clearly.

2006-12-09 15:16:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

though they have to watch almost everything I put or have on my computer. Did I mention That I am 24, and that I need my space. And that they really have to back up off me? What should I do. I can't move. and I cannot stand this anymore. When I bring it up, Most of the time they totaly lie about it.

2006-12-09 15:16:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This scenerio . . . Woman age 50, had been married 20 + years, peacefully divorced 4 yrs., has shared custody with two teens, she is attractive, pretty, in shape, nice, keen mind etc. etc. etc. Honestly . . .what is a man's thought of a woman as this. Would he have interest in dating her, pursuing a full relationship ? I'm confident with myself . . . just wanted to ask guys opinion and thought.

2006-12-09 15:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

does any one on hear live in Tennessee

2006-12-09 15:15:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She's 20, in college, and we've been together nine months. I'm unfortunately looking at about a $50 limit. Ideas? Especially from girls

2006-12-09 15:15:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, well my sister lies a lot you see. Well, my sister got in trouble at school for something she didn't do, and it was major so she get suspended for like 2 weeks. My mom dosen't believe me or my sister. How can I help prove my sister didn't do it?

2006-12-09 15:13:45 · 17 answers · asked by sara_shae34 1 in Family

I know men look at porn and it is normal. However, I was in a long relationship for 5 years, and I know for a fact that he did not watch porn(maybe i should have been concerned? ha). So I guess, I was spoiled in the way that I was used to being the ONLY girl he looked at like that.
Now I am in a new realtionship, and extremely happy, but it just hurts when I find pictures and stuff. I never snoop around, i just find stuff. and he gets mad if I get upset because he feels like he can't do what "men do".

I don't want to be a whinny ***** and make him feel bad for watching it or whatever, but i just feel like I dont look like those girls. I know it is a mans fantasy, but what part?I want to be his every fantasy.

I dont care that he does watch it, but i hate to find it. In my mind, i think, " how would he feel if my nude pic were being used for another mans fantasy?

I jus need some feedback from the men here.. I'm all ears.

i just dont want to hurt when i see those pictures

2006-12-09 15:11:02 · 21 answers · asked by mili 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been hooking up with this guy and we decided its strictly friends with benefits... so far weve just made out, but im starting to get emotionally attached to this guy.. the thing is, i dont think he is feeling the same way (ie. he doesnt want a gf and im not sure if he really likes me as more than a friend). i NEED to find a way to stop feeling emotionally-close to him --- that will only set me up for rejection.

so how do i become less emotionally-attached? i WANT to keep hooking up, its fun.. i just want these feelings to go away.



(ps.. please dont say get out of the relationship, etc... you wotn be helping. just answer my question please).. thanks.

2006-12-09 15:09:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother-in-law has been living with us since may she was only supposed to be here for a month so she could find a place to rent so she could be close to us. (not a prob) well now it's been 6 months and she refuses to move out. she follows the rules of the house only when my hubby is home and waits outside for him before he gets home from work has tears in her eyes and tell him that i am soo mean and rude to her. well while he is gone she yells and screams at my kids tells me i'm a slob and that i ruined his life by making him get a job to support his family. that i need to be the woman she was and get a job a support the family. (well his dad couldn't walk cuz he was hit by a logging chain and it broke his back). and if i say anything to him about her he gets very pissed at me and if i say anything in my defence he tells me well babe she's my mom and i have to protect her but he complains about all weekend.

is it wrong of me to give him the ultamatum it's her or me and the kids?

2006-12-09 15:09:30 · 22 answers · asked by emotionalyhurtmom 4 in Marriage & Divorce