though they have to watch almost everything I put or have on my computer. Did I mention That I am 24, and that I need my space. And that they really have to back up off me? What should I do. I can't move. and I cannot stand this anymore. When I bring it up, Most of the time they totaly lie about it.
2006-12-09 15:16:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that they don't realize you are as grown up as you are. Try talking to them and tell them they can trust you. Explain to them that you do need some space, they may not realize what they're doing.
2006-12-09 15:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a former 24 year old, I understand your position. That's why I bit the bullet and moved at 18 and never moved back.
The bottom line is you have as many rights in your grandparents' house as they allow you to have.
2006-12-09 23:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by MithrilHawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they get into your accounts if you're using passwords? Put a lock on the bedroom door with your computer inside...remind them you're 24. Best alternative is to move out asap
2006-12-09 23:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need your space then move... You said twice you are twenty four. Act like it ! That is their home. If you wanna make the rules than get one of your own or pay them fair market rent and lock up your room. Your lucky to have grand-parents like this. I think your a little spoiled. Independence needs to be bought and paid for. No one rides for free..
Good Luck
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2006-12-09 23:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by j.swaney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of your financial situation, but maybe it's time to move out. If you had your own place you could do all sorts of things and not have to worry about Grandma breathing down your back.
2006-12-09 23:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your grandparents that you need room to be yourself! Tell them it's the best way to help you be a responsible, young adult. If that don't work, gather some moola and send them on a one way plane to australia! that might give ya' some room. JK!
2006-12-09 23:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason they r doing this is because they care about u.. but i understand wat u mean about your own space....... sometimes u should sit down with your grandparents and tell them how your day was and tell them how u feel about every thing that's going on in your life. open up a little so they can feel like they have a special part in your life
2006-12-09 23:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Val.w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuss them out, get a job save money to move out, or live with a friend, your 24 act like it, they old anyways, I'm 13 and i did dat to ma mom,mom, I made sure she kno I didn't love her or like her, I don't even call her my grandmother cuz shes not, shes not ma mom real mom anyway, so u need to let them kno how ya feel
2006-12-10 00:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by thegoddesslegend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a password on your computer, that should keep them out of it from snooping.
But don't put an obvious password, put one that's complicated.
Like something in spanish.
2006-12-09 23:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply lock your computer with a password that they do not know then watch the frustration they need to get a life so that you can have one
2006-12-09 23:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋