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This scenerio . . . Woman age 50, had been married 20 + years, peacefully divorced 4 yrs., has shared custody with two teens, she is attractive, pretty, in shape, nice, keen mind etc. etc. etc. Honestly . . .what is a man's thought of a woman as this. Would he have interest in dating her, pursuing a full relationship ? I'm confident with myself . . . just wanted to ask guys opinion and thought.

2006-12-09 15:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Mature men dont really care about your past, though knowing you have two children it maybe a good thing or a bad thing depending on the male. But most of the time men dont really bother with the past, good ones focus on the present and the future and thats what it really is all about, as long as the man is comfortable with you then thats all that matters, confidence is a good thing keep that there. The only downside is, not trying to be rude, but its kinda hard to get back into the 'game' at that age, but you never know :]

2006-12-09 15:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by Reimill 2 · 0 0

I had a relationship with a man who was a virgin at 25 when I was 22. It is a good thing. Sure, I teased him about it, but it wasn't to be mean, it was because I found it so cool, and saw it as sweet, endearing, and so not so like myself back then. But as something I wish I had done... There are a lot of girls who feel that way. I know he wasn't offended, after all he knew i adored him... I can honestly say that at 25, it is time for you to begin dating, and remember these points in case you need them when you are dating. As a mother of a 24 year old son and 17 year old daughter... The fact that you are 25 and a virgin does imply to some women that you may be a sucker? But we know better... There are the good ones that will just appreciate who you are and that is what you are looking for. The women who know an intelligent man when they meet him. 1) You never find out a persons issues for at least 6 mos to a year- this can be difficult to face, but better if you just know this now- it will help you pace how fast you fall. Plus, prevent you from falling to a place that isn't so soft... 2) Never involve money in the first 6 mos to a year. Until you know the person well enough. 3) Don't over extend your credit cards to show you are romantic, there is nothing romantic about debt- if you got it and want to spend a lot, go ahead, if not, don't. 4) Enjoy simple things too. Music, coffee, movies, walks, wrestling, bikes, roller blades, lunch,*just remember the kind of fun you had as a kid can be what you can find again when you fall in love, and everyone loves that... If you have the right person- you will find the little girl in them that you find so adorable that you can't stand it... 5) You don't OWE anyone an explanation if you don't want to date them anymore, it could lead to fighting if you are too truthful... Toxic arguements come from saying things judgmental, or even from your perspective if you give them your opinion. It is an insult to injury thing...This will cause you to keep avoiding dating, you will hate the confrontation. If you break a dating relationship off, do it by leaving the other person with some dignity, even if you think she/he has none- lol It is just the higher road okay... Will save you alot of trouble... It isn't weird, it is endearing, it shows restraint, respect, self preservation, and who can't see that? If someone is cruel about it, then they suck. you are still well withing the normal age of being a virgin by choice. Take care... I do wish I waited Dan, I really do... So does a lot of women your age, my age, believe me... ALSO, a lot of men have children at your age that weren't ready, remember that too...

2016-05-23 01:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Guy's don't want to "inherit" children, let alone teenagers unless he's the family oriented type of guy. 50 years old is kinda out there, but if what you say is true (attractive, in shape..etc) then you should be fine though you're gonna have to accept the fact that you're gonna have a tough time, and you're probably gonna have a good chance with elder guys ur age.

2006-12-09 15:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jac R 3 · 0 0

Sure a guy would be interested in dating a woman like that. As far as pursuing a full relationship, that would depend on how the friendship progresses.

2006-12-09 15:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 3 · 0 0

possitive attitude and personality are important.. sounds like you have both of these under control.

i'm sure most single guys your age will also be either divorced and/or have kids from a previous marriage. so they will understand where you are coming from.

i don't think much changes in the entire process.. find a guy, start with a date, and if it works well, date again, and again, and hopefully it will blossom into a relationship..

2006-12-09 15:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok, I'm gonna tell you this bluntly: You're going to have a hard time finding a guy because no one likes eating cold, grilled cheese.

2006-12-09 15:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by brave_ulysses@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0 1

YES. Im sure there are many men interested in a woman such as this.

2006-12-09 15:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by friendly advice from maine 5 · 0 0

Why not? If I were in the same type of situation or close to her in age…

2006-12-09 15:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by blackmann 2 · 0 0

Yes, absolutely! A definite good find!

2006-12-09 15:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why dont you focus on raising your children instead of focusing on your love life.

2006-12-09 15:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Jason W 3 · 0 0

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