Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

Black women: how would you feel if your son or brother got into a serious relationship with, or married, a white woman? Would it make no difference to you, or would you have honest feelings about it, or an opinion? How would you describe those feelings or that opinion?

Someone retold me a comedy routine by a black man in which he said he would only take his white girls out at night, for fear of confrontation from the "sistas." When he came across a group of sistas, he would tell his white girl to walk ahead, that he had to tie his shoe. I have drained some of the humor in the retelling, but I think it was Shakespeare who said there was a bit of truth in every joke.

2006-12-09 15:54:22 · 8 answers · asked by - 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:54:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:54:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is not enough qualified black men to go around so why are so stubborn as a whole to opening our hearts to someone of a different race. Let's admit it our black knight in shining armor may never come and our marriage rate is so low it's depressing to a sistah like me we need to change our attitudes.

2006-12-09 15:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i met a 22 yr old woman on matchdoctor and we have so many things in common. i feel she is my soulmate.

2006-12-09 15:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by THESHADOW 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:51:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how big does he have to be to please you. im just wondering if maybe my standards are too high. i married a guy who is well endowed and im glad i did. i refused another engagment because he didn't measure up.

2006-12-09 15:51:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If guys have a booty call and then they see the girl that calls them up for sex every once an awhile at the club with other guys do they get a lil bit jealous, or not care. Like honestly....

2006-12-09 15:50:37 · 13 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime i find a girl i like it seems like they never notice me i meen im a nice guy and really shy around girls what should i do

2006-12-09 15:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Thomas T 1 in Singles & Dating

okay i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas...he skates and is really easy going.i need to get him something quick and something thats not a hundred bucks.we havent been goin out very long but i still want to get him something......what can i get?

2006-12-09 15:49:56 · 2 answers · asked by spice8us 1 in Singles & Dating

why do females & males stay with the person that beats them silly everyday but never stays with the person that treats them like there gold.Example my sisters had a guy that treated her like she was a queen but she left him and did him dirty then another guy comes alone and treats her like S%$@ and she just stays with them i see this all the time with so many people and i hear this all ''I just too perfect''WHAT???!!! i dont get it are they looking for drama in there life?like for someone to feel sorry for them?

2006-12-09 15:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by James J 1 in Singles & Dating

i gave a bj to a guy that i like a lot and well now i want to tell my friends but how do u tell your friends soemthing like that they know that i made out with him that night

2006-12-09 15:49:02 · 6 answers · asked by hot_noe_1235 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by ulfat_kamal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is a better approach when it comes to getting to know someone that you could potentially want to date? And why?

2006-12-09 15:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend after a long and troublesome relationship (let's just say anyone on the outside knew it wouldn't work). Her mom still thinks that they will get together as she has a kid to him. We've been friends for a while now, but this recent break up just opens the fields for something I wanted to do for a while. However, she does have another friend, who I think is in the same state of mind as me, but from talking to her I know that she never will start a relationship with him. What should I do? Is it to early to ask or should I not risk losing this opportunity?

2006-12-09 15:45:36 · 3 answers · asked by Lost...i think 1 in Singles & Dating

Many people have told me "usually when i'm sick i don't want to talk to anybody, so u should call her tomorrow and ask her how shes feeling" is this true?

2006-12-09 15:45:25 · 4 answers · asked by PlayinDaGame 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 yrs.old women just waiting to get wild, only thing is the right man never come's my way. I wont to have sex so bad and I be hot *** hell. I dont even play with myself because I wont a man to do it for me. There is this one guy I've been knowing for over ten years and if I do give it up I wont it to be him, how do I tell him I wont him to be the one?

2006-12-09 15:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by Chi-Town wild 100's 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:44:32 · 7 answers · asked by clayn1bb 1 in Singles & Dating

she hates me. she only cares about my sister and brother and always tells me whats wrong with me and jumps down my throat every time she speaks to me. either shes barking orders or yelling at me about who i am( i can't change that!) i'm sick of her yelling at me and i'm sick of arguing with her. what should i do?

2006-12-09 15:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Family

I have been married for almost three years. My husband has been in and out of jail our whole marrige. I have worked and supported both of us. Well know he has gotton in trouble again and needs money to get out of it. Well I don't have that kind of money. He is a 40 year old mommy boy. So 12 days ago he left me to go live with his mom because she saod she would help if he left me! Well I have pegged him to come home and explained to him how much i love him and miss him,but he said the only way he would come back is if i had enough money to get him out of trouble! I told him to please stand up for me to his mother and tell her that he needs help with the money but he is going home to his wife but he says he can't do that! Help! Should I continue to cry or just let go?

2006-12-09 15:43:24 · 25 answers · asked by dmbeb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl at work Shelly keeps calling me a fat ugly toothless bittch that smells like rags. I don't like it because I dont think i'm even that fat and its just mean. I told the manager, and she laughed and said maybe I should take a shower. I don't want to tell the store manager, because I dont want to get fired. (I've been fired from 4 jobs in the last month). Should I just beat Shelly up after work tomorrow? I hate her.

2006-12-09 15:42:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I broke up with my ex-gf a month ago. I still really love her alot. I broke up with her because she cant commit to the relationship. I know that she still have feeling for me but she just dont want to have relationship right now.

2006-12-09 15:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by Confused123 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes a family a family? Is it blood, or is it a different kind of bond? Can you make your friends you family? If no, then how does adoption work - the two are smiliar. Thoughts and opinions.

2006-12-09 15:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by The Pope 5 in Family

Like Wendy

2006-12-09 15:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by Leonardo Genteamable 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a young-ish guy, (28), and everynight that he isn't working, he drinks beer. He usually drinks between 4-8 a night....I think that this is a little "overboard". I have tried asking him to lay off a bit, I have tried making jokes about it, I have even just tried to ignore the problem - but I need to know how to deal with it. He is a person who will not really "discuss" anything...or fight for that matter. It just seems to be cutting down on "us" time, because he will drink, and then get so tired from it he will be in bed by 9:00 or 9:30 at night, when I am up until at least 11:00 or so......HELP!!!

2006-12-09 15:40:39 · 19 answers · asked by mrsmollymosher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And what place does that make me?

2006-12-09 15:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 15:39:59 · 5 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

when his mom died he started drinking bad..it got so bad i felt then he said he would never drink again.Today he was going to see his dieing dad .but he dent get there he went out got drunk and got to his sick dads house falling down drunk.The dad called me to tell me about it and he had some one come and get his drunk *** out of his house.Just to let you know he dont get to see his dad we live a houre away so his dad was really happy that he was coming over.but when he did he wanted him out.what do i do

2006-12-09 15:39:43 · 10 answers · asked by miss_kittie2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just cannot figure this out. I was good friends with my neighbours until one day in November the neighbour came to the door with a problem.Iwas not able to answer the door....he told me about the problem on the cellphone and I said """Count me out as a friend" He got angry and told me he would instantly and did not need me. 30 days passed and I sent an explanation letter and apolgy for me behaviour in the letter. He called to tell me he did not appreciate the letter and was taking legal action against me for mystatement about stopping out friendship. I will take off my list completely and sue you. Iwas surprised. he is so angry. I want smoney money money from me. I called the Police to say he was extorting from me. No , he told the police...just want to go ahead with a lawsuit ...see if I get any money from you.....I went to a lawyer to-day to explain the story....No money ,,,,,,but still we do not talk anymore.
IHe hurts over this incident, needs $20,000 from me to make it better?

2006-12-09 15:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce