I love my husband, and one would think that since I get along so well with him that I would get along with his parents. Such is not the case. In the last year, I have been made to feel like I am not a member of their family at all. My husband was bought a ticket to surprise his mother on Mother's day, but I wasn't consulted about it (nor was a ticket bought for our only child). No calls of congratulations on our anniversary, etc, etc. I am not entirely blameless in this rift, since being around them makes me edgy and irritable--we are so different, even our scent preferences are opposite! My question is this: in regards to recent treatment, should I simply remove myself from my in-laws' equation? I'm not saying divorce my husband or prevent my child(ren) from knowing their grandparents; rather, avoid personal contact with them whenever possible to prevent turbulence and ill feelings on both sides. Opinions? Thank you for answering.
2006-12-09
16:19:29
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shoujomaniac101
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