My husband and i are childhood sweetheart.I got prenant when i was 17yrs old.But he left me because they migrate in states.Somehow we have contacts but no support at all for our son.He had a live in partner in states and have the baby and the girl have already a son.After 6yrs he came back to me and no questions at all i accepted him and got married.He promise me a lot for our future and we had a baby aain so we have 2 sons.He staying in states coz he working there and he said he processing our petition.Last yr we separated but we reconcile again but on my back i didnt know that he still living with her partner have another daughter but they separated cz da girl fooling around.and after few months he wants to divorce me again i was shocked coz i dont know what i did wrong.he said he dont love me and feel cold towards me living with the new girl.i admit i stil luv him he wants to come back wth me again but isaid tired and enough.i want to forgive him but i cant forget the pain.pls help.
2006-12-09 16:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are back again tonight? if you love him an want to forgive him then take his sorry a*ss back. that is what you are waiting to hear , so take him back then an you will be on here again asking more questions. i hope you can at the very least read the english we write.
2006-12-09 16:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He for sure is very selfish. He is playing with your emotions.
He does this to you because he knows that you are good
and that you are going to forgive everything he does.
A man that really loves a woman doesn't act that way.
What he is doing to you is called abuse.
Go and talk to a counselor or a preacher.
I hope the best for you.
2006-12-09 16:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. I am glad u stood up to him and said u didnt want him to come bk. That alone takes a lot of courage. Hun u can do so much better than the loser that he sounds like. If at all possible see if u can get child support out of him cuz he needs to help u take care of his sounds. good luck to u.
2006-12-09 16:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fairly shouldn't permit him manage you like that. come across a guy who will manage you like a princess. after all which you deserve it hon. I basically have been given out of a undesirable courting myself. I had to circulate 3300 miles away just to determine i does not circulate back to this guy who did not manage me precise, yet he started hitting and all ultimately. I left till now yet consistently got here back. yet he started fairly controlling and hitting and stuff. Dont permit issues get that undesirable hon. basically circulate on. you're able to do it.
2016-12-11 06:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by cheng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain will continue, as long as u expect him to come back to u, u did nothing wrong, u hurt because u are suffering from a false sense of guilt, u blame yourself for the breakup, but this was his doing, caused by his selfishness. sometimes when men find someone else, they don't want us anymore, and it will hurt, but we can't make anyone love us, i would end it with him, as you know we can't change a snake.
2006-12-10 03:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point enough is enough. He can't just come back to you when he gets tired of her. It sounds like he is using you and I wouldn't stand for it any longer.
2006-12-09 16:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this man is using you when there is no one else around, he is not a good husband, partner of father, as you cannot trust him to be there for you or your children
2006-12-09 16:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. he is only using you and you are allowing him to
2006-12-09 16:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋