i was counting how many people i've slept with, and realized how high my number is...
i'm a 19 year old college student, and alot of my friends seem to think i have nothing to be ashamed of, but i'm still depressed...
should i be ashamed?
2006-12-09 16:26:04 · 13 answers · asked by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows but you? If it bothers you that much then don't add anymore to the list. Otherwise, make peace with yourself and conduct your life differently.
2006-12-09 16:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when I was 19 I had slept with 3 guys, now at 35 I've slept with 15 and I think that is quite a few. But you only need to be ashamed if you are ashamed. You are an individual & everyone is different. I have friends that can't even count how many men they have been with, so just be glad that you can still keep count.Take care
2006-12-10 00:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by lori 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie ashamed is to harsh of a word......reget ful should be more like it.You need to be conserned about the way you feel and why !!If sleeping with 6too many people is making you feel unhappy and deprssed then you need to consider not doing so any more ...asa from today on dont look back !from this momment and forward you are a knew you!!!!you will not sleep around ,you are a K new person in my eyes gods eyes and in your eyes...If any one one ever tries to throw your past in your face ignore the person!!!people have the tendancy of down grading an other person thats trying to change theyr life arround "haters"they want to make you look and feel bad because they them selves dont want any one else to get ahead in life since ther lives are messed up too.Ignore negative people
god will love you and forgive you as long as you ask him to forgive you from your heart...But you gotta remmember you are a knwew person and you will try your hardest to be good to the most inportant person ...your self baby girl ....{i happen to have been in your shoes or may be even worse...so please dont think I dont mean what I am telling you I ve done to much harm to my self spiritually and phisicly ..by sleeping arround ....trust and believe you do not want to have gone to what I have been through...take my advice I do care!!!god bless you and good luck with your Knew you!!!
2006-12-10 00:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes - women especially are programmed to want one mate for life. If you've had more than one, you're throwing yourself away. You should value yourself more than that. You're a valuable princess and should be treated as such. I would urge you to stop putting your heart out to be trampled. You are collecting baggage that you'll carry for the rest of your life. Sex creates a soul tie. You don't want to have to drag a whole net full of ties around do you?
2006-12-10 00:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This in itself should not be a source of shame. Shame on those who would say otherwise.
Yet you ask. Maybe you could spend more time considering why you are concerned in the first place instead of fretting needlessly about the past?
2006-12-10 00:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by zuqaqipum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that, because you have your OWN values and standards. Don't compare your life experiences to anyone else's values or standards, or you may never be happy with yourself!
If you're not happy with your life decisions so far, you still have time to change your ways.
Chin up! :)
2006-12-10 00:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, probably its just thats a big step in a relationship and one night stands are not good and short relationships with sex arent good they normally should be long ones.
2006-12-10 00:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you even have to ask this question should tell you something..no offense
Quit while your ahead
2006-12-10 00:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by rachybaby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi cutie,,
Probably not in all actuality... but i am still avaliable...
good luck
2006-12-10 00:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with rachy baby
2006-12-10 00:51:06 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋