theres a blondie that sits next to me. and well hes so cool! im in middle school shhhhh>.< turning 13 so technically im 12 and a haft shhhh! im a tomboy and well hes a blond guy whos good in sports and cute! and well... i try to hide my love for him and yet my friend guessed it in a snap! what if he knows the exact same thing as my friend?! i really like him but i dont know what to do cause im a tomboy and so flirting really isnt my thing. what do i do?! i was dumped not long ago by my bf and i really DONT want to look like a fool! and im just so scared because im scared that he would reject me. when i was first saw him after my break up i imediatly fell in love and well i guess that i just really want someone to love me again... sob>.< what should i do?!
2006-12-09 16:19:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude! i was like totally kidden! i older then that! i was just tryin to see how it would be like to see the eyes of a 12 year old!a sheesh!
2006-12-09 16:26:28 · update #1
12 year olds dont need lovers.
2006-12-09 16:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill sweetheart, you've got a whole life ahead of you. There will be many many boys that you will fall for and get serious over but keep your cool, especially around him. Maybe he'll notice you and maybe not. If he doesn't its his misfortune and none of your own, to coin a phrase from an very old song. Anyway you've got plenty of time to look and in 2 weeks I'll bet you'll see another guy you like. Good luck and have a Merry Christmas.
PS Be careful how you use the word "lover" I believe it has a different conotation than you meant in your question. You don't want people to think you are talking sex here at your age.
2006-12-10 00:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be everything you need to be to yourself - and then consider being something to somebody else. At 12, and even at 13, you need to focus on school and your other interests and limit the time you spend worrying about boyfriends. It's okay to talk to your girls about the cute boys you know, but slow down. There is plenty of time to spend with boyfriends in your 20's and 30's, and it will be more fun then, too. Please try and take up a sport or dancing so that you can get out your extra energy in a healthy way. At your current age, boys or men of any age are likely to try to take advantage of you if you show interest.
I know you want someone to love you, and I'm sure many people do! But - you need to spend time developing your own character and life experience so that you can love yourself. Once you love yourself, no break-up can take that away.
2006-12-10 00:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. You're asking how to get someone to like/love you. The best answer I can give is to learn to love yourself. Become your own best friend. You have control over your life in the way you choose to view it. So view your life as filled with magic and fantasy. Look at everything as an opportunity to grow, to learn, to love. Then, as you grow in love for yourself you will find others love you. They will admire how you are happy and filled with love. Will your particular boy notice...if he doesn't, you don't want someone who is so insensitive. Loving yourself is a full-time proposition, and something you should do all your life. Life is a continuing adventure and is as filled with excitement as you wish to make it. Do so. Your option. And as you live and love, others will love you. Go for it.
2006-12-10 00:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know how you feel well im 14 so when i was 12/13 i liked this boy. all my friends knew and everything. and im a tomboy to so i understand. have you tryed talking to him. i think you should try to be friends first and maybe he likes you and will ask you out
2006-12-10 00:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by live life to the fullest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl focus on your work and no on them boys. Trust me, you have the rest of your life to meet other guys, why start now when you can enjoy the childhood-ish things. Plus, guys this age usually only ask out girls if they know that the girl likes them, otherwise they are too shy... so its a good thing if he knows you like him...
2006-12-10 00:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by blueghettogirl8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first your 12, so relax. your not gonna meet your future husband now. you have plenty of time to fall in love. let the ugy notice you. if you keep this up and trying to get him to like you, you'll seem desperate and emotionally needy. take a deep breath and relax. the right guy will come to you.
2006-12-10 00:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become his friend...you have to flrit at least a little....DO NOT PRETEND TO BE ANY ONE YOUR NOT.....than after you konw the guy well than you ask him in a pritive place just the two u...but don't stright out and ask him sit with him a little watch a movie and than after talking you ask.
2006-12-10 00:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woooooooooooooow. You need a LOVER. In middle school. wowwwww...and I didn't get my first kiss until I was 17...
2006-12-10 00:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been more frightened in my entire life. This is what children think about these days? I could slap the hell out of your parents.
2006-12-10 00:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by I hate friggin' crybabies 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋