she hates me. she only cares about my sister and brother and always tells me whats wrong with me and jumps down my throat every time she speaks to me. either shes barking orders or yelling at me about who i am( i can't change that!) i'm sick of her yelling at me and i'm sick of arguing with her. what should i do?
2006-12-09 15:43:28 · 9 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well its worse because i'm 15
2006-12-09 17:03:52 · update #1
Believe it or not, this seems to happen somewhat often. It's possible that she may be doing this because she expects more from you then she expects from your bro and sis. In a sense, that is a compliment, but at the same time, if she is constantly verbally assaulting you, then that is a problem. It isn't acceptable. I suggest speaking with a school counselor, so you can discuss the details of your situation to find out what to do.
2006-12-09 16:13:04 · answer #1 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhh baby, I'm so sorry that you feel that way. I'm sure your mum still loves you. Maybe she is finding things a little rough right now? And then she's taking it out on you. It's not right what she is doing, but it sounds like she is under a lot of stress.
The only thing that I can suggest that you do is to make her a cuppa on a day that things are a little quieter and then sit her down at the table, and tell her how she is making you feel. I'm sure she DOES love you and if you calmly explain how you feel she may stop and think about what she is doing. She may even burst into tears, but don't freak out, just put your arms around her and let her know that you love her.
Good luck sweetheart.
2006-12-09 16:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live with her. This is most moms. I have also had this problem, even when you think you did right. One thing, when you move out of the house, things will get better. Once I moved out, my mom and my relationship got so strong. I remember growing up my mom would tell me "you'll understand when you have kids of your own" I had my little one and I can now understand where she was coming from when I thought she was being mean. If you can move out, try. Or ask her what is it you are doing wrong to help change it.
Give Time!!!! Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-09 16:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww - I'm really sorry. Maybe she sees herself more in you than the others and knows how she made mistakes and just wants to keep you from making the same mistakes. Anyway, its got to be hard. I feel bad for you. Try to talk with her and see if things can get worked out. Good luck.
2006-12-09 15:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some time when you and she can just talk. maybe it would be a good idea to ask her out to lunch or buy her a cup of coffee?
Start being friends with your mother--obviously she's a little stressed with things at home and maybe she doesn't even realize when she's doing this to you.
2006-12-10 05:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-10 10:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the oldest?? And forgive me for saying this, she needs to get laid, to chill out and relax.
2006-12-09 15:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
go live with a friend!!!!!
2006-12-09 16:43:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more details...
how old are you?
2006-12-09 17:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pregnant with baby# 2!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋