why do females & males stay with the person that beats them silly everyday but never stays with the person that treats them like there gold.Example my sisters had a guy that treated her like she was a queen but she left him and did him dirty then another guy comes alone and treats her like S%$@ and she just stays with them i see this all the time with so many people and i hear this all ''I just too perfect''WHAT???!!! i dont get it are they looking for drama in there life?like for someone to feel sorry for them?
2006-12-09 15:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by James J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry my spelling is not so good right now im just kinda angery at how stuip some people can be
2006-12-09 15:51:07 · update #1
some times people Arn't sure what they want and end up not so well off. people also expect their relationship to always stay like it was when they meet. that's a fairy tail.a marriage gets more comfortable as time goes on the Fire hasn't went out but it burns forever. not every one dose that their are steal good people out there.
2006-12-09 16:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is your sister I don't really know. The classes I am in, we've gone over and over that. Sometimes it is the persons childhood. If they were ever around any sort of abuse while growing up, then that is what they are use to. If you have an alcoholic parent, your more inclined to go for an aetiology partner. It is screwed up I know. We allow how others treat us. In some cases it is part of being a drama queen. Also, you can have this perfect guy who treats you like a queen, but sometimes you get bored with that, you need someone different, more out going,. Not all women like being treated like a queen at all times. It's nice, but everyone wants a little wild, and with the nice guy, there wild may not be wild enough. As for the ones who wants other to feel sorry for them. They have other problems, not like that, they need to have people feel sorry for them to help them feel better about themselves.
Sorry I don't ever see an end to any of this, and I'm afraid there will never be an answer. Good Luck, You'll Need It!!
2006-12-10 00:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure why someone would leave someone that treats them right.....but when a person is being abused, they develop a complex that they cannot escape the abuser. sometimes the abuser fuels the complex...but it's still there. the abused may have very low self esteem and they feel that no one will ever want them, so they stay because at least they are with someone. they may see that the abuse is some form of (twisted) love and affection. it's hard for the abused to leave...but they have to make up their mind and do it.
2006-12-09 23:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of women feel that they don't deserve a good man. Its basically a reflection of their self-esteem and self-worth. If women feel low about themselves, they will feel that they aren't capable of getting a good man. They will settle for whatever comes along. Women with high self-esteem have a better sense of what they want and need, so they don't even get themselves in situations like that.
2006-12-09 23:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by youngiftedblackmm91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sum of the pplz r scared 2 leave the abuser
they feel that they will change... just give them time
sum THINK they r in luv
talk with ur sister show how she could end up if she stays with the abuser
2006-12-09 23:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by amber r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bc they are broken inside. the abuser has taken things from them that makes them weak and even a strong person can surcome to this kind of abuser. but if they are strong and get tired sooner or later they will over come it and get out.
2006-12-09 23:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young man that's a great question , but your asking the wrong people you need to ask that person, and then you have your answer
2006-12-09 23:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be stupidity.
Could be the challenge they present.
Could be lack of self-esteem.
Could be a masochist.
The list is endless ...
2006-12-09 23:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Kalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people think they can do no better or that they can change the other person_
2006-12-09 23:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋