My mum only thinks of her favourite son but she doesn’t think for me. Dad wanted to buy me a car and she immediately stopped him and convinced him to buy something for my brother. My mum always discourages me to buy things which I like. Not long ago, I have to use most of my savings to pay her and my brother's debts. She now wanted me to pay some of my brother's monthly expenses. Is this fair? What should I do?
2006-12-09 14:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That is so sad. Your Mom is cruel. She sounds like the child and you need to move out and let them worry about their own debts.
2006-12-09 14:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is best if you speak to your mother and father about this. Make sure you cite actual instances where they have left you out. It is one thing for a mother to have a "favorite" but it is entirely another thing to make another child feel that they are loved less.Your father shouldn't condone this behavior either. Speak to them and let them know how much it hurts you. If you think it will be an emotional conversation, take the time to write a letter.
2006-12-10 10:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT fair and you shouldn't let them run over you like you're a nobody! Your mom is evil and is taking full advantage of you. Put your foot down and tell her NO!!! What is she going to do? Steal your money? If you're old enough hurry up and get your own place.
I wouldn't speak to my mother if she was that way. That is just bad.
2006-12-09 22:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what!she wanted you to pay some of your brother's monthly expenses,help your brother is the good thing.but,why your mum very selfish with you nd your brother also can work himself and also can pay monthly expenses for himself.plz go nd with your brother conservation nd also with your mum .god bless you .good luck!
2006-12-09 22:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same thing me and my 2 brothers are completely ignored by my mom and she only pays attention to her boyfriends daughter
2006-12-09 22:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by dylan n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not even realize she's doing that, or maybe she knows your mature enough to lead a successful life and that he isn't, so she has to baby him. Either way, I think you should confront your mother about what you feel. Talking things out makes it better. :-)
2006-12-09 22:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your moms mind, your brother needs more help then you do and so she is trying to do more for him . She also probably believes that you can taker care of yourself....
Favoratism --> yes but not totally unjustified.... Not much you can do.... Hope that your brother gets over this rough time so that maybe she can focus more on you...
2006-12-09 22:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by JohnS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is completely unfair as well as unkind of your mother to ask all this of you. Are you old enough to get your own place to live? I would simply not take her behavoir anymore and tell her why.
2006-12-09 22:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not . its the same for me my mom never says no to my little bro. he gets video games and toys and she always wants me to clean his room! but i can't even get a quizznos chopped sald. its a shame but when we're older we should put them in state run nursing homes.
2006-12-09 22:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by corie j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom is so mean tell her that she should love u and your brother the same way
2006-12-09 23:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋