I have been married for seven years now, and I have known my husband since the sixth grade (I'm 30 y.o). We have always been great friends and just had our second child together.
Lately, I have been feeling really depressed and almost trapped in our relationship. I feel like he has gotten so used to me, that he doesn't appreciate me as a person. It's the little things that count and he doesn't do those things anymore.
I find myself crying a lot lately and just wanting to feel a closer bond with him again, but no matter how hard I try, I feel like we are losing that spark that attracted us to one another in the first place.
In the heading, I asked if it could be me because I have been feeling rather lonely and in some cases depressed. It's hard to interpret wheter I feel like this because of the relationship between my husband and me or my own insecurities are destroying the relationship. I could use some solid, friendly advice right now to get me out of this rut.
Help.
2006-12-01
17:47:17
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Nikki Sun
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Marriage & Divorce