Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

i am happily engaged to be married,but my husband is locked up for 25year(not settling 4 that) ,as he's away,my first love (ex man) contacts me and wants to get back with me we never broke up on bad terms it was just long distance relationship.i still love him and i wouldn't mind getting back with him but at the same time i'm in love with my fiance and i promised to wait on him,please help me what shouuld i do???????????

2006-11-29 15:06:10 · 31 answers · asked by Im Just Blessed 2 in Singles & Dating

to have a girlfriend and boyfriend?

2006-11-29 15:06:07 · 16 answers · asked by Paul 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 15:05:50 · 2 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I do to him.....

2006-11-29 15:05:17 · 28 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

Does my height have an effect on my personality. some times i feel different when i hang out with some of my friends who are much shorter than me.

2006-11-29 15:04:04 · 15 answers · asked by grese 1 in Singles & Dating

Here 's my situation. I was married for 4 yrs and then divoirced. My ex is now living a life of leasure and has not paid any child support for his son since Nov of 2004. He is self employed as a drywaller and therefore his wages can't be garnished. I know where he lives and his phone number and FMEP won't do anything to help. He never sees or even bothers to call to check up on his son. I am still friends with his sisters and they tell me how he is buying himself a new car, his girlfriends diamond necklaces and so forth. I don't know where to turn to get help. Now I am very ill and my fiances are not as much as they used to be and any help from him would be good. His court order is only $208.oo/mth. If you are a parent you know that this amount to raise a child is nothing. He is making good money and knows his child has a life threatnig illness that requires very expensive medication each month Yet he refuses to take any responsibility. Helpful advise would be appreciated.

2006-11-29 15:04:03 · 17 answers · asked by akafinewine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why do some people who are on public aid keep having kid after kid instead of exercising some form of birthcontrol. i can see making one mistake but then bringing more kids into the world that you cant take care of?my neighbor was 24 and had 5 kids, her oldest was 10. one time i babysat for her and they got on my nerves so bad. i cant imagine bringing that many children in the world. i know a lack of education/ knowledge can be a culprit but exercise common sense.

2006-11-29 15:03:46 · 9 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 15:03:21 · 3 answers · asked by some1 2 in Friends

I have a friend that I really care for, and want to show him that i really love him. He is older than me, and has more things on his plate to deal with than I do right now. I don't think he would ever comsitter me girlfriend material for the fact that he probably thinks it's un realistic, and I am too young.( I think that If I make smart choices I could be a good supportive person for him, and I'm in no rush for an actual "gf" label I just want him to know that I care a lot and will do what I can ) I know he's attracted to me, physically because we've hooked up, and he also is a good friend to me. He teaches me things, listens to me and is super patient.(I'm a handful to have a conversation with somtimes) I just don't know how to tell him that i don't just "think he's cute" I accually feel somthing for him and I want to be there, as well as have him there to keep me "going straight"....but if i tell him I love him, I think i might scare him away..what are ways I can show, not tell?help

2006-11-29 15:02:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the importance of friendship to you? What traits does ur best friend have and why are you to friends?

2006-11-29 15:02:19 · 9 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Friends

My boyfriend is deeply in love but its too soon and i dont love him as much as he loves me. Hes always talking about how happy he is and that I am "the one" but its only been a month and a half ! I dont know what to do because I love him but Im not in love and infatuated with him at this point. I want to stay with him because I think he is an amazing guy, but I worry so much! Here he is handing me his whole heart and Im not ready yet but i dont want to blow any chance of being with him. What should I do?

2006-11-29 15:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's just messing with you or he's really interested?

2006-11-29 15:01:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont want to hurt her or anything, but there's just this girl at school who thinks that she can have my boyfriend when I'm not around and I just want to make it clear to her that I DONT like to share. lol. I have tried talking to her but apparently that doesnt work. lol

Got any ideas??

2006-11-29 15:00:57 · 31 answers · asked by CaLiFoRnIa_PaGeAnT_GiRl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had my first experience with a 3 some for the first time a couple of months ago, and I have been in my relationship for 7yrs, I have been not interested or having a sexual desire for quite a while now, but when I had the 3 some, you couldn't get my close off fast enough.
Is this because I am ready for someone else or just the fact that my boyfriend let me sleep with another man?

2006-11-29 15:00:25 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

So there is this really cute guy on my bus, he is smart, handsome, and funny. everyday on the bus he stares at me and he always talks to me and i think he likes me.
my friend thinks he likes me because he always asks to look at my cell phone and ipod. I really want him to ask me out? i need some advice!

But.. what should i do?
I need some help/advice!
Thank You!

2006-11-29 14:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by ♡I Love Christmas!♡ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 14:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't drive one, but that has always been my impression.

Would you be suspicious if a man picked you up to go out on a date in a mini van?

2006-11-29 14:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by BionicNahlege 5 in Friends

me and my boyfriend have been to gether for about 1yr 1/2 he wants to know waht i want for X-mas.... What do i tell him i mean i dont relly want of need anythang... and also what should i get him

2006-11-29 14:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by LonzmGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is normally happy and cheerful but this recent development has really crushed her. How can I try to make her feel better?

2006-11-29 14:55:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why is it that sex has become such a casual concept in ppl's minds. Sleeping with someone outside of marriage "used" to be considered wrong, but now it doesn't seem to affect anyone. Sometimes it feels that those of us who actually are saving our virginity for our husbands are in the minority now adays. (and fyi for everyone that reads this I'm only 20, so I'm not an old lady stating this stuff) Why is it that sex outside of marriage is okay now?

2006-11-29 14:55:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in highschool and I was wondering if girls lose interest over time if I don't act or they do lose it in some other way?

thanks

2006-11-29 14:55:03 · 16 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 14:54:29 · 3 answers · asked by sincere man 1 in Singles & Dating

If you have had sex within the last 2 or 3 weeks or whenever and you (or your girlfriend) have missed your period YES YOU COULD BE PREGNANT! I cannot believe how many people ask this question!!! What are we teaching our kids these days? Don't they know if they have unprotected sex that they can get pregnant! If you have unprotected sex TAKE A TEST!!!!! Is anyone else tired of this exact same question????

2006-11-29 14:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

IN ORDER FROM BEST TO LEAST
examples: cute, pretty, beautiful, hot, good-looking, nice-looking, etc.
feel free to select your own words in a top 10 list.
that would be swell if you could tell me.

2006-11-29 14:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 14:53:43 · 11 answers · asked by NESSA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am begining to think that guys have a little ***** in them. Why is that guys(boyfriend or watever) will be happy one minute or bitchy the next. For example..I was online and asked my bf what he was doing..just to start conversation. He says dang...I was just talking to my mom and aunt. And personally I was like what the hell..and I explained to him it was just starting convo. But im sure if I was doing the same thing..I got a bad attitude or im pms'n. Also sometimes if he is having family problems or something happens...he lashys out at me. I think maybe beacause he I am the closet thing to him and his family isnt going to take that kind of attitude. Can any guy or women explain this?

2006-11-29 14:53:20 · 1 answers · asked by SweetestTaboo 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been trying to hook him up with my friend but i guess im starting to get feelings for him and i think they are wrong. what should i do? tell him or ignore my feelings.

2006-11-29 14:52:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 14:51:58 · 37 answers · asked by paresh p 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a two year old daughter and i feel that staying at home and taking care of her before she goes to school is realy importent, but my boyfriend and other people think i sit on my ass all day. and it realy offends me. what do you think should i put my daughter into daycare and go to work or should i take the oppertunity to stay at home and take care of her while she is still young.

2006-11-29 14:51:56 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

Okay, I know I'm niave and in 7th grade and all, but I am not sure if this boy was just being nice, or he really likes me. So, me and my friend were walking in the school hallways after school, these three 8th grade boys were standing by the door to exit the building. One of the boys, who I am friends with, asked me if I go left or right to walk home. I said right. Then he asked me if I was walking home, and if I wanted to walk with him. I said I was not going home yet. Then we just talked for a few minutes and he left. In the 8th grade class in my school, their class has always been compfortable with the opposite sex. So I don't know if he likes me, or he was just being nice. I kind of do have a crush on him a little bit because he is really nice. But I do have a serious crush on another boy in my grade:)

2006-11-29 14:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by Addicted To Abercrombie & Fitch 2 in Singles & Dating