I have a friend that I really care for, and want to show him that i really love him. He is older than me, and has more things on his plate to deal with than I do right now. I don't think he would ever comsitter me girlfriend material for the fact that he probably thinks it's un realistic, and I am too young.( I think that If I make smart choices I could be a good supportive person for him, and I'm in no rush for an actual "gf" label I just want him to know that I care a lot and will do what I can ) I know he's attracted to me, physically because we've hooked up, and he also is a good friend to me. He teaches me things, listens to me and is super patient.(I'm a handful to have a conversation with somtimes) I just don't know how to tell him that i don't just "think he's cute" I accually feel somthing for him and I want to be there, as well as have him there to keep me "going straight"....but if i tell him I love him, I think i might scare him away..what are ways I can show, not tell?help
2006-11-29 15:02:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, bake him some goodies that he likes. give him a friendly hug when you see him. be honest and tell him how you feel. if he is the person you say, he will be flattered.
2006-11-29 15:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by crush_velvet2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be safe say you care about him that means the same but they dont know that. When you become his girlfriend its a different story you say it now yes you will scare him off. Good luck
2006-11-29 15:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just work up to saying it gradually. don't rush it, but don't hesitate. If you take too long, he might feel the same way, and like you, but doesn't want to scare you off either. he might find someone else if you wait too long... so take it slowly until you get to where you are able to tell him how you feel. good luck.
2006-11-29 15:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by thatoneguy90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok how much older is the question hon and if you are in a good age range then just tell him how you feel...not giving all away but say that you care for him and want to know if he feels the same way...go for it!
2006-11-29 15:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you do not have to come out and say i love you. , but you can show your love in other ways that are less direct.
keep on doing what you are doing.
2006-11-29 15:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno
2006-11-29 15:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by PublicSUD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋