i have been trying to hook him up with my friend but i guess im starting to get feelings for him and i think they are wrong. what should i do? tell him or ignore my feelings.
2006-11-29 14:52:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur friend hasnt met him yet and started going out with him then u should take a chance at it
2006-11-29 14:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why you have developed feelings for this guy in the first place? Well it's because it was you who was doing all the work. It was you taking the time to get to know this guy to see if he'll be interested in your friend. It was you who was doing the talking and listening. By the time you're done doing all of the research you can't help but become involved.
Your feelings are real so how could they ever be consider wrong feelings. You are human aren't you?
Would it be wrong for him to start having feelings for you? After all it is you that he has been dealing with. Would you turn him down if he were to approach you instead of your friend? Would you be telling him that he needs to turn his feelings on for you and not for you?
The respectful thing to do is to continue your mission (as a match-maker). Once your mission has been completed or failed. You are then free to go about your way with this guy.
If your friend blames you for the outcome of your service where the guy does not have interest in you. Then your friend is not facing reality. The chemistry has to be there for two people before anything can happen.
So what are you going to do? Tell or not tell? I say wait and see what happens.
2006-11-29 15:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, I'd stop hooking up the guy with a friend, and express my interest in this person unless they had start to like each other.
2006-11-29 15:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by nid2bhapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off never try and hook a guy it Will backfire...and just be friends honey...you should value yourself way more...let them try and hook you!
2006-11-29 14:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur friend liked him first then u need to let her have him and u need to stop interfering or things will get out of hand b/c when it comes to girls liking guys and u take them then they get really mad adn trust me b/c i was one of those ppl who got really mad and i even got depressed so i dont think u want to do that to ur friend,its not worth it,ur friend's feelings is more important
2006-11-29 14:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, Ever try to be a matchmaker.....always ends in disaster.
2006-11-29 14:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your feelings. too late...if he hasn't gone out with her yet and he asks you out then go out with him...
2006-11-29 15:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your friend tht you like him and was wondering if he had feelings for you
2006-11-29 14:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit being scared and tell him
2006-11-29 14:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him .... i have the same problem lol
2006-11-29 14:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by udontknowme! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋