Im in highschool and I was wondering if girls lose interest over time if I don't act or they do lose it in some other way?
thanks
2006-11-29 14:55:03 · 16 answers · asked by joey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yah we lose intrest but it for all sorts of reasons, they might find someone else or just find something out about you that they really don't like or they might not have liked you at all.
2006-11-29 14:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would loose interest just because I think the guy is the one that needs to make the first move.
I'm old fashion like that. I mean, I'll ask him to dance and stuff and I'll initiate a conversation but the guy needs to be the one to ask the girl out.
So yes, if the guy doesn't pursue anything, the girl will start to think there isn't a future.
It depends on the girl though too. Some will go after the guy.
2006-11-29 14:58:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a gurl an i no from personal experience that yes we do lose interest if nothing happens coz we get sik an tired of waiting for u guys 2 make a move
2006-11-29 14:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well dear if you mean sexually, I'd say no! You can do alot of other things to make her feel special. If it's sex she's wanting & that's all then I'd say so long to her anyway. To many V.D.'S passing around for a quickie. I wasn't sure what you were really asking me here so are you wanting to act or what? Is the girl ready & you are't if not don't rush it. In high school emotions & hormones are changing so fast no one should be getting serious & enjoying school & studies. KAT
2006-11-29 15:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by KAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they really love you then they shouldnt. unless thats all they're after. dont do it if oyu arent comfortable. you need to loose it to the right person, same with them. i was with my bf for over 1 1/2 years b4 we both lost ours with eachother. we decided we were in a pretty serious relatinship and are going to be with eachother for a long time possibly get married. our 2 year anniversay is on monday...but they shoudl not loose interest if they really love you. just respect eachothers decsions and wait if she isnt comoftable wiht it yet. and if you are not comfortable wiht loosing it yet either she will need to respect your decsion too! do nto end up with a girl that thats all she's after, nor do nto become that guy.
good luck!
love shoudl keep you guys togehter (anyone for that matter) not sex or lack of it
2006-11-29 14:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Damn Straight they do! I wasted a whole lot of my time with guys. But then I am speaking from an adults point of view so not sure what you mean by cracking.
2006-11-29 15:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man, if you ain't got nowt goin on, your outta the picture, forget about about my son! The ladies want to be entertained every waking hour & any female to say different needs to have her mouth washed out, cos shes lying!
Entertain, always entertain!
2006-11-29 15:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by paddy a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they lose interest, it was never meant to be anyway. But, yes, all you have to do is pay us attention and we probably won't lose interest
2006-11-29 14:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kim Possible 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah.
if a guy never acts on his feelings, the girl usually will feel like trying with him is pointless. and then try with someone who does.
2006-11-29 14:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by poprocksncoke030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl... does she act like she wants something more? maybe if your questioning this you should just ask your girl how she feels or tell her how you feel about it.
2006-11-29 14:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by tigersnw86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋