how can i get revenge on some girl who is trying to take my boyfriend from me?

Question

I dont want to hurt her or anything, but there's just this girl at school who thinks that she can have my boyfriend when I'm not around and I just want to make it clear to her that I DONT like to share. lol. I have tried talking to her but apparently that doesnt work. lol

Got any ideas??

Answer 1

is gum in her hair an option?...worked for me...>.>...<.<
omg wait!!! put plastic wrap in her gas tank, it'll drive her crazy cuz it'll stop for a little while n then once the plastic wrap settles down it'll start again, and she'll just go nuts till she takes and pays to get it fixed...that also works =-D
or put visine in her drink =D
and to all those giving me thumbs down for ANSWERING her question, she didnt ask your OPINION shes asked for ideas so knock it off!!! it makes me sad =(

Answer 2

Hello m'dear

I believe that straight out communication is your earmark? It sounds like you value giving others your opinion and this is probably a situation where you could tell that young woman AND your boyfriend how you are feeling about the situations that have been happening. The relationship is really between you and your boyfriend, isn't it? He is the one who needs to respect the boundaries in your relationship, if he respects you... you really have no control over how other people interact with him in your absence.

It's like this: nobody owns no body. But it is really useful for a man to know that you feel vulnerable when he ... hmm... doesn't discourage flirtation with other women in your absence. These are basic trust issues. What does he need to do/say for you to be confident that he is not going to be disloyal to you regardless of what "temptations" are slung his way?

All the best!

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Answer 3

Women are our worst enemy and the more you let them get under your skin, the more games they play. I personally would just let it go, maybe this might be a game to her to see how you would react or she could very well like him. But, if he is doing something to trigger her in without you knowing then you might not want to take revenge on her but start asking your man what the hell he is doing? If he seriously hasn't any interest in her i wou;dn't worry about it and just ignore her, that will toatlly make you look strong because she doesn't bother you. But, watch out to make sure he isn't being naughty behinde your back so you don't look like the girl who got played. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Well...talk to the girl and polietly ask her why she is doing this....but before that ask ur bf why he is flirting with her. maybe he likes her too or hes a player or sumthin. But either way u need to think about your self and if u have doubts that ur bf is being taken by another girl then think of it this way....he doesnt deserve u anyway. its good that u dont want to hurt her, and since she isnt comprimising, let it be and if ur bf is out theere falling for let him go, u can do better. and be happy! i hope this helped!

Answer 5

I'd have to agree with Equine. The best bet is to have your BOYFREIND make it clear to her that its not goign to happen. Its not your place and he should stick up for you so you dont have to deal with it. He shouldnt have a problem with this if he loves you and isnt encouraging her. That will certainly get her to not like HIM which is what you want right?

Answer 6

I've had that problem before. I was walking down the hallway with my boyfriend...HOLDING HIS HAND...and this girl came up and said, "Hey, ______, do you want to go out with me?" Then my boyfriend said, "Don't you see I already have a girlfriend?" "Yeah, but I can give you better!" I'm serious! She really said that while I was sitting right there! Me and my boyfriend just walked away from her! The best thing you can do is ignore her.

Answer 7

Well, this is all going to be based on your guy.

If he definitly doesn't want anything to do with her, then you tell him to MAKE SURE he makes that clear to her. It really doesn't help you (even if you pull something off) if he goes off and encourages her. You have to make sure you both are on the same page.

Believe me, the worst diss you can give her is to have you boyfriend be a jerk to her, whether you are around or not.

And if he refuses to make it clear to her because he likes the attention, then you can always find another boyfriend hun.

Answer 8

CaL: Tell your boyfriend to tell the "vulture" that he is not interested in her and MEAN IT !!! If she doesn't feel welcome, she won't come around. It takes "two to tango", as the saying goes ... and NOT putting out the welcome mat should do the trick ! If this doesn't work, it spells trouble for you and translates into your boyfriend wants her around when you are absent. Keep an eye on your boyfriend's body language when you tell him to tell her, to "vamoose" !!!

Answer 9

Hun, I know just how you feel. Except the girl thats after my guy is an ex of his. At first I wanted to shove something in her face, but then I realized...hmmm.. i have him, not her. So you just enjoy him. Being jealous and trying to keep him from talking to her will only turn him away. Guys' like happy girls, not fighters! lol

Answer 10

If he is true to you then you should not need to get revenge. I think if you have talked to her then the ball is now in his court. What is he doing that makes her feel like she can have him?

Answer 11

Well Jesus Freak, What would Jesus do? Who knows but I doubt that it would include revenge. I think you need to talk to your boyfriend about this. Its really up to him isn't it? If he respects your relationship with him he has to do his part. He's the one who has to tell her whether or not he's interested or if she should leave him alone. And if he did that, wouldn't it be sweet? If not, its sour but better to know the truth. God bless.